Size of the Penis

[SweetandSalty1]

Originally Posted by pervgeeks

This is a male issue for the most part. Unless he's the size of a pencil (or the size of a horse- ouch!), it's really not an issue. A handsome face, nice body, and a stunning personality (and stamina along with skills with other parts of his body as well) are far more important to most women than a particular measurement. Yes, there are "size queens" so to speak, but I'm having sex with the man, not just a penis. If I just want "random giant cock", I can buy that in a store.

I feel the same.

[Miss Sunshine]

I love a big cock but size really doesn't matter when you are playing with others, in my opinion.

[bryanlee]

Well I am 7'' long and just under 6'' around. Funny thing is that for the longest time i thought i was below average. It's funny how guys are so insecure about these things. I would probably not play with someone who was only concerned with size anyway. I agree that confidence is the key and being comfortable and able to use what you've got is more important than size alone.

Bryan & Sharon

[funcpl4life]

I'm 6.75 x 5.0. Not too shabby, but nothing to write home about. One of our frequent play partners told me that she prefers me to another, larger play partner because I don't bang on her cervix. Mrs. FC4L actually loves playing with that same larger parter because he touches a certain place for her.
Infinite variations in infinite combinations.
Yay.
Mr. FC4L

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by bryanlee

Well I am 7'' long and just under 6'' around.

Six inches around? Holy Moses! I have heard that women have a tough time in the carpentry trades because the guys have been telling them that this [hold thumb and index finder at a certain distance apart in illustrative gesture] is six inches.

[bryanlee]

Lol, I have heard that too. Pretty funny. It doesn't seem very large to me. I seriously consider myself to be of average size. Maybe I am above average, but i just don't see it.

[theflamekasters]

Originally Posted by funcpl4life

I'm 6.75 x 5.0. Not too shabby, but nothing to write home about. One of our frequent play partners told me that she prefers me to another, larger play partner because I don't bang on her cervix. Mrs. FC4L actually loves playing with that same larger parter because he touches a certain place for her.
Infinite variations in infinite combinations.
Yay.
Mr. FC4L

I have been told that as well! I know the misses prefers an avg cock to a huge one

[theflamekasters]

Originally Posted by Thrax

Dammit!

DAMMIT!

There goes what little self-esteem I had!

Where's my lawyer? Phil? Phil? Where are you? On the golf course again?

Phil, I might have a class-action thing for you...

Thrax

that is rather funny!

[meandu2gether]

I think it is a female preference. But my personal two cents is this size matters in a HUGE way. Not to throw in the race factor but being how I have experienced with most races I have to admit when it comes down to it black men on average are above average. My man is thick and long and honestly small men frustrate me in every way. I have grown so accustom to the "horse" I get no pleasure out of average men. So yes to me size matters. I am use to men over 10inches and either I have been blessed or cursed either way I like someone to fill me up and make me fill like my ribs are being separated :-). Length and girth means the world to me and well to avoid repeating myself YES SIZE MATTERS....to me that is. Although I have come across one guy that made me want to run out of the room because he did look un-human as he was bigger then anything I ever came across however I decided to stick around for the challenge :-) glad I did...its a personal thing and well its easy to tell what my preference is.

[it'sso]

I think a lot of guys in the lifestyle who sport less than average sized penises probably got into it just so they could see if their SO would be willing to screw ANYBODY.
They are hoping that it will get her motor running, given the possibility that his size was handicapping the process.
moo

[dhm2008]

well as a big man being bigger can be a real handicap I have had lots of women tell me no way because of my size and I think it's about a 70-30 split, 70 being the number saying no 30 say yes. so yes size really does matter, the only people that are really interested in me is the guy males keep coming on to me. but this is not to make any judgement, but from what I have experienced myself. thanks

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by it'sso

I think a lot of guys in the lifestyle who sport less than average sized penises probably got into it just so they could see if their SO would be willing to screw ANYBODY.
They are hoping that it will get her motor running, given the possibility that his size was handicapping the process.
moo

My experience -- as a single male playing with swingers -- has been on the other side of that assumption.

I've been playing with couples and single women in the LS for about eight years now, and looking back on every encounter I can remember, I'd say that I'm the smaller hard-on in over 90% of the encounters I had in MFMs. But, things worked out then, and I got calls for other meetings.

Why would that be? Maybe because my boner doesn't hit my partner's cervix when we're slappin' uglies?

So, the F in the equation obviously loves hubby, and I'm just a convenient and welcome "tool" (as a single male...and I accept that), but I understand that they both get off on the results. And no one gets hurt!

Maybe you can think of other reasons...

Thrax

[rajingale]

My mom loves circumcised customers.

[jdavisauto]

I never really got into that male-ego thing about dick size. I also never took a ruler to my dick to see how big or small it was. I figure that I was just average size and went on with life. It not like I going to have a operation and add more meat to my dick anyway so i,m happy with what I have. I did have several women tell me I have a big dick but that was usually after they follow the instructions printed on the side of my dick (Please inflation to 35 lbs psi). Ok now back to reality, I have been told that I do have a big dick from women but what do they have to compare it to? Size is a personal judgement of the individual.

[Opportunists]

well i been with mrs. opps long enough to be able to speak for her on this subject...

for her, penis aesthetics is more important than size. i'm not sure exactly what makes for a 'pretty one', but if he has one, she's all over him.

it is a big bonus if he has a 'big pretty one'...

while above average isn't required, i think below average doesn't turn her on so much.

if the original poster and others are really wondering about penis size - average and otherwise, there is always The Great Penis Size Debate, complete with a satisfaction graph:



it appears i fall about 3/8" thin [girth] of the ideal penis good thing mrs. is okay with 'very satisfying, but not ideal'