Double Vaginal

[TNT]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

IMHO, it's not just "marginaly homosexual" or "incidental contact", it's GAY.

Which you're entitled to have...should you ever be asked to perform this act, a simple "no" is all it takes.

It's so gay it even has a name, frottage. It means "rubbing," rubbing weiners, in this case. If you Google frottage, it will take you to mostly gay websites.

So homosexual people are the only ones who receive sexual stimulation through rubbing? Frottage is not an exclusive "gay" term or act.

"Back in the day" when most homosexual activity was against the law, cops could arrest guys just for rubbing their genitals. It's what they used to make arrests when they busted gay bars. They didn't have to see penetration of any kind, just 2 guys (or gals) dancing and rubbing against each other.

I guess it's a good thing we no longer live "Back in the day"...if we did there would be a lot of major sports figures in jail for hugging each other when they win a championship or patting each other on the ass when a good job was done I for one am glad those closed, small minded days are slowly coming to an end. Maybe one day it will be a world where people can just be sexual, regardless of what sexual act they perform. As long as it's between consenting adults, why should it matter?

If rubbing another mans weiner is what gets you off, that's fine. If doing it inside a woman's pussy makes you feel straight, that's fine too. But let's call it for what it is, OK? An excuse to force-hump another guy.

We do call it what it is...FUN ! For some of us no other excuse is needed. We're not hung up on gay, straight or bi sexual acts...it feels good, it's fun...everyone involved enjoys it and has a good time...no other "excuse" is needed nor required other.


Teresa

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

IMHO, it's not just "marginaly homosexual" or "incidental contact", it's GAY.

It's so gay it even has a name, frottage. It means "rubbing," rubbing weiners, in this case. If you Google frottage, it will take you to mostly gay websites.

"Back in the day" when most homosexual activity was against the law, cops could arrest guys just for rubbing their genitals. It's what they used to make arrests when they busted gay bars. They didn't have to see penetration of any kind, just 2 guys (or gals) dancing and rubbing against each other.

If rubbing another mans weiner is what gets you off, that's fine. If doing it inside a woman's pussy makes you feel straight, that's fine too. But let's call it for what it is, OK? An excuse to force-hump another guy.

Okay, I need some clarification here. If I did DVP with a couple and I wore a condom, does that still mean I'm gay, per your previous post? Or maybe just bi? Help me out here. There was no actual contact between my penile skin and his while we were trying to pleasure her, but really, condoms aren't very thick, so I'm concerned, and you seem to know what you're talking about.

And it's possible, now that I think about it -- no, downright likely! -- that I touched him inadvertently in some other areas, too! Our balls might have knocked together! Damn! This gets more complex!

So, I don't want to be the bottom for some guy (or top him, actually), or suck his dick or fondle his balls, or eat his cum, or kiss him, or have him blow me, give me a handjob, fondle me, caress me, suck my toes, lick my lips, or blow my nose...

...but if our dicks touch each other while we're intent on pleasuring a woman, then I'm gay.

Got it.

I know my parents will be shocked, but I must call them and tell them the truth: I enjoy DVP with some couples.



Thrax

[SecretAsianMan]

(*laughing*)

There was a whole list of ridiculous things printed in a book by Marilyn Manson (of all people) which stated a whole crazy list of things which "made you gay"

This strikes me as about as reputable as that kind of definition. (*laughing*)

And honestly -- who really cares?

[rpu3]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

IMHO, it's not just "marginaly homosexual" or "incidental contact", it's GAY.

It's so gay it even has a name, frottage. It means "rubbing," rubbing weiners, in this case. If you Google frottage, it will take you to mostly gay websites.

Darn it. That old Joy of Sex book got it completely wrong... they seemed to think frottage was nothing more than what it means - rubbing in a sexual manner. It didn't say anything about being gay. Even Wikipedia doesn't label it as a gay or straight activity.

