What to do to make it better

[nudiecpl]

Hello this the female half of nudiecpl. We are new at this and recently had our first full swap. It was great after the nerves settled down. The only thing that was a problem in anyway was the fact that the husband of the other couple had a rather short penis. The only way we could keep it in was in a very tight missionary position that for me was not all that comfortable to be held that tight. Part of the problem is I tend to move alot with my hips when things get going good and that made it worse.I am not a big women 5' 110 pounds and never had this problem with my hubby. I was wondering if anyone has had this problem and are there positions that can over come it. We are planning to meet this couple again soon an would like to make the next time even better. Also I think it would make it better for him not to have to struggle so much just to keep it in.

Thanks J

[4sum]

Try turning halfway on your side and have him more or less straddle one leg and move his torso away from yours...hard to explain, but when you do it right you bring your hips together and it allows more of a "grinding fuck" The same works with you on the bottom...depending on the way your pussy points (downward, or outward) you on top may work even better. Another way is to put your legs up on his shoulders and let him roll you back and control the entry.

[avgcpl4u]

Originally posted by nudiecpl
the husband of the other couple had a rather short penis

How rather short is short first?? Was it 6", 5", 4" 3" 2"?? Please describe...

[nudiecpl]

If I had to guess I would say 4" with a very fat base.

J

[clyde&darlene]

Hi little girl.
My Darlene & I are new to this membership. I was checking out the site & thought I would offer a 'little' advice to your 'short' situation.
First of all, try some foreplay/oral play & have yourself an orgasm or 2,or 3 (if possible). (not allowing him to cumm during this playtime).
Then while you are still 'fluttering' from your last orgasm, lay him on his back with a pillow under his buttocks & thighs & hop onto him. Sitting upright will allow his penis to to enter you as far as it can.... Then you can start rocking & rolling on him while he holds his pelvis in an upward position.
He can balance you by playing with your titties while you rub your clit with one hand & one of his titties with the other. We men love love our nipples to tingle just as you ladies do.

After you try this let us know how it went, & good luck on bigger & better orgasms
Clyde & Darlene,,,

[Ellie & Ken]

. Hi I am Ken and since I know excatly what you are talking about as i have a 6in with normal girth but it doesnt look normal size when flaccid it tends to turn off most women until they find out what else i can do to make it pleasureable for the woman, I have learned how to please a woman with my tongue fingers and or even a toy at the same time, if the man of the other cpl is smaller than you find out what else he can do to give you pleasure and if he is new or never been taught by a woman on jow to please one then show him be very verbale with him so him let him know what pleases you and what doesnt you wont know what kind of fun you can have until you try and remember smaller men will always try harder to please awoman than a larger endowed man as most of them think that is all they need to please one and that is not always the case in fact i have come to find out the most women are not as worried about size as they are about pleasure

[incommunicado]

First I'd like to say congratulations on your first full swap, and add that I think it's great that you value your connection and chemistry with this couple enough to try work around this issue. May people wouldn't.

That said, perhaps these will help. I read about them in the pocket Kama Sutra. They are considered to be positions for either the short-penised man, or the woman who wants deeper penetration or both. All I know is that I'm normal sized (roughly 7" hard) and it helps balance things out , now that my wife plays with a guy who is ten inches long and as thick as my wrist.

They are variations on the missionary position, but, hopefully they won't uncomfortable for you.

1) You lie on your back with your legs together and straight up in the air (an "L" position), he enters you in a partial kneeling position and supports your legs with his arms or chest (which will be pressed back towards you a little.

2) Missionary with your legs up over his shoulders


Hope this helps!

[Chicup]

Is it just me or has there been a rash of 'small penis' posts lately.

[OhioCouple]

I came across this article the other day offering advice on a sexual postion for a woman who's boyfriend has a small penis. This might provide another answer to making it better.

Coital Alignment Technique

Lori

[lynn3]

" I know excatly what you are talking about as i have a 6in with normal girth but it doesnt look normal size when flaccid it tends to turn off most women until they find out what else i can do to make it pleasureable for the woman"


Where is everyone getting the idea that 6" is small penis? Actually, I'd have to say that this is the size of the average man. And IMO is plenty enough to satisfy and get the job done.

Years ago, when I was in my early twenties, a girl I knew who was involved in The Lifestyle told me this...."I don't like men with big cocks because they tend to think that all they have to do to satisfy a woman is 'stick it in'. I'd much rather have someone of average size who doesn't have a 'cock ego'."

As the old saying goes..."it's not the size of the tool, it's how you use it"

[hotcpl4unfla]

Originally posted by lynn3
" I know excatly what you are talking about as i have a 6in with normal girth but it doesnt look normal size when flaccid it tends to turn off most women until they find out what else i can do to make it pleasureable for the woman"


Where is everyone getting the idea that 6" is small penis? Actually, I'd have to say that this is the size of the average man. And IMO is plenty enough to satisfy and get the job done.

THANK YOU! LOL!!! Six inches is "above average", with 5" hovering around the average range. I am 6" with a slightly larger girth than average and have NEVER had any complaints! I think that some guys (myself included) are a little embarassed of the flaccid length. But if a woman wants to laugh at me when I'm limp, she obviously hasn't studied much male anatomy. A flaccid 1" penis can grow to a six inch penis or seven incher quite the same as a flaccid 5" penis can grow to the same length. It doesn't matter how big you are flaccid, in other words. What good is it limp anyway?? I can only do one thing with it when it's limp, and the whole "golden shower" thing isn't my bag, baby!