What to do about gag reflex?

[duffman]

I was just wondering if anyone else had a problem with their gag reflex when giving oral to their man and what you have done to help alleviate the problem? I love giving oral and would do it all night if not for that. Thanks.

[LikeMinds321]

I gag when I try to go to the base of his cock because that's when his head hits the back of my throat. But I don't push myself to do that too often, I don't think it's necessary for a good blow job. And even when I gag it doesn't bother me or my man, actually I kind of like it sometimes, it helps produce more saliva and that's great for lubrication. Even seeing and feeling saliva dripping out of my mouth onto my hand is a bit of a turn on for me.

There are lots of yummy things you can do with a cock that a man enjoys besides deep throating him. I've found most men love to have attention given to their head because it's so sensitive.

Maybe you're putting too much emphasis on taking more of him in your mouth than you need to.

Do you gag with him in your mouth no matter how far in?

Or does this only happen when you try to take all of him in?

LM

[duffman]

It only happens when I deep throat, but not always. He enjoys DT as do I. Like I said, I could do it all night (or until he cums) except for the gag. I suppose practice makes perfect. Thanks.

[NellieSC4]

I'm glad I'm not the only one. Hubby hates the sound of gagging I've found if I relax (which can be difficult at times) and stick out my tongue over my bottom teeth. I can slide him deeper without gagging. (most times) :rollseyes

[intuition897]

Hopefully this isn't too graphic for y'all, but I find that if I'm really wound up and in a 69, I really love deep-throating. I find it much easier this way, and I'm sure it's just mind over matter.

And then there was that time I came home from the dentist frozen to the gills... No gag reflex there!

[Drusilla]

Practice, practice, practice!!! I know, I know it's just so hard (no pun intended! honestly!! ) But sometimes ya just gotta do it!

Seriously, practicing can help alleviate the gag reflex over time. At least you can sort of train yourself to minimize it.

Also, do try to relax. I've found that consciously relaxing my throat helps tremendously.

Another thing that helps...lay with your head hanging off the side of the bed or couch or whatever with your head sort of upside down. I've found this angle much easier.

One other thing I've found helpful, try to swallow when he gets toward the back. It's kind of difficult to swallow at that point but if you can learn to do it, it helps alot.

And, of course as was mentioned already, perhaps you are trying too hard and putting too much emphasis on something that isn't all that important. A hand at the base can help it feel to him like you are taking more than you are (according to DH).

Geez...ya think I've thought about this a time or two? LOLLOL

Good luck and have fun!!

[Edison Carter]

Susan here--two words--whip cream

[fun4Ds]

oh my god im having morning coffee and a woody you girls are so hot.

some how i feel i should say thanks

i feel like i peeked in on a ladies only thread :surrender

better go now..... back to bed with mrs.fun facelick

[2inthemood]

You can get used to the sensation and not gag with time and patience, but is it really worth it?
if you put your hand at the base of his cock holding it in your fist, likely what emerges from your hand wont be big enough to reach your throath (if it is reposition your hand a little higher), the hand is a stop so you can be rough, fast, thoughtless whatever way you want without hitting the "gag spot" by... mistake (that shouldnt happen anyways because slower is better that way, you gotta enjoy the action too).

If deepthroating is something you really have to do then get a position that keep your head and throath more inline, like the classic of porn where you would be on your back on the bed, head off the edge so its completely tilted back and relaxed. If it works that way you can try any other position with the head tilted back.
And the important thing is YOU MOVE HIM more and more inside towards you, dont let him make a movement, eventually practice with a dildo, even better. You have to go extremely slow until you feel that you are really close to the spot that gives you the gag reflexes, stop there and get used to that sensation swallowing trying to pretend to talk, breathing with your nose deeply, then try a little more and so on. Dont think that youre going to gag, thats not sex: its practice, so just concentrate on your sensations. Its litterally a matter of millimeter by millimiter and its not granted youll get over it. If it doesnt work then save the aggravation, dont go crazy about that.

[BiloxiCouple]

It may be as simple as finding a smaller penis to work with. If it can't reach the reflex then it can't gag you

[blondie77]

I have the absolute most sensetive gag reflex EVER and it has been such a pain my whole life! I cannot swallow, I can't even eat pudding or anything too thick...just makes me gag! (Trying not to gag just thinking about not gagging! haha) I have come up with a few "tricks" that have helped.

2inthemood had some really great suggestions and I use them, too. Laying on the bed with your head hanging off opens up your throat and makes more of a straight line. My hubby still can't shove it all the way in, but it helps because there isn't any "curve" to hit. Also, I give really great BJs but I don't just use my mouth. Deep throating isn't what makes a BJ good. It's all about technique, control, etc. I use edible lube sometimes (it is hard to find one that doesn't taste nasty!) and alternate between licking, sucking on the head and using one or both hands while putting as much in my mouth as I can. My hubby says most of the time he can't even tell that it's not all the way in my mouth. Everything is just so wet and slippery. Also, changing speeds and pressure works cuz he's so focused on the pleasure that he doesn't notice anything else.

Also, one time I did use this sore throat spray. (My throat was a little scratchy that day). I think it's called cepical (sp) or something like that and it makes your throat numb. That helped a bit.

Also, doing it slow, not letting him buck or ram it into you, no hand on the back of the head! Just go slow, practice, and most of all, don't think about gagging! That makes it worse I think. Just practice and see how far you can go until you start to gag, then be creative from there. Oh, one more thing...sometimes I use a cored out peach, room temp, and slide it over his penis...then I give him a BJ and slide the peach up and down while licking, etc and it really tastes sooo good. My hubby has said it almost feels like he's having sex or being deep throated.

[girlsnboys]

great suggestions, im going to try the chloraseptic one. when i get down to the base i relax my throat and breathe slowly through my nose, once you're more relaxed you can swallow a bit if you want, this feels great he tells me.

[sinna]

Try to relax your mouth and throat and take several lick breaks. Some men who are well endowed likes to hold my head down on them and gagging is part of the turn on for them.

[xyzzy07]

Blondie, we're going to have to try that peach idea!