5 Most Common Sexual Fantasies

***JustAskJulie*** · 02-24-2003, 08:56 PM

Found this article that details the most common sexual fantasies among men and women.

Quote:

A combination of 13 recent studies show that the following are the most common sexual fantasies for both men and women:

1. Reliving an exciting sexual experience
2. Dreaming about someone other than your partner
3. Having sexual power over another
4. Being sexually irresistible (exhibitionism)
5. Being “forced” into sex

Read the Full Article

Chris&Amelia · 02-24-2003, 09:35 PM

Speaking for myself only #1 and #2 are my personal favorites. I would imagine that loosing your virginity (for guys, anyway) is probably pretty big.

I gotta be a pretty boring guy, but #3 though #5 was never on my play list. Go figure.

BradAndJanet · 02-24-2003, 09:41 PM

#1, #3 and #5. Guess that makes me 'odd'...

-B

Flori_DAMAN · 02-24-2003, 10:03 PM

5
5
5
John

DragonsLair · 02-24-2003, 10:09 PM

If you've never read Nancy's books on sexual fantasies, do so. I found all very interesting. She has three on women's fantasies, I think and one on men's. Some of the fantasies disturbed me, but some really turned me on. In fact, I adapted a couple of them for my own use.

DragonsLair

He is T (my favorite fantasy). I am A (glad he's my reality too).

Flori_DAMAN · 02-24-2003, 10:10 PM

5 only if its a female.

I wouldnt consider it any other way forcefully.

Just wanted to clarify that.

Yeah but how could female possibly do it?

The way I fantasized it is like this:

Im sitting at a pool hall. A lonely gal that just got bummed out because she was picked number two for penthouse of the year happens to be there too. She is PISSED.....I try to ignore her. She can't help herself. She takes one look at my balding head, my outdated glasses and my demure smile and innocently asks me to go outside for a smoke because smoking is outlawed now in Florida.

The idiot that I am, I go with her.

Then its all over.

First thing I know is NO she does not have a lighter. I search and I cant find one.

She takes me to her porche.

SURE she has a cig lighter in her Porche. OH YEAH

next thing you know I'm being ravished.

I cant continue, the pain is horrible

Ok, I can, she reaches for the lighter and accidentally on purpose rubs my thigh.

OK, I tried, but the realisism of this horrible nightmare is getting to me.

John.

Brit_Pair · 02-25-2003, 05:20 PM

Our female half enjoys the essence of item 5 – the idea of being ‘taken’, or overpowered by some nameless, faceless stranger. However, that’s the purview of fantasy alone.

Echoing Dragons Lair’s comment, Nancy Friday’s books work on a variety of levels, whether your goal is learned study of the subject matter, or simply titillation of the senses.

anonkev · 03-11-2003, 01:45 AM

yes yes yes and yes. That "forced into sex" thing... caught me off guard with that one but after some conderation... YES

Kev

PartyCouple2003 · 03-13-2003, 11:37 PM

hmmmm we must be real odd then cause we pick 1234 and 5 lol

naughty A · 03-21-2003, 10:56 AM

I want 1 and 2 and 3 and 4 and 5

why not 6, 7 and 8 too.

Naughty A.

**Alura** · 03-21-2003, 02:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN

She takes me to her porche.

SURE she has a cig lighter in her Porche. OH YEAH

next thing you know I'm being ravished.

John.

Hmmm. Ravished, John? In a Porsche? I don't understand..

Mr. Alura

Buck · 03-21-2003, 05:21 PM

This isn't on the list but mine is watching my wife enjoying herself and being ravished by someone like Rocco Siffredi or Peter North or better yet , both!

Flori_DAMAN · 03-21-2003, 05:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Alura
Hmmm. Ravished, John? In a Porsche? I don't understand..

Mr. Alura

I take it back, I want an American car....so its now a taurus.

LOL.

John

**Alura** · 03-21-2003, 05:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Buck
This isn't on the list but mine is watching my wife enjoying herself and being ravished by someone like Rocco Siffredi or Peter North or better yet , both!

Are those guys Rodeo Cowboys or Longhorns, Buck?

Mr. Alura

Brit_Pair · 03-22-2003, 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Alura
Are those guys Rodeo Cowboys or Longhorns, Buck?

