Trying to set up first Gang bang

HotMama · 06-17-2007, 02:53 PM

Good afternoon all, me and my husband have talked about setting up our first GB.

Here are our thoughts/plans:

I want to make it clear that I am not looking for marathon sex with them, just for them to get it, climax, and move on to the next man.

We figured that they could pull out and take off the comdom near completion, and end up finishing on my stomach or chest. (Would this wierd out the next guy?)

After they all finish, we would like them to get dressed and leave so that my husband and I can enjoy the moment alone. (Is this rude?)

How many guys do you think I can handle like this? My initial thoughts were 10 guys, but how many do you have to invite to make sure that ten show up?

Thanks in advance.

VegasLee · 06-17-2007, 03:44 PM

None of it is rude if you tell everyone upfront what it is you desire and expect. This is Your party after all.

If you are looking to invite guys from online then you might have problems ever getting ten to show up.

Online is fantasy to most guys. They will talk the talk but when it comes time to show up and walk the walk they are still at home playing on their computers.

This might be easier for you to go to a swing club that allows single men so you don't have to worry about them coming to your place or leaving. You will be in a safe place with many willing men in most cases.

As far as how many you can handle, that is up to you. Only you will know that answer.

Good luck and have fun.

WesternSwing · 06-18-2007, 12:34 AM

Dito to VegasLee. We have a single guy friend that has done several gangbangs, and he is the first to say that if you want 5 you invite 20. He's seen it first hand where he and only one other guy show-up at all.

Mr. WS

mike big · 06-18-2007, 04:11 PM

I think that you should set your rules, afterall its your party!!!

ty723 · 06-28-2007, 01:33 AM

dont forget to mention whether your allowing them to dump inside you or if its strictly outside lol

beachzen · 07-02-2007, 07:55 PM

It's definitely not rude if you're clear on expectations up front. List out your expectations and boundaries on the invitation and make sure everyone invited understands them.

Also agree that if you want 2 to show up, invite 20. So if you're thinking 10, plan accordingly. As VegasLee points out, for many guys the fantasy is the thing.

Having them cum on you will more than likely weird out some of them - best to include that in the invite.

Best of luck with your event

joaninla · 07-02-2007, 11:16 PM

I agree that as long as everyone knows what to expect at the start, it is not at all rude. In fact, with my limited experience, men can kind of get off on this fantasy as well. Also, some guys may not like the reality of cum all over your breasts and stomach, while others (my hushand!) get turned on by it.
Let all of us know how it goes. Good luck.

Sico_tiko · 07-06-2007, 09:38 AM

the more is better, i mean to be sure that 10 will come u should invite 30 and try to feel if they are serious or not, and if more than 10 came that wont be a bad thing just enjoy ur time with them, On the other hand non of what u said is rude just tell them honestly.

blndslvr · 10-18-2007, 12:16 AM

hey im trying to join up for a gangbang or bukkake in the Phx area how would I go on? Where do i start first in order to join a gangbang or bukkake? Would aprecciate if u would have some advice.

elitesaint666 · 02-10-2008, 11:10 PM

now wait a minute they r saying that you should invite 30 if you want 10 to show up but what if all show up can you handel that. ha ha that would be funn

beachrules · 10-13-2008, 07:10 PM

The best way is to meet talk it over before the GB (no sex) because there are so many flakes out there.
30+ internet invites might get 3-5 guys.
Unless it is advertised at a reqular swing club, or a standing motel gig.
There are a few known guys that set up Black Cock Crew partys.
The second GB will be the best because those that came the first time and things were cool; will return, and you will always pick up a few extras. Kinda like building a client list.
xxx theaters are fun as are gloryholes we tryed them all

jdavisauto · 10-13-2008, 10:14 PM

It’s your party so you make the rules. Nothing rude about anything that you want. As vegaslee said you will have better luck and be a lot safer going to a swing club that allows single males. As far as the guys Cumming on your stomach that should be no problem, just tell them what you want before hand and make sure all the guys are on the same page. My lady half plays with several single males at the same time and I make sure that they all know where all the lines are drawn at and they don’t cross those lines.

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06-17-2007, 02:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
HotMama Active Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 19 Location: PA	Trying to set up first Gang bang Good afternoon all, me and my husband have talked about setting up our first GB. Here are our thoughts/plans: I want to make it clear that I am not looking for marathon sex with them, just for them to get it, climax, and move on to the next man. We figured that they could pull out and take off the comdom near completion, and end up finishing on my stomach or chest. (Would this wierd out the next guy?) After they all finish, we would like them to get dressed and leave so that my husband and I can enjoy the moment alone. (Is this rude?) How many guys do you think I can handle like this? My initial thoughts were 10 guys, but how many do you have to invite to make sure that ten show up? Thanks in advance.

