Women: How do you like your oral?

[JustAskJulie]

I believe that for the most part every woman likes different things when they recieve oral sex. But, at the same time, the core of what we all like is the same. So what is it that you really enjoy when getting oral sex? And if you are bi, do you do those same things when you give oral sex? Do you do something totally different? Or do you try to pay attention to how the other woman responds and give accordingly?

[K&JIntimates]

The thing I enjoy the most is having my clit sucked on. Combine that with having my nipples rubbed and I won't last long.

When giving oral to another woman I try to keep what I enjoy in mind while still trying to pay attention to what I think she is enjoying the most.

[TravlParty]

Suck the clit, lick the nipples.

[screaminggood]

I like it slow and sensual....start with licking lips and teasing for a long time before a tongue ever goes inside or hits my clit.

I pay attention to what the other woman seems to respond to....and I don't always make them wait as long as like to be made to wait.

[athenagirl]

Originally Posted by TravlParty

Suck the clit, lick the nipples.

Not me. For me, it's "suck the nipples, lick the clit." I find some men are too heavy-handed, so to speak. I require a soft, slow, sensual touch: either with someone's hand or tongue.

[Tia Vampire]

Soft licking or sucking on the clit with him rubbing on the g- spot. wow!!!

[Cpl2share]

Lick the clit, lick the clit, lick the clit! Don't suck it, it aint a cock. After I am good and warmed up, play with my nipples, then I am over the edge.

[GreatCoupleNY]

I find that I can't go very wrong when it comes to oral on my wife. Clit licking is the main thing but she loves it when I slide my tongue right into her snatch.
I also almost always rim her ass with my tongue.

[sweet_tna]

Often!

Specifically, what I like is lots of attention to the clit (licking, sucking, it's all good), preferably with g-spot stimulation. If my nipples get some play at the same time, more's the better.

=)

[VanHlebar]

Ok so I really do "think" I know what the response is going to be to this thread on this particular board but another thread made me think again about a conversation that we had this past week at one of our pool parties with a bunch of vanilla friends.

We where all sitting around the table having a few drinks and somehow one of the husbands pops up with I can tie a knot in a cherry stem with my tongue. (Really I don't recall how it came out, something about me tossing stems down one of the ladies shirts on the 4th of July I think ) I just sort of chuckled and said that I knew a few other woman that could do that trick but never a guy. At that point one of the other ladies looks at his wife and blurts out "And you don't like oral!".

Now remember we are with vanilla friends. They are a bit crazy while we are out at bars or something, but it did shock me. The lady in question just bluntly said "Hey I like what gets me the big O and that isn't it! So if it isn't going to get me there why bother with it?"

So that got me to thinking of the ladies that I have been with in the past. I know that there have been a fair number that have had difficulty getting there via oral stimulation, but they still enjoyed the act and wanted it to be performed. Sometimes I am a pretty quick draw and well I would hate to leave a woman stranded because I couldn't last. I honestly don't know how I would react if I ran into a playmate like this woman.

So ladies, if you can't/don't usually orgasm via oral stimulation, do you still enjoy it either from your SO or playmate? Do you prefer not to have oral at all or do you just sort of go with the flow because it is kind of expected?

-Van

[sexcupid]

To answer the first question...YES!

For me oral is the guaranteed way to get there and it's a very intese orgasm. However, I am one of those women that it takes a little while to get there (oral or otherwise)...anywhere from 5-15 min. So for me, most swing partners do not stick around down there long enough to get me off that way (or any other way for that matter). If most swing men would take your attitude of not leaving a woman stranded, I think I would be a much happier swinger. rotflmao

Since I can't quite imagine not liking oral...I don't know that I can relate with your one friend that said why bother. I just can't take the attitude of "if it doesn't get me there why do it"....do it because it feels good and will lead to the other things that WILL get you there.

[exploringRM]

I'll answer for the female half as we have had this conversation. She has said she enjoys oral, but does not cum easily via oral in the LS. He main enjoyment is penetration. Now perhaps it's technique, nerves, lack of telling her partner what exactly is the hot move, whatever. She is bi-curious at best so has only had one women go down on her, though there's a few couples we've met where I think she might be up for that again. So perhaps a woman's touch will be different.

with us.. Rose loves oral and will orgasm for sure with fingering but right after she has an orgasm she wants me in her right away.. and she gets another huge orgasm right away..
The best way to get her to orgasm is oral her.. very very very gently.. and get her that first orgasm.. then she is a happy camper with me in her and finishes off nicely!! :-)

[JDApopka]

It's a guarantee for me if it's done right but I have had good and bad.

[midnightplayer]

It is terrible for a gentleman to leave a lady unsatisfied. It is his duty to do all he can to make her feel as good as can be and to follow her lead. Never leave her pussy until she says what she wants next. If she needs to get off stay there and lick that clit until she if done. To do less is a failure of the man and he need to re-evaluate his performance and what he intends to get out of swinging. He needs to put more into it if he wants to get more out of it.