Sexual Knowledge

OhioCouple · 03-02-2003, 01:36 PM

What is your sexual knowledge?

1.) What do you wish you had known sooner about sex?

2.) What has taken you a long time to learn/realize?

LadyandLordAro · 03-02-2003, 02:26 PM

1. that the mind is the most potent sex organ in the body. I dont think I learned that til i was 20 or so.

2. I can't remember lol..this is more a function of age than my sexual knowledge. I am still trying new things..but i think I have known or heard of most for quite a while. I will be watching here for some pointers .

OHHH i know!! My cock doesnt do a job on a clit like a vibe will.

Flori_DAMAN · 03-03-2003, 07:40 PM

I wish I knew sooner what an orgasm was. The first time I had one I PANICKED. I was going thru puberty and had no idea what the hell the stuff coming out of my dick was. I ran to the bathroom and looked at it. I was scared out of my mind. I thought I had sprung some sort of horrible leak. Two hours later....same thing. Man I was scared. Two hours AGAIN. Now I knew I was in trouble. I knew this required a lot of investigation. It took all I had. I had to ask a friend if he ever experienced anything like this. He gave me a copy of his parents book, everything you always wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask. Well then I knew it was OK, so I quit with the infrequent stuff.

It took me a long time to realize that sexuality was a normal function. I was raised a catholic and I am quite sure I need glasses now because I thought so strongly that it would make me blind that I'm sure I created a psycho/ physiological astigmatism.

John.

Brit_Pair · 03-04-2003, 11:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
I wish I knew sooner what an orgasm was. The first time I had one I PANICKED. I was going thru puberty and had no idea what the hell the stuff coming out of my dick was. I ran to the bathroom and looked at it. I was scared out of my mind. I thought I had sprung some sort of horrible leak.

I remember that feeling - I had an almost identical experience, although I didn't have the same sense of panic during subsequent occurances!

03-05-2003, 12:07 AM

1.) What do you wish you had known sooner about sex?

That ANAL sex will NOT kill you lol...thanks mom I was so scared of it I never allowed anything near my bottom untill i was married! I belived you could die. 2 .) What has taken you a long time to learn/realize? you don't have to deep throat for it to still feel good. I use to try to take it all. Thanks to my hubby who told me you don't have to gag just suck it. I was pretty sexually uneducated untill I married my husband. He has opned up many doors for me.

BradAndJanet · 03-05-2003, 06:45 PM

1) How really, really, really sensitive a woman's clitoris is. I was a bad lover

but J was patient and set me straight. Guys, it doesn't take much direct stimulation, so go easy. And learn how to say your ABC's

2) How wonderful it is to take an hour or more to just build up our arousal level and not succumb to the urge to 'just do it' in 20 minutes. Sex is better now that we're older and take our time.

-B

Flori_DAMAN · 03-05-2003, 07:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BradAndJanet
1) How really, really, really sensitive a woman's clitoris is. I was a bad lover but J was patient and set me straight. Guys, it doesn't take much direct stimulation, so go easy. And learn how to say your ABC's

2) How wonderful it is to take an hour or more to just build up our arousal level and not succumb to the urge to 'just do it' in 20 minutes. Sex is better now that we're older and take our time.

-B

Just one tiny hint. Don't fall asleep, it really pisses them off.

John.

Emy_Fraser · 03-06-2003, 05:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by BradAndJanet
1) How really, really, really sensitive a woman's clitoris is. I was a bad lover but J was patient and set me straight. Guys, it doesn't take much direct stimulation, so go easy. And learn how to say your ABC's

-B

One of Fraser's fave quotes, from his first wife many years ago;

"Thats a clitoris Fraser, not a gear stick!"

Luckily he knew the difference by the time he met me,

Emy xx

DragonsLair · 03-12-2003, 09:10 PM

Well what I learned early on was how to lick clit at the age of 8. I was a naughty boy. But what I learned later in life was that its best with a woman that truly loves you no matter how big an ass you are. LOL......

I am T(The Clit God)She is A(The Clit)

Flori_DAMAN · 03-12-2003, 10:24 PM

I was raised a catholic. We had a book called "achieving sexual maturity". Man I got a hard on everytime we had that class. The teacher was Mrs. Whatever. She was cute as a bug. One day she walked down the hallway with a huge dissection of a penis.

It was huge.

I kindly asked her to bring one in of a vagina, and I told her that she looked mighty good carrying around that penis.

I got detention.

We never did get the vagina, but when I found out what a clit was I was like 17, and attacked them for a few years.

Now that I'm older and wiser, I know that every clit is different, kinda like a penis.

