Would you?

merced209guy · 09-11-2007, 01:55 PM

Meet up just to exchange oral encounters? Does it have to be sex? Does your husband care to watch as you give?

Spoomonkey · 09-11-2007, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by merced209guy

Meet up just to exchange oral encounters? Does it have to be sex? Does your husband care to watch as you give?

Is this a question just for women?

I doubt we'd be terribly interested. We like full swap.

I enjoy watching my wife, but I also like to join in. So, just sitting back and watching her blow a guy? Not something I'd go out of my way for...

Spoomonkey

**good times** · 09-12-2007, 02:55 PM

I agree with Spoo, we consider what you describe as foreplay, which is good as long as it leads to actual sex. If it isn't going to lead to sex, we'll pass thanks.

As far as me just watching goes, I'll pass on that too, I am more of a participant by nature rather than a spectator.

tribbles · 09-12-2007, 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by merced209guy

Meet up just to exchange oral encounters? Does it have to be sex? Does your husband care to watch as you give?

We wouldn't but we have chatted with others in SoCal who only do FF and the males wait till the girls are done to play only with their own mates.

ShellyM · 09-12-2007, 06:33 PM

OP, nope not something we'd be interested in since we are full swap...
but hey, if it makes y'all happy go for it!
Shell

Lovethenights · 09-12-2007, 10:13 PM

Would we meet another couple to watch my wife receive oral from the other guy (or gal) and give him (or her) oral? Sure... As long as that was the openly stated and honest expectation for the evening and it involved a nice meal, some interesting chit-chat, and a good Merlot.

**LFM2** · 09-13-2007, 12:12 AM

We're pretty much with the majority. We're full swap as well and while we've done MFM's before, I know Mr. LFM enjoys the hell out of watching me please another guy, but having said that, it's not something I'd do, because I enjoy the hell out of Mr. LFM joining in.

LOL_OMG · 09-13-2007, 11:23 AM

OP, your question is a little vague but if you mean exchanging oral encounters between two couples then your referring to what some call soft swap and our answer would be yes, if we like the other couple we will do what they are comfortable with. If you mean get together with a single guy and have the Mr. sit and watch the other guy get a blojob then the answer is no.

Mr. Lol

DBL D · 09-13-2007, 09:38 PM

No thanks...

We met a couple at a dance who wanted to do oral with us and then finish up with your own spouse. We just kinda looked at each other when we found out their plan, that's because we are full swap.

What you're talking of is soft swap. Now, if a couple advertises themselves as f.s. and asks this of you, that would be pretty weird.

Again...for us, no thank you.

Male D

GoNatural · 09-13-2007, 10:35 PM

Well, I'm a guy, but I would definitely meet up with a couple to only go down on the wife.

perkygl · 10-06-2007, 03:12 PM

I have done this a couple times Husband always there to watch

lovinher · 10-06-2007, 03:54 PM

Wide range of answers here. Just goes to show ya that if YOU like something, somebody else does too.

GoNatural · 10-06-2007, 08:17 PM

Sure, I'd meet up with a couple just to go down on the women. While it would be nice, she would not have to give me oral.

pervgeeks · 10-07-2007, 01:11 AM

Sure, it's called softswap. Our swingstyle of choice. We're into swinging for the ladies, oral, and the exhibitionism of it all. We all have our own tastes, preferences, and kinks. Just be honest and don't lead people to believe they're getting something they aren't. (I do have to say that we have gotten full swap couples who respond to us without reading our profile. We read someone's full profile before replying and then if we notice they're fullswap, but we think they're hot, we'll reply with first and foremost, "You did notice we're softswap, right? Is that ok?" Then they get upset at us for being softswap. Hello! We already spelled it out. Just a little rant because it's so silly.)

Find you own boundaries.
Be honest.
You'll find what you are looking for.

perkygl · 10-10-2007, 03:25 PM

Not something that turns us on. I do have a friend that is into it, but going along with most others here. Its just a prelude to the full swap.

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09-11-2007, 01:55 PM	#1 (permalink)
merced209guy Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Central California - 209 area Status: Male (Single / Part time sexer) SLS Name:merced209guy	Would you? Meet up just to exchange oral encounters? Does it have to be sex? Does your husband care to watch as you give?

