How big a penis is too big?

[cathy&neil]

OK. I have heard stories about how great the sex is for women when the man has a very large penis. But according to my wife, this just isn't true. She has had big and small and says that usually the bigger ones are the worst for her because they think that all they have to do is enter inside her and that is all.

So, is big really that good for other women? I've seen her orgasm very easily with a normal size guy but when a man who is rather large enters inside her I can tell from her face that she is in pain and even if he goes slow, she just doesn't like it but will go along.

[rpu3]

I think this is going to depend on the woman.

I don't appreciate big as in long length. I like my cervix where it is, thankyouverymuch. I orgasm just fine with the 6 inch or less variety. Width is good, to an extent. Too much is too much, though.

If the other person is considerate of my limitations, one can find compromises in positions, etc., so that all have a good time. But if they don't know how to use what they have, it's going to be pretty miserable for me. My spouse is a bit bigger than the average, and some positions are not comfortable for me at certain times, and that is taken into account and we get along just fine!

For me, bigger is not better.

[BiloxiCouple]

Elaine says a penis is too big when they are doing it doggie style and it tickles the back of her throat.

[MRSfun]

I think anything over 7 inches is to much. So take it easy there Mr. man.

[des1re06]

I think it depends on the position and what you're used to.

With really large (8 plus), I prefer cowgirl, so I'm in charge.

[xxoticangel]

More than 7 inches is usually more pain than pleasure. I much prefer thick. I've been with guys that were in the 8-9 inch range and was ok at best.

[LFM2]

When it starts to feel more like pain than pleasure, it's too big.

[willyoats]

So many guys think bigger is better. So many women know better. When will guys wise up?

Obviously, with big guys, the position is important to avoid discomfort.

For my wife, like we read above, with anybody over about 6 inches needs to be treated with care. 5 or 6 inches is best because all positions are possible without any worry about discomfort.

So, all you "studs" out there who are so proud of your big equipment, know this: lots of women don't think you are as hot as you think you are. You may think you are scoring points in the locker room, but you are bombing in bed.

[2insandiego4u]

Every woman is different physically. Some can handle very large easily, and some can't. Position can make a difference too, as stated by the OP. We'd say that it is too big if it hurts, and before giving up, try a different position that does not maximize penetration.

[jdavisauto]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

Elaine says a penis is too big when they are doing it doggie style and it tickles the back of her throat.

This happen to my lady half one time, I didn't have the heart to tell her it was my fingers lightly touching the back of her neck trying to removed a fuzz ball out of her hair.

[jdavisauto]

I never got into the male-ego about the size thing. I never took a ruler and measure my dick (so juvenile). When we got into the swingers lifestyle I knew that there would be bigger ones and smaller ones. As long as they are clean, my lady half enjoys them she is happy.

[realcplub2]

We ran into a situation, purely by accident years ago, A friend that we decided to enjoy a threesome with as it turns out was "well endowed" roughly 8.5 inches, and fairly thick.. And yes it was a great night, the pain associated with it, and the extreme pain afterwards, sort of like bruising came from the fact that, while he was fully cocked, he didnt have any, shall we say finesse.. He had to modes.. Get it in, then slam it back and forth..

After those expereinces we made a decision, AVERAGE cocks only.. nothing over 6.5 inches..

[JustMrJ]

I think that size is not so much a factor with some women as the "Angle to the dangle"... I'm average and my wife has had larger than me and at those times she was in positions I can't get her in because she starts to get pain in her lower tummy. Like I'm hitting a wall or something.

My penis tends to point upwards a bit more than the average guy, straight as an arrow almost, but the wrong 'Angle' to enter her in the same positions.

Go figure...

[VANudistcpl]

I agree with the ladies above. It really depends on the ladies - every women is different and it really does depend on the position.

Too large is definately not worth the pain and a female won't be able to thoroughly enjoy herself if she is trying to work through the pain.

Big guys - sorry to deflat you, but bigger is definately not better

K

[sweet_tna]

I've really only encountered two guys I would consider big, and neither presented a problem for me. While I do think position makes a difference, so does the fact that I rather like it when the guy "bottoms out" . . .

That said, I'd chose a thicker guy over a longer guy any day of the week--and twice on Sundays.

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