Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality?

lott · 11-21-2007, 11:58 AM

I was reading an article where the person said that she witnessed a gangbang and felt it was very homoerotic and maybe the men had latent homosexual tendencies.

I don't feel that way, I just like to see a woman get pleased and get as sexual with a lot of men but I was wondering does anyone think what the writer of the article stated was true in a sense?.

sexcupid · 11-21-2007, 12:56 PM

Well...if you've seen a gangbang or one of the many videos/websites dedicated to the subject...I guess in a manner of speaking it is homoerotic, b/c (particuarly in the movies) you have very nice looking men standing around playing with their dicks, while waiting their turn. Part of the turn on may be from watching the other guys stroking themselves and of course watching the guys that are having at the female. I have yet to see one that turned into a free for all where the guys were doing each other as well as the woman. And I don't think that it has anything to do with 'latent homosexual tendencies' in the males.

My interpretation of a gangbang is that it is esentially a loss of control for the female; a group of men, one after another just coming up and using you the way he wants. And that aspect may be what many men get off on during a gangbang. Altho, it's not like we're talking 'gang rape' here, most people pick who they want to participate and line out what activites are kosher and what are off limits....so it's a slightly controlled environment in a manner of speaking (so not a total loss of control...just an approximation perhaps).

Maria

WesternSwing · 11-21-2007, 01:07 PM

No, I don't think there are any latent homosexual tendencies in a gangbang situation, but the men there do have to be very comfortable with a) being naked around other men, b) having sex around other men or in a group setting, and c) putting his penis where just moments before another penis was.

I think this sounds super hot to allot of men, but when the rubbers hits the road (or pussy as it may be

) many can't hang (or that's ALL they do

). So I wouldn't call it homoerotic, but a guy definitely can't be homophobic in any way.

Mr. WS

lott · 11-21-2007, 01:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

No, I don't think there are any latent homosexual tendencies in a gangbang situation, but the men there do have to be very comfortable with a) being naked around other men, b) having sex around other men or in a group setting, and c) putting his penis where just moments before another penis was.

I think this sounds super hot to allot of men, but when the rubbers hits the road (or pussy as it may be

) many can't hang (or that's ALL they do

). So I wouldn't call it homoerotic, but a guy definitely can't be homophobic in any way.

Mr. WS

Do you think it's more of a male bonding type of thing?. What I mean by this is that maybe the man gets off on watching other men doing the same thing he is doing and it makes him more comfortable with the actual act of sex which increases the sexual energy even more.

Also, how do women feel when they have group sex with one man?. Is it a female bonding type of thing also?.

celtic239 · 11-21-2007, 07:45 PM

Oh Hell No! MFM or gangbang the focus of the action is always on the woman and HER reaction of engaging in sex with multiple male partners.

Spoomonkey · 11-21-2007, 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lott

Do you think it's more of a male bonding type of thing?. What I mean by this is that maybe the man gets off on watching other men doing the same thing he is doing and it makes him more comfortable with the actual act of sex which increases the sexual energy even more.

I am not sure that I would agree with that hypothesis.

I enjoy having sex with women. I don't need the encouragement of other men to do it. In fact, if it were considered wrong, I would probably do it anyway.

I don't see sex as a fraternal act.

As for whether men get off watching other men do "the same thing he is doing" - I can't speak for all men. I'm not in to gang bangs, but we have enjoyed threesomes with men and what I get out of it is the thrill of watching Mrs Spoo enjoy herself. And I get to have sex too - which I like (see above).

What increases the sexual energy is not my comfort level with sex - I am plenty comfortable there. Swinging - in any form - tends to increase the sexual energy just because of the nature of group sex: variety, challenge, visual stimulation, etc.

As for whether enjoying a gang bang is a sign of latent homosexuality, I'd have to say "no". Even though it is "not my cup of tea", the only thing I would say for certain about a man wanting to participate is that he wants to have sexual intercourse with a woman. What other motivations - expressed or not - are going to vary by individual.

Sure, some men probably do get into swinging to satisfy homosexual interests. Some are open about it - some are not. But that is a rather individual thing and I'd be reluctant to assume something about a persons sexuality - whether they join in on a gang bang or read the wrong threads around here (

*snicker* bad monkey *snicker*). I'm just not sure such assumptions are healthy, intellectually honest or accurate.

I'll appeal to the common paraphrase of Ockham's Razor: "All other things being equal, the simplest solution is the best."

Sometimes a guy just likes a gang bang...

Spoomonkey

lovinher · 11-21-2007, 08:53 PM

Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality?

Of course it is. Isn't anything beyond the norm?

IMO, I don't think so. It's a unique erotic situation that would turn on a lot of guys (at least the fantasy of participating) , including myself and I know I'm not. There I go, proclaiming my heterosexuality again....sorry.

So, from a straight guy who likes the idea, I say no. BUT! I'm not sure I could play with my pud in front of a bunch of guys. So....maybe.

