How many straight guys have taken a finger???

CallMeLoki · 08-04-2008, 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by VIPsex

Ive had a vibrator put between my legs while she gave me a great oral. It is the best feeling ever. Shes also tried putting her finger in me while sucking. That feels great also.

Ditto that. A vibe moved around slowly feels quite good while getting blown. I like a finger or small vibe in the booty too, but not that frequently...I really have to be in the mood for it. And I agree, if it feels good, do it! Nothing gay about it at all, IMO.

Loki

2insandiego4u · 08-04-2008, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by CallMeLoki

Nothing gay about it at all, IMO.

Loki

A male friend of ours once said, "Whatever it is, if a lady is doing it to you, it's not gay."

SecretAsianMan · 08-05-2008, 03:38 PM

I've had a couple of gals do that... very intense & I like it.

ohash01 · 08-05-2008, 05:24 PM

My current partner loves having his prostate massaged or having me finger him. If I have personally scrubbed his behind, I will use my tongue too. He loves it and I love giving him pleasure. We tried a strap-on, but, well, that didn't go so well...however, we are considering giving it another go, so I must not have terrified him TOO much.

JoCoCpl · 08-06-2008, 07:37 PM

A friend-with-benefits gave me a prostate massage during a BJ once - it was amazing! Mrs JoCo doesn't seem interested, though to be honest, the subject hasn't come up.

I do like a mild vibrator on the balls - it's just a different kind of sensation. Variety IS the spice of life.

I also go along with the philosophies of, "if it feels good, do it" and the "if a girl does it to you, it isn't gay."

eskimo · 08-06-2008, 10:15 PM

I never showed any interest, but my wife tried it and I really like it. Sometimes you just have to be open to things, you never know what you might like!

Chris&Amelia · 08-24-2008, 04:30 PM

You know, I've never had it done to me... but I wouldn't mind trying. If anything, just to satisfy my curiosity. Heck, maybe I would like it. Who knows?

I would just like to know that it's coming though (no pun intended). While I normally like surprises, in this case... not so much so.

"Ooooh, baby, you sucking on me feels so good. Yeah... keep going. Oh, yeeeYEEEOOOOWW! WHAT THE HECK?!?"

jdavisauto · 08-24-2008, 07:51 PM

Never had it done, never talked about it. that don't mean that I will never do it. In the heat of passion if the lady so wants to, then I may let her. I think that it's a matter of choice. If you like it then do it, if you don't then don't do it. It don't make you bi, gay or even straight, it's haveing a sexual experience with something other then intercourse. All men have at one time or another masterbated, does that change your sexual preference, no it don't so why should this? That's what so great about this lifestyle, It Don't Judge You!
Sex is hereditary, chances are if your parents never had sex, neither will you.

jdavisauto · 08-24-2008, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Chris&Amelia

"Ooooh, baby, you sucking on me feels so good. Yeah... keep going. Oh, yeeeYEEEOOOOWW! WHAT THE HECK?!?"

So that was you we heard in the private room the other night. Damn I hope that she used Lube!

hotbody1and2 · 08-26-2008, 12:50 AM

While I am by no means gay, a finger placed in the right position inside the male hole can lead to a most intense orgasim. Technically it is called a prostate massage and any man who has had it done correctly will tell you that it is one of the most intense releases that thay have ever had. you can find out more about a prostate massage by goggling it.

As for the vibrator question, I have found (just speaking for myself that is) that I can use one very selectively on the head of my penis but no where else. My partner is not allowed to use it because when used on the wrong places it can be very painful.

I hope this helps.

Curiosity0725 · 09-08-2008, 01:19 AM

just had this convo with my wife yesterday. we've never really discussed it but she gave me the impression that a guy wanting that would come across as being gay to her.

my thoughts is that being homosexual requires you to have some kind of interest/attraction to the same sex and has nothing to do with shoving things in your holes.... i'm open for just about anything but i don't think she'd ever be open to that.

a little bit on a side note... i have on occasion licked her anus (i prefer to not say "rimjob" so whatever) and she hasn't complained and appears to like it. i think i surprised her with that the first time i did it... but, i must admit, that first time was more of a drunken 69-slip up.