Originally Posted by Thrax

So, I don't want to be the bottom for some guy (or top him, actually), or suck his dick or fondle his balls, or eat his cum, or kiss him, or have him blow me, give me a handjob, fondle me, caress me, suck my toes, lick my lips, or blow my nose...

...but if our dicks touch each other while we're intent on pleasuring a woman, then I'm gay.

Evidently for some.

[jdavisauto]

Originally Posted by TNT

Which you're entitled to have...should you ever be asked to perform this act, a simple "no" is all it takes.



So homosexual people are the only ones who receive sexual stimulation through rubbing? Frottage is not an exclusive "gay" term or act.



I guess it's a good thing we no longer live "Back in the day"...if we did there would be a lot of major sports figures in jail for hugging each other when they win a championship or patting each other on the ass when a good job was done I for one am glad those closed, small minded days are slowly coming to an end. Maybe one day it will be a world where people can just be sexual, regardless of what sexual act they perform. As long as it's between consenting adults, why should it matter?



We do call it what it is...FUN ! For some of us no other excuse is needed. We're not hung up on gay, straight or bi sexual acts...it feels good, it's fun...everyone involved enjoys it and has a good time...no other "excuse" is needed nor required other.


Teresa

You have some good points of views and we look forward to reading more form you. My wife is bi, I am straight and we don't judge anyone because of their sexual preference. If everyone was the same then where would the fun be? My lady still wants the two dicks in her pussy thing and one day she will get her wish even if I have to be one of the guys. It's all about her sexual fantasy.

[Pepper & Drew]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

IMHO, it's not just "marginaly homosexual" or "incidental contact", it's GAY.

It's so gay it even has a name, frottage. It means "rubbing," rubbing weiners, in this case. If you Google frottage, it will take you to mostly gay websites.

"Back in the day" when most homosexual activity was against the law, cops could arrest guys just for rubbing their genitals. It's what they used to make arrests when they busted gay bars. They didn't have to see penetration of any kind, just 2 guys (or gals) dancing and rubbing against each other.

If rubbing another mans weiner is what gets you off, that's fine. If doing it inside a woman's pussy makes you feel straight, that's fine too. But let's call it for what it is, OK? An excuse to force-hump another guy.

Ummm...the DVP's I've had didn't resemble male homosexual activity at all . I know, I was there.

Pepper

[NumbskullsX2]

Originally Posted by TNT

I guess it's a good thing we no longer live "Back in the day"...if we did there would be a lot of major sports figures in jail for hugging each other when they win a championship or patting each other on the ass when a good job was done

I guess it's all a matter of degree. A pat on the ass or a hug when you've won a sports championship probably won't raise any eyebrows, but if 2 guys run onto the field and start rubbing their weiners together until they both ejaculate, the fans are probably going to say, "Gee, I never knew those guys were gay"

Who knows, it might start bringing people back to the ballparks

Originally Posted by TNT

I for one am glad those closed, small minded days are slowly coming to an end. Maybe one day it will be a world where people can just be sexual, regardless of what sexual act they perform. As long as it's between consenting adults, why should it matter?

It dosen't. Personally, I'm into sheep. As long as I'm doing it for the sheeps pleasure and not my own, I figure they can't arrest me for beastiality

Originally Posted by Thrax

Okay, I need some clarification here. If I did DVP with a couple and I wore a condom, does that still mean I'm gay, per your previous post? Or maybe just bi? Help me out here.

If you don't know, I certainly can't tell you. It just has gay overtones, that's all.

Originally Posted by Thrax

There was no actual contact between my penile skin and his while we were trying to pleasure her, but really, condoms aren't very thick, so I'm concerned, and you seem to know what you're talking about.

I wouldn't hang my hat on the "no actual contact" thing if I were you. If the other guy wants to fuck you in the ass, but tells you "Don't worry, it doesn't make you gay since there won't be any actual contact between my penis and your bum" you should tell him "NO WAY, JOSE`!"
Unless that's what you want, of course.

