How long can men have sex before they orgasm

[willyoats]

My wife seldom likes penetration and thrusting for more than 5 minutes. Good thing, because that is just about how long I like it. She has had a couple of guys who went on and on, but it was not pleasant for her. It's the foreplay, including at least one orgasm manually or orally, that really excites her, not the screwing itself. Actually, she has said more than once that she could do without the screwing altogether provided the guy did great foreplay. That's quite a compliment that I am the only one she cares about screwing.

Only a very small fraction of my swinging partners like penetration more than a few minutes either. For most, it's the time spent in foreplay that counts, including the forementioned orgasms.

Fortunately for both of us, there seem to be plenty of people around who are pretty much like us.

There are a couple of exceptions. One woman likes it at least two hours but then only with many guys cumming in her during that time so there is lots of lubricaiton. The other occasionally likes the gangbang, but again with many guys (with condoms) and lots of lubricaiton.

[des1re06]

Good for you and I hope you find a lady who wants to be banged that long

One guy bragged he could go for 4 hours, and I said, "not with this girl, you wont". Not non-stop anyway.

Mrs. D

[Willing29]

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[Avril & Dec]

With Penetration Dec usually cums in 2-3 minutes usually because the foreplay is so good.It is unusal for me to cum with just penetration only.

Avril

[Willing29]

Originally Posted by Avril & Dec

With Penetration Dec usually cums in 2-3 minutes usually because the foreplay is so good.It is unusal for me to cum with just penetration only.

Avril

That's fine, but we would have expected his SO to step up if penetriation was needed to finish since it was mentioned many times that this was only to be SOFT. With that being said, and since it didn't happen that way we don't feel leaving him hanging was in poor taste. Since 'SHE' didn't want to step up for whatever reason. Anyway we mailed them back that it was the first and last time, in a nice way.

[it'sso]

Sort of telling my age, here, but now that I'm older, I often don't cum at all unless there is some oral sex for me. We usually start out, making out. Then progress to oral on her with sometimes 69 involved. My lady usually orgasms in less than five minutes of this play, then can no longer tolerate the clitoral contact. She insists that I then enter her .If I haven't had enough work up, I often last much more than twenty minutes and have had to stop after she has had her second or third orgasm with me in her.
It is just the way it is.

[Jstbcz]

Mr. Jstbcz can go up to about 3 hours before he has to either cum or take a break (bc he's not as in-shape as he once was) for sheer exhaustion. To clarify, that would include about an hour of foreplay (oral included) and an hour or more of penetration. Of course, with him, foreplay doesn't stop when penetration begins. He can sustain an erection for even longer with a good video to watch. lol. His rule is the woman cums first, so he may go 5 minutes or 2 hours depending upon the woman he is with. I regularly plead with him to cum within 30-45 minutes of penetration because he has usually given me at least 4 (and as many as 8) orgasms by that time. He's the only one who has ever been able to do that to me...

[SexyNSingle]

I have found that when I play with couples (i am single) that some of my past partners, have not cum with me, but have with thier spouse, and some of cum with me. I think it just depends on the person and familiarity. I have had some play times that went on for an hour or more, it just depends on what everyone is feeling at that time. Great foreplay will get me horny and wet every time!

[lovinher]

The more foreplay there is the longer I can last if doing other things in between. Too much foreplay makes it hard for me to finish sometimes. I know the older I get, the more control I have. A quickie can be 5 minutes or we can go on for hours. I could easily go an hour with penetration alone but it might kill me trying. I don't have that kind of will power anyway. Especially with my wife who likes it hard and fast.
IMO, any guy who says he can continuously fuck for hours is lying or has a medical problem.

[Jstbcz]

Originally Posted by Jstbcz

Mr. Jstbcz can go up to about 3 hours before he has to either cum or take a break (bc he's not as in-shape as he once was) for sheer exhaustion. To clarify, that would include about an hour of foreplay (oral included) and an hour or more of penetration. Of course, with him, foreplay doesn't stop when penetration begins. He can sustain an erection for even longer with a good video to watch. lol. His rule is the woman cums first, so he may go 5 minutes or 2 hours depending upon the woman he is with. I regularly plead with him to cum within 30-45 minutes of penetration because he has usually given me at least 4 (and as many as 8) orgasms by that time. He's the only one who has ever been able to do that to me...