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08-05-2008, 03:38 PM	#18 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 476 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male SLS Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger??? I've had a couple of gals do that... very intense & I like it. __________________ I used to be indecisive... now I'm not so sure.

08-05-2008, 05:24 PM	#19 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger??? My current partner loves having his prostate massaged or having me finger him. If I have personally scrubbed his behind, I will use my tongue too. He loves it and I love giving him pleasure. We tried a strap-on, but, well, that didn't go so well...however, we are considering giving it another go, so I must not have terrified him TOO much.

08-06-2008, 07:37 PM	#20 (permalink)
JoCoCpl Life is good! Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 71 Location: near Overland Park, KS Status: Married Couple SLS Name:KStateCpl	Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger??? A friend-with-benefits gave me a prostate massage during a BJ once - it was amazing! Mrs JoCo doesn't seem interested, though to be honest, the subject hasn't come up. I do like a mild vibrator on the balls - it's just a different kind of sensation. Variety IS the spice of life. I also go along with the philosophies of, "if it feels good, do it" and the "if a girl does it to you, it isn't gay."

08-06-2008, 10:15 PM	#21 (permalink)
eskimo Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 22 Location: Maryland Status: Couple	Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger??? I never showed any interest, but my wife tried it and I really like it. Sometimes you just have to be open to things, you never know what you might like!

08-24-2008, 04:30 PM	#22 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A SLS Name:PA_Panache	Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger??? You know, I've never had it done to me... but I wouldn't mind trying. If anything, just to satisfy my curiosity. Heck, maybe I would like it. Who knows? I would just like to know that it's coming though (no pun intended). While I normally like surprises, in this case... not so much so. "Ooooh, baby, you sucking on me feels so good. Yeah... keep going. Oh, yeeeYEEEOOOOWW! WHAT THE HECK?!?" __________________ "May God be with you."

08-24-2008, 07:51 PM	#23 (permalink)
jdavisauto Together we are one Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 345 Location: Las Vegas Status: couple SLS Name:jdavisauto	Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger??? Never had it done, never talked about it. that don't mean that I will never do it. In the heat of passion if the lady so wants to, then I may let her. I think that it's a matter of choice. If you like it then do it, if you don't then don't do it. It don't make you bi, gay or even straight, it's haveing a sexual experience with something other then intercourse. All men have at one time or another masterbated, does that change your sexual preference, no it don't so why should this? That's what so great about this lifestyle, It Don't Judge You! Sex is hereditary, chances are if your parents never had sex, neither will you. __________________ Stop laughing or I WILL put my clothes back on.

08-26-2008, 12:50 AM	#25 (permalink)
hotbody1and2 Registered Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 3 Location: chesapeake Status: couple	Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger??? While I am by no means gay, a finger placed in the right position inside the male hole can lead to a most intense orgasim. Technically it is called a prostate massage and any man who has had it done correctly will tell you that it is one of the most intense releases that thay have ever had. you can find out more about a prostate massage by goggling it. As for the vibrator question, I have found (just speaking for myself that is) that I can use one very selectively on the head of my penis but no where else. My partner is not allowed to use it because when used on the wrong places it can be very painful. I hope this helps.

09-08-2008, 01:19 AM	#26 (permalink)
Curiosity0725 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 40 Location: Chicago, IL Status: Male half of a Married Couple	Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger??? just had this convo with my wife yesterday. we've never really discussed it but she gave me the impression that a guy wanting that would come across as being gay to her. my thoughts is that being homosexual requires you to have some kind of interest/attraction to the same sex and has nothing to do with shoving things in your holes.... i'm open for just about anything but i don't think she'd ever be open to that. a little bit on a side note... i have on occasion licked her anus (i prefer to not say "rimjob" so whatever) and she hasn't complained and appears to like it. i think i surprised her with that the first time i did it... but, i must admit, that first time was more of a drunken 69-slip up.

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