Body Piercing Virgin

[ncmd_couple]

Ok, for some of you, it may sound strange that a man fixing to hit 50, who has been around the world in the Navy, and has had his fair share of experiences, has never been with a woman who has anything other than her ears pierced. I’m a piercing virgin.

I always want to give a woman pleasure, not pain. And I know that some of the areas that ladies get pierced, nipples and clit hood, are very sensitive to start off with. I don’t want to give the lady any pain, only pleasure.

So, my question is, especially from the ladies who can give first hand advice, what things should I be wary of so that I don’t hurt her. What things should I keep in mind to enhance her experience? What things should I make sure that I don’t do?

Also, I have never been with a woman who has had her tongue pierced. I always assumed that was for oral sex, or done because kids were getting it done. What’s up with tongue piercing?

S

[serendipitysam]

In answer to your query it all comes down to one thing, communication, communication and communication. there is not a damn thing wrong with asking about piercings and how they like to be handled.

[ncmd_couple]

Sam,

That is why I'm asking here, I don't know anyone to ask!!

[sexcupid]

Ok as someone who is pierced, I let my partners know about the piercings...one guy at a house party after asking if he could touch me, went to rub my clit and exclaimed, 'omg, she's pierced'. I mean, he wasn't rough or anything, but he wasn't expecting it and I was a little distracted by all the hands on me and didn't think to tell him.

I have both nipples done and the hood. My left nipple is exceptionally sensitive to the point of being painful. The right just feels goooooood.... And I make sure to let my partners know of this in particular because it is so sensitive.

Honestly, no yanking/pulling or twisting unless it's specifically asked for. Just do what you normally do and let things progress. I know that's frustrating advice, but unless your play partner has warned you like I try to warn mine, just assume that the piercing is a visual enhancement as well as additional stimulation to the piercee.

Maria

[Pepper & Drew]

I have a hood piercing and any normal contact is just fine. I agree with no yanking or pulling, but other than that, there's no pain associated unless it's brand new...in which case she shouldn't be playing anyway.

Pepper

[ncmd_couple]

Thank you ladies!

Sounds to me like I need to do what I normally do. Be gentle. Pay close attention to her reactions. And pay attention to anything she might say, either verbally or physically. It was something that I was actually worried about. I hadn't come across it yet, and didn't want some lady placing an "ugh" next to my name.

Also I must say you have more balls than I do, if someone approached me with a piercing needle I would run, not walk, to the nearest exit!

S