Size of the Penis

[rachan]

For my wife I don't know that it's the size but maybe the idea of a big dick. Our mfm partner of several years is very well endowed. Long and thick and my wife really loved it. He also has lasting power and recovers fast.

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[personal416]

Originally Posted by LFM2

Dave and I are in this type of hobby for fun. We love people who exude confidence and personality. Physical characteristics are so secondary. We don't over think things. We just want to have fun with whomever we're with.

Ding Ding Ding!!!!

[imsherona2]

Originally Posted by socolais

What can be said here that hasn't already been said so many times in so many ways? For some people, body parts matter more than anything else - but do you really want to be with those folks?

I read some of your other posts and I see a pattern that clearly shows a strengthening in your self confidence over the past few months. It's confidence that other people find attractive, and it often over rides appearance. Relax and have some fun with this adventure.

Couldn't have said it better...so ditto!

[lakeluvrs]

I'm about 5.5", which they say is average, but to judge by the people we play with and what I see in the locker room, I'd say I'm below average. The funny thing is, swinging has actually taken away most of my insecurity about it. We've played with some couples where the guy was a good 7-8 and the woman has seemed to really enjoy my efforts (even passed on good reviews about me to my wife while they chatted privately.) So I no longer feel that awkwardness when we all disrobe and my little guy makes his first appearence.

And the really ironic part of this is that my wife has discovered she really enjoys the occasional large (8") guy. She admits a large one feels different and in some ways better. So now, I'm hoping to see a guy bigger than me when we play!

[willyoats]

I have discussed this with my wife, so these are second hand answers, so to speak.

She says that she does not consider penis size before deciding to go with another guy. It's the personality, the apparent sensuality and the other physical attributes that sway her.

However, afterwards she recalls four memorable penises: the one that was a little too big, and the three that were too small. All of the others were OK size-wise, and the encounter was memorable (or forgetable) for reasons other than penis size.

[Chris&Amelia]

Amelia had a large playmate once. When it was done and over, she told me that she really didn't have all that much of a good time. When I asked her why, she was apparently sore because he "stretched her out" and it was not a good feeling for her. I guess he was also "bottoming out" (pushing up against her cervix) which she actually found painful, and she had to tell him to not penetrate her completely.

[it'sso]

Here's the scoop. If a guy is smaller than average and he is still in the lifestyle, there is nothing that you can say that he hasn't heard before (experience talking here). Why bother if you already have preconceived notions bout your requirements?

[nicerrtxcple]

i am only 6 inch cut but very very thick. but i would like to be atleast 3 inchs more longer than i am right now. My wife says i am the right size and some of the others i have been with like it! but my self i just wish i was longer my self.but thats just me.

[theflamekasters]

Originally Posted by Pinmonkey

I believe penis size has less to do with attracting potential playmates than personality size does.

Oh and from what I've found doing a simple web search is that the consensus is that the average human penis is approximately 12.9–15 cm (5.1–5.9 in) in length and the typical girth or circumference is approximately 12.3 cm (4.85 in) when fully erect.

YIPPIE SKIPPIE I AM ABOVE AVG LMAO!!!!

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by theflamekasters

YIPPIE SKIPPIE I AM ABOVE AVG LMAO!!!!

Dammit!

DAMMIT!

There goes what little self-esteem I had!

Where's my lawyer? Phil? Phil? Where are you? On the golf course again?

Phil, I might have a class-action thing for you...

Thrax

[JustMrJ]

ROFL... I'm in that 'average' range too... no complaints to date other than nervous related performance issues in a 'busy' room... gotta work on that.

[theflamekasters]

Originally Posted by Thrax

Dammit!

DAMMIT!

There goes what little self-esteem I had!

Where's my lawyer? Phil? Phil? Where are you? On the golf course again?

Phil, I might have a class-action thing for you...

Thrax

seriously, i thougth 6.5 was avg!! that is why i put that....lmao

[3sumff]

In response to Chris&Amelia, my gf feels the same way. Although, she hasn't experienced a large dick before. In terms of 7inches and over! She says the thought of having a large member inside scares her. I would say I am avg...damn it to hell with my avg. size...lol. She doesn't care for the thick guys either!
She says I am perfect for her though...bless her heart for saying I am avg...lol! There are times when she says I hurt her though.

[K&JIntimates]

I haven't been with anyone other than K (yet) but I'm not going to ask a guy who I'm otherwise into to drop his pants so that I can have a look at his penis. I'll look in the shower before playing but that is more a curiosity thing than an.."I'm not going to play with you unless you meet X requirement."

Would it be nice to be with someone who equals K below the belt...sure. Is it a requirement..no. As long as the guy knows what he's about in the bed (or makes one heck of an effort) I know I'll be happy. The only exception I can think of to this might be if the man's penis is shaped really funky. As in curved like a crescent to the side or upward. Having been with someone like that (years ago) it made sex in certain positions really uncomfortable for me.

[theflamekasters]

honestly as an avg sized male, i would say i would rather be that size then HUGE, most ever woman i know that hwas been with a guy with a huge wang says it hurts!! I am ok with my size, and woman dont seem to complain about it!! So really i have no hang up on the size of my junk, as long as it will fit in your trunk!!