Size of the Penis

[jdavisauto]

Originally Posted by dhm2008

well as a big man being bigger can be a real handicap I have had lots of women tell me no way because of my size and I think it's about a 70-30 split, 70 being the number saying no 30 say yes. so yes size really does matter, the only people that are really interested in me is the guy males keep coming on to me. but this is not to make any judgement, but from what I have experienced myself. thanks

This reminds me of a event that happen to my wife about 4 years ago. We was at the club and we meet a single male. Very nice guy well dress and very respectful to both me and my wife. We talked and had a few drinks and with him being retired Army (So am I) we all hit it off very good. Latter on that night he went to the pool area and me and my wife went into the chair room (she loves the chair). We usually leave the door open for people to watch. Well Bill (We will call him Bill) came by and was watching us and my wife invited him to play. When Bill got undress it's like a horse dick was swinging between his legs. Damn he was big. He scared my wife. Well being a trooper like she is said that she will try him. We closed the door and he try but she was just not able to take all his dick. She could just maybe get half of it and it hurt her so bad. She ended up just giving him a two handed hand job. latter on afterwards Bill said that this was normal for him and he wish that he was not so big. So you see being big is not always the best.

[GoNatural]

I believe that there is a size range that can be considered the sizes of "greatest utility", but sure as anything, not everyone agrees with that perspective.

[Mr.Essex]

I have a bit of a quandary. I'm just barely in that "ideal size" range. But, and here's the problem, most of my partners have never encountered someone within that range. So, instead of being able to fiddle for a few minutes, then taking a plunge into the depths, I'm forced ( ) to tease and stroke and lick and rub and fondle and probe and I've just figured out why there's an ideal penis range.

[cocpl2007]

Originally Posted by Opportunists

well i been with mrs. opps long enough to be able to speak for her on this subject...

for her, penis aesthetics is more important than size. i'm not sure exactly what makes for a 'pretty one', but if he has one, she's all over him.

it is a big bonus if he has a 'big pretty one'...

while above average isn't required, i think below average doesn't turn her on so much.

if the original poster and others are really wondering about penis size - average and otherwise, there is always The Great Penis Size Debate, complete with a satisfaction graph:



it appears i fall about 3/8" thin [girth] of the ideal penis good thing mrs. is okay with 'very satisfying, but not ideal'

Ok, this scale is probably for a Thorough Bred farm in Kentucky. You have to be kidding to believe that 11 inches is enjoyable... Sure to a MARE!

[rdy46227]

I think they got the axis reversed....

[GoNatural]

That chart is fairly accurate when stating the "ideal" size, which I'd call the size of greatest utility. Yet it is not accurate when considering those very long lengths over 9", particularly when paired with a woman that has average vaginal depth. Sure, there are some women with deeper than average vaginas that could appreciate over 9", but these women are in the minority. There are actually very few women with such deep vaginas when compared the whole female population that is sexually active.

I'd say that 7" is great for swinging, and 8" ads a bit of novelty to the size of the penis, but the "law of diminishing returns" can be applied to penis size too. 10" can be too much of a good thing.

From what I've learned about sex over the years, I'd ask the dick fairy to make my dick a solid 8" long, end especially thick! If the lady wanted more than that, I'm always happy to bring a large toy into the action.

[Chicup]

Yea that graph looks a bit wonky.

Plus I do have to ask how they determined it.

Still a hilarious site on some levels.

[Brian and Jo]

The size of a man's penis is not really very important so far as I am concerned. I do like my playmates to be completely shaved however. What I am looking for in my partners is physical attraction and a certain chemistry between us mentally.

Jo

[Opportunists]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Yea that graph looks a bit wonky.

Plus I do have to ask how they determined it.

Still a hilarious site on some levels.

it's all explained on the site... we didn't stop to read it all when we saw this posted on another board, but it supposedly combines what is physically ideal to what is psychologically ideal into the graph.

funny thing is... mr. had never even measured his junk until we saw this. next thing we know, we're having a funny session between us and a measuring device.

[oddcouple]

Originally Posted by Playful1

There isn't a particular size that makes me want to play with a guy, but there is definitely a size that makes me say "i can't". If the guy is too big (which for me is not much bigger than average), no matter how much I like the guy, I'll say no.

if you're average, you'll be fine. Every woman has her preferences, but there is something for everyone too.

Please send me the ones you say no to! I'm not a size queen at all, but a thick one is nice once in a while.

[it'sso]

I think that anybody who feels comfortable in swinging should feel comfortable enough about themselves to state any requirements they have in regards to penis size.
If a guy doesn't meet requirements, he sure as hell wouldn't want to spoil an evening out with a woman who insists on more than he has to offer.
At the same time, many of the women I have encountered when in a group setting who insisted on a guy packing 8 inches or more, didn't seem to be the most enthusiastic partners in "the pile", no matter what it was that was jammed into them.

[eastkycple4fun]

ive never really had a problem with my small size, about 4 inches, but i also realize some women might be expecting more. thats one of the reasons we decided to put that im small hung in our profile. one of the reasons i enjoy swinging is so i can ejoy watching my wife have pleasure with other men and they are usually larger than me down there. its all good.

[GoNatural]

Originally Posted by eastkycple4fun

one of the reasons i enjoy swinging is so i can ejoy watching my wife have pleasure with other men and they are usually larger than me down there. its all good.

Exactly! I'm single, but I have the same type of fantasies.

No, contrary to what some will say about my fantasy type, I'm not a cuckold. I don't want to be humiliated, but on the other hand, I don't mind putting others "first". I'm just slightly passive. I don't have a smaller one, but I do have an average one.

[quivers4me]

One thing I've learned since become active in the lifestyle is that dicks come in all shapes & sizes. For me it doesn't really matter (the very big ones are scary though) as long as there is a connection with the male.

I once had a LTR with a man who felt he was small. He was average but could not be convinced that this wasn't an issue. I was happy with him and our sex life but...over time his concern with the size of his dick really took something away from the relationship. His constant need for reassurance in this was difficult for me to deal with. He couldn't understand that there was a lot more to making love than the size of his penis.

[mixtupcpl]

quivers4me.... your post should be printed, copied, and distributed to every young guy. LOL. This is such an issue for so many of us and, its sad to say, that many actually project it onto their partner and then it really DOES become an "issue" but not in the way they think.

In this way guys are every bit as insecure with body image as women (more maybe)

The other thing is... 10,000 gals like you can tell a story like this, but then so many guys will seek out that 1 out of 100 gal posting "8"+ ONLY! no NEEDLE DICKS" (and most of the time, this is actually probably a guy posting - oh the irony) and it will send them back down the spiral of insecurity.

I think if you're average, you have more important things to worry about. Like how to connect with a womans mind and really learn how to please her.