Using this logic, couldn't the same be said for MFM? MMF? MMMF? Where does homosexuality start?

ShellyM · 11-21-2007, 10:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lott

I was reading an article where the person said that she witnessed a gangbang and felt it was very homoerotic and maybe the men had latent homosexual tendencies.

I don't feel that way, I just like to see a woman get pleased and get as sexual with a lot of men but I was wondering does anyone think what the writer of the article stated was true in a sense?.

I don't think so. I always kind of wonder what they are doing while they are waiting for their turn lol but I never thought of them as being gay. Now if they are doing each other while waiting for their turn....
I'm kidding.

xxPabloxx · 12-14-2007, 11:51 PM

That really sound's like the writers own biases creeping in. Consider the source - this was this persons "experience" - singular. They are obviously not normally part of a gangbang lifestyle.

Actually, I've got a similar experience to this writer - Old Jewish men in the locker room, they weird me out. They weird me out in the way that someone talking to me while I'm trying to pee weirds me out. Based on the ones I know, Old Jewish Men, such as my father in law, like their wives (my MIL), tend to be modest and even a bit of a prude outside their relationship. All that get's magicly swept away when they step into the locker room. There, for some reason, they become positive exibitionists. FYI, I've been naked on stage, done nude modeling, changed naked in front of fellow actors, and done a 3 way with another guy - all fine in my book. But I get weirded out in the locker room when all these old guys drop trou almost the moment they get behind the door and only get dressed again moments before they emerge again. Me, I'm wearing a towel unless water is pouring on me or I'm just about to step into clothes again. That's just my own sense of modestly. Walking around with your gear out, not for sex, just seems wrong to me.

But that is my own bias, and it's good for a laugh. Hey, it's perfectly natural to them.

**BiloxiCouple** · 12-15-2007, 05:12 AM

I guess if the next guy was putting in before the other guy pulled out, there might be a tender tendancy there.

You only see what you want to see. If the person sees homoerotic, that's her perception. If she see a woman being satisfied over and over again, another perception. If she sees fluffing...

ShellyM · 12-15-2007, 12:03 PM

LOL, nope. I don't see any homosexuality in gang bangs. Now, gang bangs where all involved are outties lol...but when they are doing an innie nope.

**fun4Ds** · 12-15-2007, 02:28 PM

actually gangbangs are more about.... power and controll. not homosexuality.

Sico_tiko · 12-15-2007, 05:44 PM

I dont think its a sign of homosexuality as u do it only to please ur partner with a new fantasy, thats all as long as u r not attracted to people of the same sex.

FunSeeker · 12-15-2007, 08:21 PM

Having never been to a gangbang, i can't say for sure yes or no, but from what i know about them and have seen i can't say that there's a very homoerotic feel to it. The focus is completely on the woman recieving all the attention. Which i might add, is very hot and erotic!

I can kind of see where someone could pose this question, though, because it can seem like a big circle jerk for the most part and every so often a few of the guys get to play or interact with the woman.

Chicup · 12-15-2007, 10:16 PM

Maybe latent homosexuals would enjoy a gangbang more and be drawn to them because of all the naked guys and the close contact, I could see that.

I don't think that would apply to all the men there though.

Not being into gangbangs in the least, its hard for me to see the attraction as a male but I think labeling everyone who does like them as latent homosexuals might be a bit much.

I do sometimes wonder though if its more of a form of prostitution for some women. Most of those 'gangbang parties' have a high fee on the males involved.

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11-21-2007, 11:58 AM	#1 (permalink)
lott Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 50 Location: New York	Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? I was reading an article where the person said that she witnessed a gangbang and felt it was very homoerotic and maybe the men had latent homosexual tendencies. I don't feel that way, I just like to see a woman get pleased and get as sexual with a lot of men but I was wondering does anyone think what the writer of the article stated was true in a sense?.

11-21-2007, 12:56 PM	#2 (permalink)
sexcupid Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 876 Location: San Antonio Status: couple/f SLS Name:sexcupid Blog Entries: 3	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? Well...if you've seen a gangbang or one of the many videos/websites dedicated to the subject...I guess in a manner of speaking it is homoerotic, b/c (particuarly in the movies) you have very nice looking men standing around playing with their dicks, while waiting their turn. Part of the turn on may be from watching the other guys stroking themselves and of course watching the guys that are having at the female. I have yet to see one that turned into a free for all where the guys were doing each other as well as the woman. And I don't think that it has anything to do with 'latent homosexual tendencies' in the males. My interpretation of a gangbang is that it is esentially a loss of control for the female; a group of men, one after another just coming up and using you the way he wants. And that aspect may be what many men get off on during a gangbang. Altho, it's not like we're talking 'gang rape' here, most people pick who they want to participate and line out what activites are kosher and what are off limits....so it's a slightly controlled environment in a manner of speaking (so not a total loss of control...just an approximation perhaps). Maria