Some like it to be teased slowly, sometimes, and some like it hard and rough sometimes. You just gotta be in tune with your partner and her mood at any given time.

Oh well, I still have that damn book. If anyone else has it go to page 17.

John.

perlwizard · 03-13-2003, 01:00 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by OhioCouple
What is your sexual knowledge?

1.) What do you wish you had known sooner about sex?

2.) What has taken you a long time to learn/realize?

1) That sex is normal, and should not be repressed.

2) That sex is normal, and should not be repressed, but explored openly.

FreakyBytch · 03-29-2003, 02:54 AM

1. I wish I knew that anal stimulation was so much fun and not as dangerous as people make it out to be, also that it is nearly impossible (but is possible) to have a baby from anal sex. YES, it is possible. Not through sperm going up the chute, but it coming out of the anus and making it's way to the vagina. You have to be careful about that.

2. It took me a long time to realize that condoms worked.

***JustAskJulie*** · 11-19-2008, 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OhioCouple

1.) What do you wish you had known sooner about sex?

that wanting it wasn't a bad thing

Quote:

Originally Posted by OhioCouple

2.) What has taken you a long time to learn/realize?

That it's ok to talk during sex and tell the other person what I want/ don't want.

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LadyandLordAro Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 87 Location: Niles MIchigan 49120 Status: couple	great questions 1. that the mind is the most potent sex organ in the body. I dont think I learned that til i was 20 or so. 2. I can't remember lol..this is more a function of age than my sexual knowledge. I am still trying new things..but i think I have known or heard of most for quite a while. I will be watching here for some pointers . OHHH i know!! My cock doesnt do a job on a clit like a vibe will. __________________ can I touch it?

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03-03-2003, 07:40 PM	#3 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I wish I knew sooner what an orgasm was. The first time I had one I PANICKED. I was going thru puberty and had no idea what the hell the stuff coming out of my dick was. I ran to the bathroom and looked at it. I was scared out of my mind. I thought I had sprung some sort of horrible leak. Two hours later....same thing. Man I was scared. Two hours AGAIN. Now I knew I was in trouble. I knew this required a lot of investigation. It took all I had. I had to ask a friend if he ever experienced anything like this. He gave me a copy of his parents book, everything you always wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask. Well then I knew it was OK, so I quit with the infrequent stuff. It took me a long time to realize that sexuality was a normal function. I was raised a catholic and I am quite sure I need glasses now because I thought so strongly that it would make me blind that I'm sure I created a psycho/ physiological astigmatism. John.

03-05-2003, 12:07 AM	#5 (permalink)
xerogirl Posts: n/a	1.) What do you wish you had known sooner about sex? That ANAL sex will NOT kill you lol...thanks mom I was so scared of it I never allowed anything near my bottom untill i was married! I belived you could die. 2 .) What has taken you a long time to learn/realize? you don't have to deep throat for it to still feel good. I use to try to take it all. Thanks to my hubby who told me you don't have to gag just suck it. I was pretty sexually uneducated untill I married my husband. He has opned up many doors for me.

03-12-2003, 09:10 PM	#9 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	Well what I learned early on was how to lick clit at the age of 8. I was a naughty boy. But what I learned later in life was that its best with a woman that truly loves you no matter how big an ass you are. LOL...... I am T(The Clit God)She is A(The Clit)

03-12-2003, 10:24 PM	#10 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I was raised a catholic. We had a book called "achieving sexual maturity". Man I got a hard on everytime we had that class. The teacher was Mrs. Whatever. She was cute as a bug. One day she walked down the hallway with a huge dissection of a penis. It was huge. I kindly asked her to bring one in of a vagina, and I told her that she looked mighty good carrying around that penis. I got detention. We never did get the vagina, but when I found out what a clit was I was like 17, and attacked them for a few years. Now that I'm older and wiser, I know that every clit is different, kinda like a penis. Some like it to be teased slowly, sometimes, and some like it hard and rough sometimes. You just gotta be in tune with your partner and her mood at any given time. Oh well, I still have that damn book. If anyone else has it go to page 17. John.

03-29-2003, 02:54 AM	#12 (permalink)
FreakyBytch SPAMMER Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 38 Location: My Asshole usually Status: Married Female	1. I wish I knew that anal stimulation was so much fun and not as dangerous as people make it out to be, also that it is nearly impossible (but is possible) to have a baby from anal sex. YES, it is possible. Not through sperm going up the chute, but it coming out of the anus and making it's way to the vagina. You have to be careful about that. 2. It took me a long time to realize that condoms worked.

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