OK, I should probably clarify the above sometimes includes cumming and keeping on with the fun. Ms. Jstbcz didn't mention that... For some reason, I am blessed with little or no need for recovery time. However, I can usually go for a good 45 minutes of penetration before the first pop, and sometimes a lot longer.

[screaminggood]

My hubby has been training himself to last longer....we've made it to an hour before....and no, we're not "lying" and he doesn't have any "medical problems." There's a book, [u]Male Multiple Orgasm[u], that I gave him as a Valentine's Day gift because he wanted to be able to last as long as he's seen other men do. The book has techniques that men can use to last---and I love doing homework with him!

[twohots4u2]

It usually takes me 15- 20 minutes. Several guys we have been with did get more than 5 strokes before they came because Tina is very tight. But, one guy we were with took an hour in each of the three sessions we had with him one night. Unfortunately, she was sore for several days from that. Guess it all what you are used to.

[pervgeeks]

My husband has amazing control. We were at a house party once and he had sex with three of us (not quickies) before he was done. Part of it may be the desensitizing aspect of condoms. Frequently because of that (though not always), he wants to finish with me.

He says, "As long as I don't drink too much, I'm fine for a very long time." No Viagra or Cialis, just him. I'm a very lucky woman. He's such a laid back, respectful, almost innocent looking guy, that most people wouldn't guess that about him. Definitely NOT the type to consider himself a big stud or brag about his skills (I'm his biggest cheerleader though!). In my experience, the kind of guys who do brag about themselves are the guys who have trouble lasting and sometimes even working at all.

[stu]

Originally Posted by rachan

We've been in the lifestyle for quite a few years and I see a lot of e-mails and posts from men who claim that they can go for hours on end before they cum. I've had a lot of sex partners and I think the longest term of continuous thrusting may have been 30 minutes. My best partner usually cums in less time than that but it's enough to give me a great orgasm. Actually my favorite thing is foreplay, kissing, oral and fucking and changing positions. But I usually don't watch the clock. I just try to enjoy the experience.

R

Thought this kind of stuff only happened in porns..turns out I am wrong.
For me...even if I could last the 30 minuotes of continuous thrusting, without cumming...I would run short on the physical stamina lol

However, we indulge in foreplay...for as long...maybe a coupla hours..and then the actual penetration is only for a few minuites...ofcourse foreplay may include penetration for short durations in different positions..

...and we have loads of fun .... never had any complaints

... honest

[tankman101]

IMHO that all depends,
If I haven't had an orgasm in a few days, I'm only good for the 5-10 minute range.
Now thats not a problem with me and the miss because we know how to push each others buttons and we both walk away satisfied.

If we are meeting another couple, I have an issue (or fear) of "cumming to quickly" for my playmate. My wife thinks its silly but I don't want to be the guy who sticks in for a few minutes then its all over. So when we make a playdate, we have sex every night for 3 to 4 nights before. Then when we meet our friends, I put on a condom then I can last about on hour of penetration alone (not counting fourplay)
There have been a few times I have thought to myself that maybe I'm over doing it...but no one has complained yet. (I suspect the other male halves we play with are doing something similar because no one is cumming in under half an hour. We play with 3 other couples on a somewhat regular basis - not all at the same lol, I wish...all separate unfortunately but we get a different flavor roughly every month sometime a little longer)

The way I feel about it is this. When I am with playmates, it is about the sex so yes, it needs to be out of the ordinary.

It varies from time to time but I really try to last as long as possible. The only real problem I have with this is that I am only good for one orgasm but at that point we have usually been going for a couple of hours so everyone is generally "done" and worn out.

(ps - I would encourage males to "hit the gym" in order to get the rest of your body up to speed, an hour of straight pumping is not an easy thing to do if you are out of shape. I'm 40 so being in good physical shape is important anyway. All of your partners will love ya for it! I'm 210lbs and 16% body fat, nothing delights a female peer playmate then a guy who takes good care of himself and looks good without a shirt at our age...and can fuck her for an hour! Trust me on that.)