Mr. Alura

From what I recall of seeing them on video, the latter description certainly fits them both very well!

Swingers Ads	Swinger Pics	Swinger Stories	Shopping	Search Swingers	Swingers Clubs	Swinger Articles	Dictionary	FAQs	Swinger Links
Forums	Register	Swinger Events	Search	Today's Posts	Mark Forums Read	Chat Room [1]

02-24-2003, 09:35 PM	#2 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,450 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A Swing Lifestyle Name:PA_Panache	I must be boring, then... Speaking for myself only #1 and #2 are my personal favorites. I would imagine that loosing your virginity (for guys, anyway) is probably pretty big. I gotta be a pretty boring guy, but #3 though #5 was never on my play list. Go figure.

02-24-2003, 09:41 PM	#3 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	#1, #3 and #5. Guess that makes me 'odd'... -B
	__________________ "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain All about us...

02-24-2003, 10:09 PM	#5 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	Nancy Friday's books If you've never read Nancy's books on sexual fantasies, do so. I found all very interesting. She has three on women's fantasies, I think and one on men's. Some of the fantasies disturbed me, but some really turned me on. In fact, I adapted a couple of them for my own use. DragonsLair He is T (my favorite fantasy). I am A (glad he's my reality too).

02-25-2003, 05:20 PM	#7 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	List item 5 Our female half enjoys the essence of item 5 – the idea of being ‘taken’, or overpowered by some nameless, faceless stranger. However, that’s the purview of fantasy alone. Echoing Dragons Lair’s comment, Nancy Friday’s books work on a variety of levels, whether your goal is learned study of the subject matter, or simply titillation of the senses.

02-24-2003, 10:03 PM	#4 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	5 5 5 John

02-24-2003, 10:10 PM	#6 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	5 only if its a female. I wouldnt consider it any other way forcefully. Just wanted to clarify that. Yeah but how could female possibly do it? The way I fantasized it is like this: Im sitting at a pool hall. A lonely gal that just got bummed out because she was picked number two for penthouse of the year happens to be there too. She is PISSED.....I try to ignore her. She can't help herself. She takes one look at my balding head, my outdated glasses and my demure smile and innocently asks me to go outside for a smoke because smoking is outlawed now in Florida. The idiot that I am, I go with her. Then its all over. First thing I know is NO she does not have a lighter. I search and I cant find one. She takes me to her porche. SURE she has a cig lighter in her Porche. OH YEAH next thing you know I'm being ravished. I cant continue, the pain is horrible Ok, I can, she reaches for the lighter and accidentally on purpose rubs my thigh. OK, I tried, but the realisism of this horrible nightmare is getting to me. John.

03-11-2003, 01:45 AM	#8 (permalink)
anonkev Registered Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Denver, Colorado Status: M. Male	yes yes yes and yes. That "forced into sex" thing... caught me off guard with that one but after some conderation... YES Kev

03-13-2003, 11:37 PM	#9 (permalink)
PartyCouple2003 Active Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 27 Location: Central PA Status: Couple	hmmmm we must be real odd then cause we pick 1234 and 5 lol

03-21-2003, 10:56 AM	#10 (permalink)
naughty A Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 997 Location: windsor ontario Status: couple - female half	I want 1 and 2 and 3 and 4 and 5 why not 6, 7 and 8 too. Naughty A.

03-21-2003, 05:21 PM	#12 (permalink)
Buck Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 173 Location: Austin Status: Couple	This isn't on the list but mine is watching my wife enjoying herself and being ravished by someone like Rocco Siffredi or Peter North or better yet , both!

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Email this Page
Display Modes
Linear Mode Switch to Hybrid Mode Switch to Threaded Mode

Similar Threads
Thread	Thread Starter	Forum	Replies	Last Post
Men's Erectile Dysfunction is giving her a complex	curiouscple40	Performance/ Erection Issues	11	09-11-2006 06:41 PM
Are my fantasies cuckold related?	longtimeguy	Swinging Separately/ Open Marriage	12	06-08-2006 09:26 PM
how common is it for men to have erection problems?	biblonde	Performance/ Erection Issues	17	09-09-2004 08:30 PM
Common Courtesy and Common Sense	OhioCouple	Doing the Personals	19	05-01-2003 07:08 PM