09-12-2007, 02:55 PM	#3 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,415 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: Would you? I agree with Spoo, we consider what you describe as foreplay, which is good as long as it leads to actual sex. If it isn't going to lead to sex, we'll pass thanks. As far as me just watching goes, I'll pass on that too, I am more of a participant by nature rather than a spectator. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

09-12-2007, 06:33 PM	#5 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: Would you? OP, nope not something we'd be interested in since we are full swap... but hey, if it makes y'all happy go for it! Shell __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

09-12-2007, 10:13 PM	#6 (permalink)
Lovethenights Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 103 Location: Central Texas Status: Couple	Re: Would you? Would we meet another couple to watch my wife receive oral from the other guy (or gal) and give him (or her) oral? Sure... As long as that was the openly stated and honest expectation for the evening and it involved a nice meal, some interesting chit-chat, and a good Merlot.

09-13-2007, 12:12 AM	#7 (permalink)
LFM2 Happy Fall, Y'all!! Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,833 Location: State of Confusion Status: Couple SLS Name:LFM2 Blog Entries: 4	Re: Would you? We're pretty much with the majority. We're full swap as well and while we've done MFM's before, I know Mr. LFM enjoys the hell out of watching me please another guy, but having said that, it's not something I'd do, because I enjoy the hell out of Mr. LFM joining in. __________________ "One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other." Jane Austen

09-13-2007, 11:23 AM	#8 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 938 Location: where we're at Status: Couple SLS Name:LOL_OMG	Re: Would you? OP, your question is a little vague but if you mean exchanging oral encounters between two couples then your referring to what some call soft swap and our answer would be yes, if we like the other couple we will do what they are comfortable with. If you mean get together with a single guy and have the Mr. sit and watch the other guy get a blojob then the answer is no. Mr. Lol __________________ Somebody better go back and get a shitload of dimes!!!

09-13-2007, 09:38 PM	#9 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: Would you? No thanks... We met a couple at a dance who wanted to do oral with us and then finish up with your own spouse. We just kinda looked at each other when we found out their plan, that's because we are full swap. What you're talking of is soft swap. Now, if a couple advertises themselves as f.s. and asks this of you, that would be pretty weird. Again...for us, no thank you. Male D __________________ "Just nod if you can hear me..." David Gilmour Last edited by DBL D : 09-13-2007 at 10:41 PM.

09-13-2007, 10:35 PM	#10 (permalink)
GoNatural Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 135 Location: Lockport, Louisiana Status: Single Male	Re: Would you? Well, I'm a guy, but I would definitely meet up with a couple to only go down on the wife.

10-06-2007, 03:12 PM	#11 (permalink)
perkygl Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 20 Location: pa Status: m female	Re: Would you? I have done this a couple times Husband always there to watch

10-06-2007, 03:54 PM	#12 (permalink)
lovinher Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 763 Location: cleveland area Status: married to lovinhim SLS Name:Lovinall	Re: Would you? Wide range of answers here. Just goes to show ya that if YOU like something, somebody else does too. __________________ I know I was born. I know that I'll die. The in between is mine. (PJ)

10-06-2007, 08:17 PM	#13 (permalink)
GoNatural Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 135 Location: Lockport, Louisiana Status: Single Male	Re: Would you? Sure, I'd meet up with a couple just to go down on the women. While it would be nice, she would not have to give me oral.

10-07-2007, 01:11 AM	#14 (permalink)
pervgeeks Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 148 Location: Connecticut Status: Couple SLS Name:pervgeeks	Re: Would you? Sure, it's called softswap. Our swingstyle of choice. We're into swinging for the ladies, oral, and the exhibitionism of it all. We all have our own tastes, preferences, and kinks. Just be honest and don't lead people to believe they're getting something they aren't. (I do have to say that we have gotten full swap couples who respond to us without reading our profile. We read someone's full profile before replying and then if we notice they're fullswap, but we think they're hot, we'll reply with first and foremost, "You did notice we're softswap, right? Is that ok?" Then they get upset at us for being softswap. Hello! We already spelled it out. Just a little rant because it's so silly.) Find you own boundaries. Be honest. You'll find what you are looking for. Last edited by pervgeeks : 10-07-2007 at 01:32 AM. Reason: grammar error

10-10-2007, 03:25 PM	#15 (permalink)
perkygl Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 20 Location: pa Status: m female	Re: Would you? Not something that turns us on. I do have a friend that is into it, but going along with most others here. Its just a prelude to the full swap.

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