Guys with smaller dicks and anal sex

[JustAskJulie]

Has anyone else noticed that it seems like guys with smaller dicks seem to prefer anal sex? Is it related to their being able to get more friction?

[SnowwwWhite]

My first and only anal sex was with a guy with a small penis. Being ever the optimist and looking at the positive side of the situation, I was the one that requested it and he quickly and excitedly agreed... and seemed to enjoy it quite a bit... probably for the exact reason you mentioned. I bet it felt a lot better for him.

At the time I mentioned it I wasn't even thinking about the friction thing... I was just feeling adventurous and wanted to try something new with a guy I was really into. But yeah, there was definitely more friction that way.

Man, that was a lot of fun. (sigh)

Unfortunately the only two guys I've dated since him had no interest in it! The first one was sort of a prude and he seemed appalled when I casually joked about anal sex (hey, I was trying to test him out!). My last (and somewhat/current/long story) boyfriend asked if I was into it, but because of his tone of voice I got the feeling he reeaaaally did not want it... so I just said "I don't know" and before I could finish the sentence and add any sort of qualifier he quickly said "Good, because I'm not into that." Based on his size I wasn't so sure I wanted to go that way with him in the first place.

But it was kind of a bummer to have that completely removed from the potential repertoire.

[it'sso]

Tried it with my wife and we felt it was too messy to justify the effort. We seldom have seen any guys smaller than me, but we have no problem with getting enough friction for both to orgasm one or more times during intercourse.

[theflamekasters]

waht are u calling small?

[JDApopka]

During the corse of our mfm adventures we have had the experience of 2 small dicks both were maybe 4" when hard. They both wanted to do anla with her but thats one of her NO's

[maniaco333]

As a male with a small penis I prefer Vaginal and Oral over anal. I am not saying that I dont enjoy anal but like it was said, it is a lot of effort, Personally I don"t request it however being a gentleman if the lady asks for it I'm happy to oblige.

[socolais]

Julie, were you referring to length or girth?

[herpob]

Yes I have noticed this with the majority of the men I have known sexually.

[BiloxiCouple]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Has anyone else noticed that it seems like guys with smaller dicks seem to prefer anal sex? Is it related to their being able to get more friction?

That's cause the big dicks have worn out the playground slides for everyone.

[Malachista]

Having worked for an erotic phone line I got the impression that about 70% of males would like anal. (Never mind the also quite high % of guys who also think about watersports and poo sex, but would never talk about it face to face)
I guess the smaller sized guys just know (think, have learned) that they have a bigger chance to do it, with a woman who is unexpirianced

[herpob]

Originally Posted by herpob

Yes I have noticed this with the majority of the men I have known sexually.

I forgot to add this, also in my experiences a VERY large percentage of males, any guy, wants anal sex and quite often. I haven't met a single smaller guy who didn't "prefer" anal to vaginal though all wanted both, but for their pleasure, anal was definitely the ticket.

I was able to get many of them to enjoy vaginal as much as anal with some anal play of my own while they are doing me vaginally. You just reach around and grab their cheek as they are doing you, letting your fingers wander where they may. I've always gotten great results with this.

[it'sso]

Originally Posted by herpob

I forgot to add this, also in my experiences a VERY large percentage of males, any guy, wants anal sex and quite often. I haven't met a single smaller guy who didn't "prefer" anal to vaginal though all wanted both, but for their pleasure, anal was definitely the ticket.

I was able to get many of them to enjoy vaginal as much as anal with some anal play of my own while they are doing me vaginally. You just reach around and grab their cheek as they are doing you, letting your fingers wander where they may. I've always gotten great results with this.

You just haven't met me, darlin.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by herpob

Yes I have noticed this with the majority of the men I have known sexually.

I feel like I should go immediately to the Swing Lifestyle profile and add the comment, "Owing to certain anatomical incompatibilities, I regret to inform that I cannot help the ladies with their anal needs or fantasies."

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

I feel like I should go immediately to the Swing Lifestyle profile and add the comment, "Owing to certain anatomical incompatibilities, I regret to inform that I cannot help the ladies with their anal needs or fantasies."

I guess it depends on the lady. A good friend of mine once took a dick that I felt was too big to put anywhere and put it in her ass. I swear this guy was as big around as my forearm and almost as long.


Then again, I guess this begs the question if you see a profile where the guy is "into anal" can you almost assume from that that he is smaller than average?

[Miss Sunshine]

I enjoyed anal with a man with a very skinny dick, like finger size. I like anal with my hubby's finger but his dick is long and wide, so it is more difficult and you concentrate on lube and not hurting me so it takes away from the experience. When I saw this guys skinny dick i went for it and he enjoyed it and i enjoyed it thoroughly. My hubby and I do have anal, and have got it down to enjoying it.