Originally Posted by Thrax

And it's possible, now that I think about it -- no, downright likely! -- that I touched him inadvertently in some other areas, too! Our balls might have knocked together! Damn! This gets more complex!

If they knock together a few times, it's probably an accident. If they keep knocking, and knocking, and knocking, and knocking, and knocking, and knocking, and knocking, and knocking, and knocking, until you both cum, you ought to at least kiss the guy when it's over. You probably ought to kiss the girl, too, so she won't think you're gay.

Originally Posted by Thrax

Okay, I need some clarification here. If I did DVP with a couple and I wore a condom, does that still mean I'm gay, per your previous post? Or maybe just bi?

Probably neither. If you're a single guy over 40, it probably just means you're "situationally aware" You know how tough it is to hook up with couples of any age, especially attractive ones. You also know that you are one of a thousand single guys out there, which means that they're calling the shots. If it's weinie rubs they want, it's weinie rubs they'll get. If not from you, then from somebody else. The same with teabagging and snowballing.

A guys gotta do what a guy's gotta do to get laid.

[Thrax]

NumbskullsX2, I'm getting the sense that DVPs are not your thing. No problem. To each his or her own.

Now, on to more important things: exactly where did I put my Bette Midler CD?

Desperately yours,
Thrax

[ItTakes3]

We did it with a dildo...she loved it...and we tried it for real, but our third was about 2" short of success. It's on our to-do list.

[newlythree]

Originally Posted by Thrax

NumbskullsX2, I'm getting the sense that you are underage and prolly shouldn't be here.

Desperately yours,
Thrax

Fixed it for you Thrax!

[GoNatural]

I'd like to try it! The biggest turn-on for me would be being sexual with a woman that is curious about it. I get really turned-on by women that enjoy that "full feeling" from one big toy, very thick penis, or two average penises.

That's why it turns me on...

[JTcamp05]

We did get to cross this one off the list.... Very good experience, we'll do it again.....


Suprising how in such an open minded group how many male's get all freaked out thinking that enjoying DP might make them gay or something.... Are men today that insecure?

[NumbskullsX2]

Originally Posted by JTcamp05

We did get to cross this one off the list.... Very good experience, we'll do it again.....


Suprising how in such an open minded group how many male's get all freaked out thinking that enjoying DP might make them gay or something.... Are men today that insecure?

I consider myself open minded and "secure". Somebody ask a question about whether double-vaginal was "too close" and I answered it from MY perspective, that's all. For me, sex with a woman is a peak experience, "as good as it gets." Having another guy hump my leg, or hold my balls or rub his weiner against mine while I'm having sex doesn't make it any better for me, it just distracts me from what I'm doing. In fact, it distracts me a LOT.

Maybe I'm lucky that my wife wouldn't be comfortable with 2 guys "my size" inside her. Or maybe she's lucky, I don't know. As it is, we're a pretty good fit. If she "needed 2 to fill her up," I don't think it would be much fun to be "just the 1" the rest of the time.

[lustylearning]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

IMHO, it's not just "marginaly homosexual" or "incidental contact", it's GAY.

It's so gay it even has a name, frottage. It means "rubbing," rubbing weiners, in this case. If you Google frottage, it will take you to mostly gay websites.

"Back in the day" when most homosexual activity was against the law, cops could arrest guys just for rubbing their genitals. It's what they used to make arrests when they busted gay bars. They didn't have to see penetration of any kind, just 2 guys (or gals) dancing and rubbing against each other.

If rubbing another mans weiner is what gets you off, that's fine. If doing it inside a woman's pussy makes you feel straight, that's fine too. But let's call it for what it is, OK? An excuse to force-hump another guy.

Wow. So I guess physical pleasure with another woman makes me a lesbian? Can't wait to tell my husband

[JTcamp05]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

Maybe I'm lucky that my wife wouldn't be comfortable with 2 guys "my size" inside her. Or maybe she's lucky, I don't know.

yes I'm sure THAT must be it...... lol