Preferred age

[mywildside]

Ladies, do you prefe r having sex with men your own age ? Or do you like older or younger men. Guys, do you prefer younger or older women. I am 52 and she is 46. She really loves oldger men because they are more attentive and sexy I love women in their early 40,s up to my age and a little older. Older women are very hot and wild and really know how to treat a man, they have fewer hangups and can fuck for hours, however, I really get turned on seeing her with a younger guy who can fuck a long time and recharge quickly.

[Nudesailing]

It sounds like you like all ages for different reasons. We are the same way. She does not like younger guys, guys younger than our kids anyway. I prefer older women but younger women sure feel good. lol

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by mywildside

Ladies, do you prefer having sex with men your own age ? Or do you like older or younger men.

I prefer men fairly close to my own age for many reasons (I'm in my 40's). I guess my favorite age range for partners would be about mid-30's up to about 50 or so. Because I enjoy stamina, strength and energy in sex, I especially like men around my age who take good care of themselves (fitness). There are many men my age who have the stamina, are longlasting, etc. (I don't have to go to younger men just for this.) Best of all is the skill level and sexual sophistication that comes with maturity. I'd far rather have this combination with men closer to my age, than to be with much younger men.

[prettylady]

In my life time I have found younger guy are missing something. But to be honest, in my 20's I was not in the lifestyle so the guys I knew weren't all that "talented".
I am 35 the love of my life is 49(and a half..heehee). So I would say older.
Dog has staying power like I have never seen in a man. (ok seen it one other time ). I also like the different mentalities I get from older men. We will use Dog as an example. He can go from being a tender caring protector to being the "Man" in the room. I am by nature a tough kid. so I don't do well with men my age or younger trying to be the "man". I don't hand over the reins well. But with older men I am able to play the part as the defencless girl. for those of you who know me, you know that is not an easy thing for me to do.
So long babbling story short. I can play more roles in the bedroom with an older man then I can with a younger man.
I hope you followed that because I am sure I got lost along the way
Your friend,
Prettylady

[good times]

I have played with women from 23 to mid 50's recently, so I guess I really don't have a preferred age. For me it is not about age at all and all about enthusiasm. If the woman is fun and an enthusiastic play partner then her age is fine, no matter what it is.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by mywildside

. . . Guys, do you prefer younger or older women.

I would like to say that I have no preference but any woman who looks the age of my daughter (33) or younger and I just cannot do it.

Michael

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by mywildside

Guys, do you prefer younger or older women.

An additional observation. Many women in or past menopause loose their inhibition. I, for one, intent to take full advantage.

[New&YoungOH03]

Originally Posted by mywildside

Older women are very hot and wild and really know how to treat a man, they have fewer hangups and can fuck for hours

Excuse Me Us younger women are hot and wild too
With everyone talking about not wanting to swing with younger people I think Hubby and I will have a hard time finding couples...

[Mr. Truelove]

As a general statement I feel that many younger couples don't have the solidity in their marriage to swing successfully. (Not all, but many) And often that includes drama for everyone involved. They also tend to be immature and deal with issues in swinging poorly. Of course, I'm in this age bracket still, but I'd like to think I am an exception to the rule. Reading this board is a great way to avoid making those young couple mistakes. They should mandate it.

There have been posts about this in the past, but I searched and came up empty on the links.

Mr. Truelove

Edit: sorry, I didn't mean to change the direction of this thread. To answer the original question... I tend to be more physically attracted to younger women, but I have a strong attraction to mature confident older women.

[TomF_22033]

I prefer older women. But like others said, I won't pass up an attractive young thing. SO, likes older men. So I guess our ideal range is 30-55. Of course this is just a rough guide. It really depends on the individual.

[LFM2]

Mr. LFM and I prefer mature couples. Usually, (not always) they are more grounded in their relationship and not a lot of drama ensues. I have a hard time with younger people in their twenties. I mean, that's the ages of my kids. For the life of me, I just can't quite get over that.

We really don't care though. It depends a lot on their maturity.

[Orchid]

We prefer partners close to our age(early 30s). I agree with some of the other posts about the lack of maturity and increased drama you tend to find with younger people, single or married. Slightly older men can be quite wonderful, but I am rarely attracted to anyone more than 10 years older than me.

Orchid

[SuAndBud]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

I would like to say that I have no preference but any woman who looks the age of my daughter (33) or younger and I just cannot do it.

Michael

We respect that, entirely.

But what to do with all those under 33 year olds?

You could get them to phone our good selves, so we can give them a proper seeing (ooops, we mean talking) to.

[Lovers4U]

It's unfortunate that some feel that just because one, male or female, is older that somehow they cannot perform or enjoy sex just as a younger person. If one keeps his or her self in good physical shape ie. not overweight, eat right, avoid smoking and use very little ETOH these persons can be involved even more than a younger person. Usually the older person is experienced, willing to experiment, and generally know how to appreciate a person of the opposite sex. If a person educates themselves well on sexuality and uses this knowledge I would think this older person would be a real plus in sexual activity. Of course too many rest on their laurels and feel that they know it all and their OK. My feeling is that one never knows everything and learning from others and reading makes sex even more enjoyable with the application of that knowledge. another point is that the person who is in shape and takes care of themselves usually looks and feel ten to fifteen years younger and I wouldn't discriminate against them.
The main question is how they performed while having sex and assoicated activity and then decide if a repeat is desired.

[des1re06]

I don't have a preferred age, but I can say from my experience (husband 1 was younger, current husband is older) that older is not selfish in the bedroom. Pleasing me is very important to my hubby, and that makes me want to please him in return. Much more enjoyable.

I don't rule out a partner based on age. I go more by personality and how they treat me and their SO. You can learn alot by watching how a man interacts with his wife.

Mrs. D