Would you play with someone who has undergone gender reassignment surgery?

[jennandjamesinm]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

I'd ask "her" what they did with the dick. I'd hate to think 5-6 inches of healthy man-meat went up the chimney in smoke. I know guys who could've used that!

How rude! I see why you gave yourself that nickname though.

Jenn

[JustAskJulie]

Nah, if I'm attracted I'm attracted. If they feel the need to tell me that's fine. But if I didn't know before and I didn't know after then what difference would it really make?

[Playful1]

I have actually played with a mtf transgender post surgery. I only knew a few minutes before we got naked. It was totally cool. I was glad to know ahead of time though. It didnt matter, but it let me be prepared. As long as you don't have any issues with it, go for it!

[bicuriocpl]

I agree with Julie; if I'm attracted what difference would it make? For me good sex is not at gender they were?

[imsherona2]

Originally Posted by Couple-N-NM

Yeah, we'd want to know and we'd probably be out of the deal.

We tend to agree on this subject, nuff said.

[lustylearning]

I would think to myself, "hmmm... fascinating," and that would be about it. It wouldn't prevent me from playing, but I suspect my comfort level has to do with the fact that I'm female. This scenario would be far more uncomfortable, I think, to a male. Men are socialized to be homophobic.

[two4youinswva]

I don't know.

I don't think I would know until I was actually in the situation.

[driveajeepnaked]

If I were attracted to the person to begin with, it wouldn't make a difference to me what their OEM parts were...

I think that I would be more turned on to know that my experience with that person might be unique, different and a possible learning experience tha I might never be able to experience again

Val

[LikeMinds321]

With a person I liked, I'd be up for it. I think it would be fascinating. I'd want to know beforehand. I'd probably have lots of questions that I hope they would be comfortable discussing with me.

LM

[IvoryTowers]

The only reason I'd want to know beforehand is so I wasn't distracted from the play by the scars (I don't know for sure, but I assume there are scars from the surgeries)!

If I'm attracted to a person, I'm attracted. And I've actually always found gender ambiguity very sexy, so a trans-person would probably very attractive.

[it'sso]

If any of you have seen some of these people in person, it would surprise me if you could even tell they had their plumbing changed. Some of the "gals" are gorgeous and it would be a done deal before you even knew about the surgery.

[TravlParty]

We went to a beauty contest in Cancun, where some of the contestants were cross gender and some were in drag. Many of the "ladies" were gorgeous.

The female of us would play. No questions asked.

He might, if there was attraction, and post-surgery (female parts). Just haven't had the situation come up yet.

[interested-05]

simply if that is what it is, i really dont want to know. I like to think the person i'm with, is who they are, not what they were.

[slevin]

Originally Posted by it'sso

If any of you have seen some of these people in person, it would surprise me if you could even tell they had their plumbing changed. Some of the "gals" are gorgeous and it would be a done deal before you even knew about the surgery.

There is a transgender girl (M2F) here in town that goes clubbing a lot. We've seen her out a few times and she is constantly being fawned over by guys. She is one of those hot clubbing girls you see at every club getting their pictures taken and guys drooling over. Personally, I think it's obvious she used to be a man. I'm always surprised that guys don't realize, but it goes to show you that there are definitely transgender girls out there that may be hard to tell just from looking at them. No idea if it would be obvious there had been surgery when looking at the genitals though.

Tough call for me as to whether we'd play with them or not. If I was attracted already and there were no red flags from personality or anything like that....no idea if that knowledge would change my mind or not. I'd definitely want to know before-hand so it could be my decision. I'd love to say it wouldn't matter, but I think it would turn me off playing with her. For sure it wouldn't matter to me at a friendship level (either before or after).

[jdavisauto]

I would like to know. And yes it would be a deal breaker. Nature, god, life (what ever you want to call it) don’t make mistakes, man make mistakes. We are born as what we are then our minds change the fact and lead us to believe that we are something else. That’s why they undergo so many tests before the sex change surgery.