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| Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 31 Location: WNY Status: couple
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How many couples play bareback with other couples and or singles? We have a group of ten couples who are std free and only play bareback with other members of the group. We have found this arraignment to be quite erotic and fulfilling. We have one group party per month and the rest of the time meet as two couples or threesomes. I would love to hear about any other people who have groups like this or other similar arrangements.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,008 Location: cleveland area Status: married to lovinhim
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In a perfect world this would be ideal. But how can you be certain that everybody is std free? In a group of ten couples I would think that somebody at sometime would have unprotected sex with somebody outside the group. I'm sure everybody says they follow the group rules but with that large of a group somebody is going to slip. I'm certainly not bashing your arrangement, in fact this would the perfect set up for us but I think I'd have to stick with condoms if playing with so many couples. All it would take is one person, one mistake, to infect everybody. Maybe the chances are slim but it's not a risk I'm willing to take.
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 31 Location: WNY Status: couple
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We have a doctor in our group who does tests on everyone at very low cost, we all get tested monthly. Also, if anyone in the group was ever under suspicion of breaking the rules they would be thrown out at once. I’m not saying that the odds are 100% but there is just as big of a chance of a condom breaking and contracting an STD.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,008 Location: cleveland area Status: married to lovinhim
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Now that's the way to do it! Sounds like you guys have the perfect setup.
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 31 Location: WNY Status: couple
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I would say as close as one could come to perfect. We are all professional couples and a couple singles who all wanted a discrete and safe group to have worry free play, virtually any time day or night. It has been great so far and there have been no issues.
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| Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired
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So you have a black boyfriend you play with MFM 2 times a month, when not seeing him alone, which is what you normally do. You have another MFM partner as well. You have a group of 10 couples who only play with members of the group, with a group party once a month, and then with other group members now and then. You get tested for STDs every month. Does the 'bareback group' know about those single males you play with? When do you breath? |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 98 Location: michigan
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well for us we have a steady mfm partner for 13years now and thats always bareback. we feel good about that because he is typically so picky about his sex and pretty much doesn't have much of it outside of with my wife, but when he does he wraps things up. I guess I should feel some kind of high because he has chosen to shun most in lue of my lovely, or maybe he's just stupid. anyway if you can trust the situation and by all means get tested, ride bareback like it was going out of style.
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 31 Location: WNY Status: couple
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First, not all of the 10 couples play on a regular basis. We have ten couples because not all people can get together more than every couple of months, this insures that we all can find people who want to play when we have time. Second, my bf and the other single man we play with are part of the group. It’s not that bad actually, playtime works out to about twice per week. Quote:
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 134 Location: Eastern Washington Status: couple
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This was kind of like our club except that there were several hundred members spread across the country. We took the rules seriously. Besides, there wasn't a lot of incentive for branching out since connections within the club were so accessable. When either of us were traveling the traveling mate would often hook up and local members would see to it that the homebody didn't suffer that dread Hawaiian disease: Lakanooki. We did have one minor VD breakout in the thirty-one years we were members. It can work.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 264 Location: Virginia Status: married female Swing Lifestyle Name:porttasters
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Hmm...to have a select group of couples that ONLY played with each other sounds intriguing...
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 198 Location: Apopka, Fl Status: Couple
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we perfer bare back we are very picky and so far we have not had any issues she is in the medical field and gets checked reguarly. we do have asteady patner that we try to play with at least once a month and he is our only playmate and we his |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 72 Location: Connecticut Status: Couple
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Many years ago we went bareback with a special couple but I don't know if I would do it today. Recently my wife said that it wasn't a pleasurable experience for her so I guess there isn't a chance of playing again. But I can hope. I guess with the right couple anything is possible. |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 15 Location: central qld Status: couple
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We've been taking risks with this lately. Stupid hey? I can't seem to discipline myself to say no when someone wants to slide onto me at a party. My wife never seems to worry either because we have a lot of trust for those we party with. Stupid though... will have to tighten our rules a bit.
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