Penis size

[j8419]

Hi im 25 and new to the scene and I have a 6" penis which is definitely not hung but average (I hope) anyways just wondering what kind of men out there in the scene (size wise), and which sizes have the women swinging have come in contact with? should I be worried that women wont want it or should I put my penis pump on before swinging. Jay

[Edison Carter]

Ed here: Jay, Jay, Jay. Read the boards, FAQ and Swinger Advice areas. That being said, you will not face mass rejection as you won't walk into a room full of male tripods. You'll be fine.

Susan here: I've never turned down a man based on penis size. Are their women that will, sure, a few. Just like men who aren't interested in me because I'm small breasted. In both cases, their loss. In the Lifestyle, not everyone is going to want to have sex with you and it'll have more to do with other topics than the size of your cock.

[WesternSwing]

Jay, I think the general concensus is that it's not the size of the tool, it's who it's attached to. Mrs. WS has had em' huge, and had em' below average, and she is the first to say that as long as she clicks with him on a mental level, whatever he's packing will more than suffice.

Check-out these threads on penis size for more info on what's been said in the past.

Does Size Matter?

Mr. WS

[sunrise_sunset]

if you consider the fact that, according to the Large Penis Suport Group, only one out of 500 guys has a cock that is 9 inches or bigger, then there are far more swinging women that size matters to than there are guys who are really packin.

[ShellyM]

Jay,
No please do NOT grab for the pump lol.
Every woman is different. Some women prefer average (what I consider to be 6-7"), some prefer well endowed men. I honestly have only been with small and average men to date. Most men are average I would say. I think you will do just fine! Don't sweat that kind of thing.....most ladies I have talked to are just concerned that the overall experience is great and that you both have a great time.
Shelly

[sunrise_sunset]

Before I got into the lifestyle I too used to believe the often heard generalization that "size doesnt matter", but as a guy with a nine incher and nine years experience swinging, I can vouch for the fact that there are a whole lot of women attending the parties who are at least curious about what it feels like.

[Cpl2share]

As a guy with above average, but not 9" I have found that although many women make noise and "want" a big one, when it comes down to it, they usually decide that only half strokes are not much fun. Full strokes tend to bottom out. You will find that the number of men concerned about dick size is about twice as high as the number of women who care about it.

[ShellyM]

sunrise,
thats true I suppose. But its not like I would turn AWAY a man with average penile size because he was too small! No. If he turns me on and piques my interest I'm with it.
Shelly

[sunrise_sunset]

another thing I have noticed at the parties is that there are a significant number of husbands who get off watching their "hot wife" having sex with me. Some of them even play porn director saying do this, do that. Its kind of amusing!