06-17-2007, 03:44 PM	#2 (permalink)
VegasLee Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,277 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang None of it is rude if you tell everyone upfront what it is you desire and expect. This is Your party after all. If you are looking to invite guys from online then you might have problems ever getting ten to show up. Online is fantasy to most guys. They will talk the talk but when it comes time to show up and walk the walk they are still at home playing on their computers. This might be easier for you to go to a swing club that allows single men so you don't have to worry about them coming to your place or leaving. You will be in a safe place with many willing men in most cases. As far as how many you can handle, that is up to you. Only you will know that answer. Good luck and have fun. __________________ Lee Lifestyles News *Remember when Swinging was about having sex?*

06-18-2007, 12:34 AM	#3 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,824 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang Dito to VegasLee. We have a single guy friend that has done several gangbangs, and he is the first to say that if you want 5 you invite 20. He's seen it first hand where he and only one other guy show-up at all. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

06-18-2007, 04:11 PM	#4 (permalink)
mike big Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 28 Location: los angeles Status: male	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang I think that you should set your rules, afterall its your party!!!

06-28-2007, 01:33 AM	#5 (permalink)
ty723 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 1 Location: NY Status: single male	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang dont forget to mention whether your allowing them to dump inside you or if its strictly outside lol

07-02-2007, 07:55 PM	#6 (permalink)
beachzen Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 25 Location: Seattle Status: Couple SLS Name:moonglowlovers	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang It's definitely not rude if you're clear on expectations up front. List out your expectations and boundaries on the invitation and make sure everyone invited understands them. Also agree that if you want 2 to show up, invite 20. So if you're thinking 10, plan accordingly. As VegasLee points out, for many guys the fantasy is the thing. Having them cum on you will more than likely weird out some of them - best to include that in the invite. Best of luck with your event

07-02-2007, 11:16 PM	#7 (permalink)
joaninla Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 61 Location: Los Angeles Status: couple	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang I agree that as long as everyone knows what to expect at the start, it is not at all rude. In fact, with my limited experience, men can kind of get off on this fantasy as well. Also, some guys may not like the reality of cum all over your breasts and stomach, while others (my hushand!) get turned on by it. Let all of us know how it goes. Good luck.

07-06-2007, 09:38 AM	#8 (permalink)
Sico_tiko Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 171 Location: Eg Status: Single Male SLS Name:sico_tiko	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang the more is better, i mean to be sure that 10 will come u should invite 30 and try to feel if they are serious or not, and if more than 10 came that wont be a bad thing just enjoy ur time with them, On the other hand non of what u said is rude just tell them honestly.

10-18-2007, 12:16 AM	#9 (permalink)
blndslvr Registered Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Phoenix, Az Status: single SLS Name:James	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang hey im trying to join up for a gangbang or bukkake in the Phx area how would I go on? Where do i start first in order to join a gangbang or bukkake? Would aprecciate if u would have some advice.

02-10-2008, 11:10 PM	#10 (permalink)
elitesaint666 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 1 Location: ridgewood Status: single male	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang now wait a minute they r saying that you should invite 30 if you want 10 to show up but what if all show up can you handel that. ha ha that would be funn

10-13-2008, 07:10 PM	#11 (permalink)
beachrules Registered User Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 1 Location: Northern Calif. Status: Single Male	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang The best way is to meet talk it over before the GB (no sex) because there are so many flakes out there. 30+ internet invites might get 3-5 guys. Unless it is advertised at a reqular swing club, or a standing motel gig. There are a few known guys that set up Black Cock Crew partys. The second GB will be the best because those that came the first time and things were cool; will return, and you will always pick up a few extras. Kinda like building a client list. xxx theaters are fun as are gloryholes we tryed them all

10-13-2008, 10:14 PM	#12 (permalink)
jdavisauto Together we are one Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 345 Location: Las Vegas Status: couple SLS Name:jdavisauto	Re: Trying to set up first Gang bang It’s your party so you make the rules. Nothing rude about anything that you want. As vegaslee said you will have better luck and be a lot safer going to a swing club that allows single males. As far as the guys Cumming on your stomach that should be no problem, just tell them what you want before hand and make sure all the guys are on the same page. My lady half plays with several single males at the same time and I make sure that they all know where all the lines are drawn at and they don’t cross those lines. __________________ Stop laughing or I WILL put my clothes back on.

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