Double Vaginal

[jdavisauto]

Originally Posted by lustylearning

Wow. So I guess physical pleasure with another woman makes me a lesbian? Can't wait to tell my husband

physical pleasure with another woman makes a women a lesbian, oh my god and all this time I been saying that my wife was bi.

[NumbskullsX2]

Originally Posted by lustylearning

Wow. So I guess physical pleasure with another woman makes me a lesbian? Can't wait to tell my husband

Welllll, ummmmmmmmmmmm, YEAH! Although technically, if you also enjoy "physical pleasure" with men, I suppose youd be considered "bisexual" But yeah, if you like to do women (even sometimes), you could go into a lesbian bar and it would be cool.

Look at it this way - Suppose a gentleman arranges an MFM for his woman, and one of the things they do is a DVP. No problem in that, rubbing his weiner against the other male "doesn't mean he's gay", according to most of the responses so far.

Now, what if the other male is a 13-year-old boy?

All of a sudden the older male is a pedophile. Do you think the jury is going to believe that "the contact between their penises was just incidental" and that the older male "was doing it ONLY to please the woman, and wasn't receiving any personal pleasure from his contact with the boys penis?"

Sure. Good luck with that one! I think ANY reasonable person would find that the older male was as much to blame as the female, and received pleasure from the boy's participation.

[newlythree]

I cant believe you don't see the hole in your comparrison.
2 men and a women are consenting adults.
A 13 year old is a minor!
Give me a break......

[jdavisauto]

You have sex with a 13 year old anybody then you are a pedophile and need to be in jail, it don't matter if it's a boy oy girl. The DVP is a matter of individiual opinion. It's how a person feels and their comfort zone. For me it is way to close for my comfort zone. For another male it is not. It's not really a gay, not gay issued, It Don't Matter. If it is between consenting adults then there is no problems. Swingering lifestyle is not just straight males or straight females. It's everyone that's wants a freedom that the rest of the world don't have. Straight, gay, cd, tg or bi. Hell if you are into pulling your cock while standing a bucket of chocolate pudding singing I,m a little tea cup, you will still be welcome and accepted. Because swingers are NOT judgemental of anyone! So if you want two dicks in your pussy, go for it. If you don't want two dicks in your pussy then don't do it.

[SecretAsianMan]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

Welllll, ummmmmmmmmmmm, YEAH! Although technically, if you also enjoy "physical pleasure" with men, I suppose youd be considered "bisexual" But yeah, if you like to do women (even sometimes), you could go into a lesbian bar and it would be cool.

Look at it this way - Suppose a gentleman arranges an MFM for his woman, and one of the things they do is a DVP. No problem in that, rubbing his weiner against the other male "doesn't mean he's gay", according to most of the responses so far.

Now, what if the other male is a 13-year-old boy?

All of a sudden the older male is a pedophile. Do you think the jury is going to believe that "the contact between their penises was just incidental" and that the older male "was doing it ONLY to please the woman, and wasn't receiving any personal pleasure from his contact with the boys penis?"

Sure. Good luck with that one! I think ANY reasonable person would find that the older male was as much to blame as the female, and received pleasure from the boy's participation.

Okay ... you really seem to be stuck on this idea that this NEEDS to be categorized as a "gay / homosexual / bisexual" activity and that we should all accept that definition. And doing a "gay / homosexual / bisexual" activity - by your reasoning, this makes those who participate in this gay / homosexual / bisexual / whatever.

And you're painting with some pretty broad strokes to define "enjoying physical pleasure from another man" as the basis for male homosexuality... then hugging, emotionally comforting another man, a massage from another man, a male chiropractor, a male physical therapist, a father holding or kissing his son ...can all be lumped into that same broad definition.

This thread has started to degenerate into a "what's gay" type discussion and "if I do this or that - does that make me gay?" ... in all honesty - we don't care.


I believe the original question was simply - "Who's into this?"

[JTcamp05]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

Now, what if the other male is a 13-year-old boy?

All of a sudden the older male is a pedophile. Do you think the jury is going to believe that "the contact between their penises was just incidental" and that the older male "was doing it ONLY to please the woman, and wasn't receiving any personal pleasure from his contact with the boys penis?"

Wow....have you lost the point...... little insecure are we?

[lustylearning]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

Now, what if the other male is a 13-year-old boy?