11-21-2007, 01:07 PM	#3 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,824 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? No, I don't think there are any latent homosexual tendencies in a gangbang situation, but the men there do have to be very comfortable with a) being naked around other men, b) having sex around other men or in a group setting, and c) putting his penis where just moments before another penis was. I think this sounds super hot to allot of men, but when the rubbers hits the road (or pussy as it may be ) many can't hang (or that's ALL they do ). So I wouldn't call it homoerotic, but a guy definitely can't be homophobic in any way. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

11-21-2007, 07:45 PM	#5 (permalink)
celtic239 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 170 Location: new york	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? Oh Hell No! MFM or gangbang the focus of the action is always on the woman and HER reaction of engaging in sex with multiple male partners.

11-21-2007, 08:53 PM	#7 (permalink)
lovinher Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 763 Location: cleveland area Status: married to lovinhim SLS Name:Lovinall	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? Of course it is. Isn't anything beyond the norm? IMO, I don't think so. It's a unique erotic situation that would turn on a lot of guys (at least the fantasy of participating) , including myself and I know I'm not. There I go, proclaiming my heterosexuality again....sorry. So, from a straight guy who likes the idea, I say no. BUT! I'm not sure I could play with my pud in front of a bunch of guys. So....maybe. Using this logic, couldn't the same be said for MFM? MMF? MMMF? Where does homosexuality start? __________________ I know I was born. I know that I'll die. The in between is mine. (PJ)

12-14-2007, 11:51 PM	#9 (permalink)
xxPabloxx Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Cali Status: M. MAle	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? That really sound's like the writers own biases creeping in. Consider the source - this was this persons "experience" - singular. They are obviously not normally part of a gangbang lifestyle. Actually, I've got a similar experience to this writer - Old Jewish men in the locker room, they weird me out. They weird me out in the way that someone talking to me while I'm trying to pee weirds me out. Based on the ones I know, Old Jewish Men, such as my father in law, like their wives (my MIL), tend to be modest and even a bit of a prude outside their relationship. All that get's magicly swept away when they step into the locker room. There, for some reason, they become positive exibitionists. FYI, I've been naked on stage, done nude modeling, changed naked in front of fellow actors, and done a 3 way with another guy - all fine in my book. But I get weirded out in the locker room when all these old guys drop trou almost the moment they get behind the door and only get dressed again moments before they emerge again. Me, I'm wearing a towel unless water is pouring on me or I'm just about to step into clothes again. That's just my own sense of modestly. Walking around with your gear out, not for sex, just seems wrong to me. But that is my own bias, and it's good for a laugh. Hey, it's perfectly natural to them.

12-15-2007, 05:12 AM	#10 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple YOUR PLACE OR OURS?? Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 2,757 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits SLS Name:graceful	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? I guess if the next guy was putting in before the other guy pulled out, there might be a tender tendancy there. You only see what you want to see. If the person sees homoerotic, that's her perception. If she see a woman being satisfied over and over again, another perception. If she sees fluffing... __________________ Billy & Elaine You can't fix stupid...

12-15-2007, 12:03 PM	#11 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? LOL, nope. I don't see any homosexuality in gang bangs. Now, gang bangs where all involved are outties lol...but when they are doing an innie nope. __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

12-15-2007, 02:28 PM	#12 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,958 Location: Indiana. Status: couple SLS Name:mrmrsfun Blog Entries: 15	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? actually gangbangs are more about.... power and controll. not homosexuality. __________________ well... at least we are normal pervs

12-15-2007, 05:44 PM	#13 (permalink)
Sico_tiko Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 171 Location: Eg Status: Single Male SLS Name:sico_tiko	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? I dont think its a sign of homosexuality as u do it only to please ur partner with a new fantasy, thats all as long as u r not attracted to people of the same sex.

12-15-2007, 08:21 PM	#14 (permalink)
FunSeeker Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 16 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Single Male SLS Name:big_d2000	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? Having never been to a gangbang, i can't say for sure yes or no, but from what i know about them and have seen i can't say that there's a very homoerotic feel to it. The focus is completely on the woman recieving all the attention. Which i might add, is very hot and erotic! I can kind of see where someone could pose this question, though, because it can seem like a big circle jerk for the most part and every so often a few of the guys get to play or interact with the woman.

12-15-2007, 10:16 PM	#15 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 2,341 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Are gangbangs signs of latent homosexuality? Maybe latent homosexuals would enjoy a gangbang more and be drawn to them because of all the naked guys and the close contact, I could see that. I don't think that would apply to all the men there though. Not being into gangbangs in the least, its hard for me to see the attraction as a male but I think labeling everyone who does like them as latent homosexuals might be a bit much. I do sometimes wonder though if its more of a form of prostitution for some women. Most of those 'gangbang parties' have a high fee on the males involved.

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