Size of the Penis

[Fantasy01]

Well Hell I bet this question has been asked before but I would like to know if there is certain, Im about average what ever that is, size that makes a woman want to play with you at a swinger's club, house party or a foursum...

[pervgeeks]

This is a male issue for the most part. Unless he's the size of a pencil (or the size of a horse- ouch!), it's really not an issue. A handsome face, nice body, and a stunning personality (and stamina along with skills with other parts of his body as well) are far more important to most women than a particular measurement. Yes, there are "size queens" so to speak, but I'm having sex with the man, not just a penis. If I just want "random giant cock", I can buy that in a store.

[socolais]

What can be said here that hasn't already been said so many times in so many ways? For some people, body parts matter more than anything else - but do you really want to be with those folks?

I read some of your other posts and I see a pattern that clearly shows a strengthening in your self confidence over the past few months. It's confidence that other people find attractive, and it often over rides appearance. Relax and have some fun with this adventure.

[funfrkycpl]

Even though I do have a preference for men that are well endowed to very well endowed, I have never played with man just because of the size of his penis. When we are at a club or party and looking for a single man to join us I have to be physically attracted to him and he has to make a good first impression on me with his personality. Without these two things it doesn't matter how big he is. If he is well endowed, knows how to use it, and has great stamina that is just a plus for me.

[Pensacolapair]

The good news is that yes, there is an ideal penis size that is guarenteed to attract playmates in Lifestyle venues... the bad news is that it varies from woman to woman!

As an observation, although there are women with definate (sometimes exclusionary) preferences on both ends of the scale.. most women seem to enjoy the variety of sizes that exist - provided that other elements are present.

[LFM2]

Dave and I are in this type of hobby for fun. We love people who exude confidence and personality. Physical characteristics are so secondary. We don't over think things. We just want to have fun with whomever we're with.

[imsherona2]

LFM2, well said and our feelings exactly!

[Fantasy01]

Thank you all for your words of wisdom. You have made my expectations of our up and coming swinger's club adventure some thing really to look forward to now... Thanks again. We'll let you know how it all works out. I have complete confidene in my personal abilities but, and even though I have never had any complaints, I've always felt a bit cheated when it came to penis size. I posed this question to all of you that would and could give me a straight answer... thanks

[gnb4u]

Let me see if I can put a little perspective on this dick thing. We only have a couple evenings a month we are able to get out and when we are finally able to go to an LS event we usually are wanting to play and go with the intent to at least try and make it happen. It is real hard to find a couple we both want to play with and even harder to find a couple we like where both parties also want to play with us. With everyone doing their little dance and trying to feel each other out and make a decision whether to try and take it to the physical realm can be quite an undertaking at times. By the time we get to a room and the clothes start coming off about the only thing that the mrs cares about when it comes to dicks is does he have one and does it work.

The fascination with dick size is really more of a male issue than a female one. Yes, all women probably have a size range that they prefer but female attraction and comfort is so complex and multi-faceted that dick size is probably # 1,262 on their priority list.

If you have a dick that is larger than 3" but under 10" and it works you are probably good to go. Your real challenge will be in looking sharp, being charming and flirtatious without coming on too aggressive. It's hard enough to find someone that you are interested in who is interested in you at the same time without worrying about what's hiding in your pants.

[Playful1]

There isn't a particular size that makes me want to play with a guy, but there is definitely a size that makes me say "i can't". If the guy is too big (which for me is not much bigger than average), no matter how much I like the guy, I'll say no.

if you're average, you'll be fine. Every woman has her preferences, but there is something for everyone too.

[Chicup]

Well there was ONE time where Mrs. Chicup giggled about how small the guy was after to me and she was disapointed in that.

Shes no size queen, but 4 inches and thin didn't do it.

[screaminggood]

Am I supposed to be questioning or asking to see it before we go to the bedroom? I usually agree to go play before I've opened up the present, so to speak.

[des1re06]

I'll be brutally honest here.

I look for a fat head. Length isn't an issue, girth is.

Since we're normally at a nudist club, I can "shop around".

[sweet_tna]

Like Gnb4u said, the whole penis size thing is more of an issue for the guys than the gals. I've played with a variety of sizes, and have yet to be disappointed. For me, it's the chemistry and how the guy uses what he's got that matters.

So relax--focus on being yourself and having fun, and you'll be fine.

=)

[Pinmonkey]

I believe penis size has less to do with attracting potential playmates than personality size does.

Oh and from what I've found doing a simple web search is that the consensus is that the average human penis is approximately 12.9–15 cm (5.1–5.9 in) in length and the typical girth or circumference is approximately 12.3 cm (4.85 in) when fully erect.