[funfrkycpl]

Originally Posted by lustylearning

You can say that again!

[cupl4fun]

When it comes to this thread I think numbskulls screen name is quite accurate. Just my opinion. If my wife wanted to try this. I'd do it. If that makes me gay in his "numb" skull, then that's cool. He just won't get to be the third. We wouldn't want him to feel gay for screwing my wife.

[NumbskullsX2]

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

Okay ... you really seem to be stuck on this idea that this NEEDS to be categorized as a "gay / homosexual / bisexual" activity and that we should all accept that definition. And doing a "gay / homosexual / bisexual" activity - by your reasoning, this makes those who participate in this gay / homosexual / bisexual / whatever.

OK, I give up SecretAsianMan. Maybe something's getting lost in translation or something. What do YOU call people who participate in gay/homosexual/bisexual behavior? Back here in my neck of the woods, we call them gays/homosexuals/bisexuals.

Pretty convenient, huh? BTW, we do that for almost all other behaviors. For example;

People who "participate in shopping" are called "shoppers"

People who "participate in jogging" are called "joggers"

People who "participate in swinging" are called "swingers"

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

And you're painting with some pretty broad strokes to define "enjoying physical pleasure from another man" as the basis for male homosexuality... then hugging, emotionally comforting another man, a massage from another man, a male chiropractor, a male physical therapist, a father holding or kissing his son ...can all be lumped into that same broad definition.

NOOOO, SecretAsianMan, they CAN'T be lumped into "the same broad definition" because those activities are not inherently sexual in nature nor are they intended to lead to sexual gratification. Maybe this is just a "midwestern thing," but if you rub your genitals against somebody else's, we assume it's for your sexual pleasure. If the person is of the same sex, we call those people "homosexuals" or "bisexuals"

That's not a good thing or a bad thing, it's just a word we use to help identify or remember certain people, OK? Like "tall" or "short" or "blonde" or "hung"

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

This thread has started to degenerate into a "what's gay" type discussion and "if I do this or that - does that make me gay?" ... in all honesty - we don't care.I believe the original question was simply - "Who's into this?"

Then you need to re-read the original post. The "question" (as I understood it) was about how hard it would be to find another male who was into penis-to-penis contact for the purpose of DVP and whether it implied bisexuality on the part of the males. I think it does, but that doesn't make it bad, unless you have an aversion to bisexual males. (BTW-we don't, under most circumstances)

[NumbskullsX2]

Originally Posted by cupl4fun

When it comes to this thread I think numbskulls screen name is quite accurate. Just my opinion. If my wife wanted to try this. I'd do it. If that makes me gay in his "numb" skull, then that's cool. He just won't get to be the third. We wouldn't want him to feel gay for screwing my wife.

If your wife wants to try this and you're OK with it, you SHOULD! Don't let some guy on the internet a thousand miles away tell you what you should or shouldn't do!

If that means I don't get to be the third, that will just be my loss, I guess. To be honest, I'd have to be pretty drunk to want to do it anyway.

I'm sure you won't have any trouble finding somebody to help you out.

The screen name derives from the fact that my wife and I were both the first from our respective families to graduate from college. (Criminal Justice/Phys Ed and Pediatric Nursing, FWIW)

[Chitowndk4u]

Originally Posted by JTcamp05

We did get to cross this one off the list.... Very good experience, we'll do it again.....


Suprising how in such an open minded group how many male's get all freaked out thinking that enjoying DP might make them gay or something.... Are men today that insecure?

Yes they are that insecure.

We met a couple who has done that and I have seen it in porn and would love to try it. Hopefully it will happen.

[steve as is]

we have done double vaginal with another male and neither guy found anything wrong with it we just enjoyed the pleasure the wife was getting you dont even think about feeling his cock in her as your plessuring here

[JTcamp05]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

People who "participate in shopping" are called "shoppers"

People who "participate in jogging" are called "joggers"

People who "participate in swinging" are called "swingers"NOOOO,

People who "participate in homophobia" are called "Homophobes"? or Numbskulls?

[bryanlee]

As i have said in other threads....do what feels good and let others decide how they want to label you. You are the one enjoying yourself (or others) and who cares what anyone else thinks/feels about it. Those who insist on putting labels on others are going to do so no matter what you are doing. Have fun and pay no attention to them.