Sex and weight loss

[JustAskJulie]

As you may have read I lost about 20lbs over the summer, mostly due to illness. Also due to said illness I wasn't feeling much like having sex for most of that time. So by the time we got back to having sex it was like I had a different body, and I'm still trying to get used to how positions feel different or how positions that I used to really enjoy just don't work the same anymore. For instance, one of my favorite positions is me on my back with the guy on his knees facing me... but now I'm finding that since I seem to have lost a large portion of my ass this position doesn't work as well. Instead I have to put my legs over his shoulders and hold myself up off the bed/floor/whatever to get the same angle (or put a pillow under my ass).

I'm guessing had I lost weight normally and been having sex the whole time I would have adjusted as the weight was lost and not really noticed it as much. Has anyone else gone through this and noticed that sex is different after a weight loss (or gain)?

[fun4Ds]

Glad to hear you are losing weight Julie Thats admirable !

I kind of collected your 20 pounds I don't feel to good about myself. Let alone the biggest eating seasons of the year are at hand

The sex yer talking about is not good at all for me right now...

Mrs fun isn't back yet, and you do have a way of making people horny




Oh wait, I think she is pulling in now

I sure hope she's "in the mood"

[crazinred]

I can relate with you. Because of the hip problem I gained some weight and wasn't as active as I would have liked along with next to no sex. Now the hip is much better and I have lost around 50 lbs in the last year and actually 30 in the last 2 months. I still need to loose alot more but already feel more stamina and can work with many more positions. Red has also lost some weight and for us so far it just is making things better.

[arvcpl]

Weight loss/gain can change how some positions and techniques work for you. Some for the better, some for the worse.

If you've lost some padding on the backside, it may have made your favorite position a little more labor intensive (that's one of my favorites too and my wife is a skinny-minny and it takes two folded pillows to get her hips up high enough where as some of our play partners can just lay flat on their backs)

One position that I like that works better with smaller butts is doing it in the spooning position. Maybe now that you are carrying a little less in the trunk you could give that a whirl and see what you think of it.

Weight loss may make some old favorites a little more difficult but it may also open up some new doors.

BTW I want to make perfectly clear I am meaning absolutely no offense to anyone in anything I have said. Weight and sex are always a sensitive topic.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I'm guessing had I lost weight normally and been having sex the whole time I would have adjusted as the weight was lost and not really noticed it as much. Has anyone else gone through this and noticed that sex is different after a weight loss (or gain)?

Yes.

With my own periods of weight gain/loss and my wifes recovery from a couple of kids we have been able to tell the difference. Weight loss on either partners part is a virtual penis extension. Belly fat gets in the way of full penetration and I know I can go deeper on a skinny woman. I also find it easier to have more dynamic sex with lighter partners as I can move them around better while having sex and its a lot easier to change positions.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by arvcpl

One position that I like that works better with smaller butts is doing it in the spooning position. Maybe now that you are carrying a little less in the trunk you could give that a whirl and see what you think of it.

That's another one that we often enjoyed before and while I don't think we've tried it since on our sides, we've done it with me flat on my stomach and him entering me in the same basic way and mg: Chicup's comment about the virtual penis extension ain't kiddin'!

[MrkLin]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Weight loss on either partners part is a virtual penis extension. Belly fat gets in the way of full penetration (snip...)

What he said! ^^^

I've lost 25lbs over the past year, and I can ding-donged sure tell the difference! We can get a lot closer now, and the only things touching are our naughty bits.

I too have a lot more stamina, and that comes in very handy at some parties. We've never found that we can't enjoy a certain position anymore - quite the opposite. We enjoy our favorite positions a lot more now, because I don't have that gut in the way.