Preferred age

[willyoats]

I never asked a woman's age before becoming intimate with her. As it happens, the two women swinging partners I have become closest to over the years are 15 years younger than I am. Right now, my regular swing partner is 8 years younger. My wife (of 45 years) is 3 years younger. Is there a pattern here? If there is, it is definitely not because I was actively seeking younger women. It just happend that we were attracted to each other.

[SCcpl40]

We don't let race or age limit us in meeting people. We're more into the person than a number used in defining them.

[Sico_tiko]

Personnaly I dont mind about age at all either it is older or younger, what i care about is that the couple are nice personalities and decent People.

[Thrax]

Frankly, with regard to a potential partner it's not age that matters to me as much as general fitness and health, the personality thing, and a certain degree of attractiveness. That's the great thing about the lifestyle...you can find those things in people of almost any age. In the past few years I've played with women in the age range from the early 30s (maybe late 20s) to mid-50s, but I really haven't set any outer (legal) limits.

I'm (gasp!) 51, and I make allowances for age as I'm sure many of my potential partners do. If you consider those of us who are "over-the-hill", hey, it's natural to get old, a fact that seems to be forgotten, or maybe obscured by advertising or other societal restrictions. So, personally, I'm okay with scars, slightly saggy flesh, wrinkles, gray hair, etc., since I sport all of those marks of having survived for several decades. From my experience, women my age DEFINITELY know what they want and the women in that age range in the lifestyle just seem to go for it. There is a lack of inhibition that is, to say the least, refreshing! And fun!

However, I've also had great experiences with women up to 20 years younger than me, and really, I can't think of any reasons to complain. If they are mature enough to fully engage in the lifestyle, I think they understand both the advantages of youth, and those of experience.

Certainly I'd not explore below the legal age, and there would be doubt in my mind if a 20-y.o. came on to me, but I wouldn't hesitate to hit on a younger woman who I thought was mature enough for at least a lifestyle relationship. Similarly, I'm not putting upper limits on the age thing; I'd consider all of the factors I mentioned earlier.

Thirty years ago I thought 50 year-olds were ancient. I definitely know that we're NOT! We're HOT! (I keep saying that to myself...over and over and over and over again.)

Thrax

[Cerberus]

im 41 and prefer 18-30

[Cpl2share]

Age? As long as we are at least half of their age (that means if you are 80 too bad) or no more than twice their age (yep, under 20 get out of here too) it doesn't matter. We have other things to worry about like if we get along or have any common interests. We want a little more than just a silent roll in the sack.

That is what they make ball gags for. LOL

[sweet_tna]

Age isn't that big of a deal to me, as long as I find the man attractive. That said, we've mostly ended up playing with couples close to our age (mid 30's).

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Thrax

Thirty years ago I thought 50 year-olds were ancient. I definitely know that we're NOT! We're HOT! (I keep saying that to myself...over and over and over and over again.)

Thrax

When my parents were in their 40s I thought they were sooo old!

But then, I was only 19 and didn't think "old" people were interested in sex.

LM

[Pepper & Drew]

I prefer men older than I, but I'm now getting to an age where men my age aren't kids anymore, and are more likely to know what they're doing. So, as long as there's an attraction and he's got "skills", I don't require a driver's license check.

Pepper