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How long can men have sex before they orgasm

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Old 06-07-2008, 07:22 PM   #1 (permalink)
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We've been in the lifestyle for quite a few years and I see a lot of e-mails and posts from men who claim that they can go for hours on end before they cum. I've had a lot of sex partners and I think the longest term of continuous thrusting may have been 30 minutes. My best partner usually cums in less time than that but it's enough to give me a great orgasm. Actually my favorite thing is foreplay, kissing, oral and fucking and changing positions. But I usually don't watch the clock. I just try to enjoy the experience.

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Old 06-07-2008, 07:51 PM   #2 (permalink)
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If you are talking about strictly penatration, it is usually somewhere in the 15-20 minute range.

If you are talking about from the first kiss until the last kiss, with all foreplay included in the "time", it could be just about as long as we want. It's all about pacing yourself.

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Old 06-07-2008, 08:02 PM   #3 (permalink)
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If you are talking about strictly penatration, it is usually somewhere in the 15-20 minute range.

If you are talking about from the first kiss until the last kiss, with all foreplay included in the "time", it could be just about as long as we want. It's all about pacing yourself.

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I was just curious to hear from others. My husband usually doesn't last but a couple of minutes after penetration before he cums. The boys that fucked me when I was a teen didn't last much longer either. The men I have sex with now like the kissing, foreplay, oral and intercourse and the whole experience is great especially when it's with more than one man.
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I assume we are talking penetration. With me it all depends on the situation.
With my wife it can be 30-45 minutes — the result of years of practice and familiarity.
The first time with a stranger, it can be 5-10 minutes; but if I have already cum and after the refractory period, it can be an hour or more.
The shortest had to be with a stranger who asked for anal. I actually came on her ass trying to get in — so zero. LOL
Like I said, it all depends...
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Old 06-08-2008, 10:58 AM   #5 (permalink)
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With my wife I can lose it every now and then. When we are swinging and we have been swinging for 5 years. I have never climaxed with another women and we have fuck from 10 minuets to an hour. We ever the other "party" is satisfied I finish with my wife finishes me off in about 5 minuets.
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Old 06-08-2008, 11:05 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Depends on the situation, but he is a repeat performer, which is great for me.
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I usually can last over an hour (we seriously timed it once), but whenever she says "cum in me baby!" I can bust within 5 minutes, lol. If we are really in a hurry, I went from start to finish in about 2. I am very adaptable, lol.
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Old 06-08-2008, 07:52 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I have to admit that I'm jealous of my 20 yo stamina, because it was excessivly long, so it sort of felt good to know I could go that long. But it is probably a good thing that I don't last a couple of hours anymore, because I think after a while it gets to be really awkward. No I don't and probably aint capable of going for an hour. But I last long enough to satisfy the Mrs.

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We've been in the lifestyle for quite a few years and I see a lot of e-mails and posts from men who claim that they can go for hours on end before they cum. I've had a lot of sex partners and I think the longest term of continuous thrusting may have been 30 minutes. My best partner usually cums in less time than that but it's enough to give me a great orgasm. Actually my favorite thing is foreplay, kissing, oral and fucking and changing positions. But I usually don't watch the clock. I just try to enjoy the experience.

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That depends on several factors for me.

I have in the past taken a product called Ogoplex...Which is said to increase "ropes" which is a European term I guess, it helps the sensation of sex and it helps me go longer before I cum. I love it "Ogoplex" for both of the reasons.

The other way I can go "longer" before I cum is if I part take in a little 420 action before sex. That seems to really prolong my play before I cum. Not sure how or why but it does.
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20 minutes???? An hour???? Wow!

I'm the screw for a bit, eat her monkey for a bit, play with her tits for a bit and whatever else I can think of for a bit to break the cycle and prevent a mess.

With the right amount of alcohol (read relaxed...not drunk) and condoms I'm good for a long damn while. Sober up and take off the condom and minutes MAY go by before the mess.

Mrs. Ekies can elicit a two minute response from me at will.

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Old 06-16-2008, 12:17 PM   #11 (permalink)
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hate to say it but i am a short cummer,i can only go 5 to 10 minutes on the first round wish it was longer, but i have never really had any bad complants yet.."knock on wood"...
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My hubby will go until I come, and he will seriously work at it. He went for an hour last night, but let me tell you, it wasn't long after I was done (meybe a minute) and he was ready to blow! That comes with 10 years of practice together I guess
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The other way I can go "longer" before I cum is if I part take in a little 420 action before sex. That seems to really prolong my play before I cum. Not sure how or why but it does.
I have to agree with you on this one. Not only does it make every touch feel AMAZING, but he can last as long as he needs to
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It could be these guys who can cum in 30 minutes would seriously be too long for me unless they mixed in a little fun play in between, but I can't imagine being fucked continuously for 30 minutes. Sorry, but I would just be too sore. My partners are usually good for 10-15 minutes and that's just right. I'd run from someone who boasts they can last for hours. **Good for you and I hope you find a lady who wants to be banged that long** If they mean from start to end they can go a couple of hours, including foreplay, then that's not too bad. We're not clock watchers either. We just want to have fun.

Foreplay seems to be one of my new favorite things. Sometimes I get so worked up by just thinking about it that I can't do foreplay. Dave makes me go through foreplay to where I'm actually BEGGING for penetration. I actually cum much faster that way and he cums soon after.
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For me it all depends the position. I can go for as long as needs be when she is riding me. Can pace my self on top, but doggy style i come quick. Partly for me to is how stimulated i am. If i get great head, then i come quicker, but if i just start and get hard on my own i last longer!

I think the longest session i had from start to finich was about 2 hours. about 45 min was actually penetration, but i have gone about an hour of just penetration!!
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