Using a strap-on with husband

Here's a question that I have for the ladies, have you ever been asked by your husband (boyfriends too..) to use a strap-on with them. Let me tell you a small story, my man uses anal toys either with me or alone. I actually enjoy using them with him, I love to see him moan with delight, and believe me he does with or with out me. Well one day he asked if I would be interested in using a strap-on with him, WOW did that blow me away I was shocked, confused and everything else you can imagine. Thinking to myself is he bi or even gay, I was beside myself. Well to make a long story shorter we talked about it and he convinced me he wasn't gay or bi. I really knew he wasn't but I was taken back for a short time. He explained that when he puts anal toys up his butt it gives him a fantastic feeling, so I listened.
I decided that he did things to please me such as letting me play with other guys and fuck around with them. I have also heard of this before but never thought my guy would like it but then again I never thought we would enjoy fucking other people in front of each other. Another thing I let other women kiss me, lick my tits and pussy so I guess I owe it to him.
So moving on, he got a strap-on that he liked, we played with it then I finally put it on and he went into the doggie position, as I slowly inserted it, he let out this enormous groan,"Oh..my...god" he said. This was kinda neat for me to as I was getting horny doing this and watching him. Well,finally he got on top of me the way I like it best and he started riding that dildo like there was no tomorrow, then he started to stroke his cock and moan louder finally,READY, he let go a load of cum that literally shot over my head and hit the headboard as some slowly ran down my stomach. So let me tell you wifes, this was awesome for both of us, if he suggests this hey give it a try, we do this now about 2-3 times a month (if he's good). You'll probably never see a grown man moan like that again.

[freekynme]

Personally Ive never had anyone I was in a relationship with ask for this, but Ive had several guys online ask me to do it. I also had an online male friend who was into bondage & discipline & his wife was a Mistress, he got off on her doing this to him. Apparently this is fairly common for some men, it seems to give them stronger ejaculations. Glad it works out for the both of you & you enjoy making him as happy as he makes you.

[ShellyM]

I honestly would be afraid to use one lol. If Jay wanted me to I would, but man, he'd be a brave man. I don't know how to use one of those things!

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

Here's a question that I have for the ladies, have you ever been asked by your husband (boyfriends too..) to use a strap-on with them. Let me tell you a small story, my man uses anal toys either with me or alone. I actually enjoy using them with him, I love to see him moan with delight, and believe me he does with or with out me. Well one day he asked if I would be interested in using a strap-on with him, WOW did that blow me away I was shocked, confused and everything else you can imagine. Thinking to myself is he bi or even gay, I was beside myself. Well to make a long story shorter we talked about it and he convinced me he wasn't gay or bi. I really knew he wasn't but I was taken back for a short time. He explained that when he puts anal toys up his butt it gives him a fantastic feeling, so I listened.
I decided that he did things to please me such as letting me play with other guys and fuck around with them. I have also heard of this before but never thought my guy would like it but then again I never thought we would enjoy fucking other people in front of each other. Another thing I let other women kiss me, lick my tits and pussy so I guess I owe it to him.
So moving on, he got a strap-on that he liked, we played with it then I finally put it on and he went into the doggie position, as I slowly inserted it, he let out this enormous groan,"Oh..my...god" he said. This was kinda neat for me to as I was getting horny doing this and watching him. Well,finally he got on top of me the way I like it best and he started riding that dildo like there was no tomorrow, then he started to stroke his cock and moan louder finally,READY, he let go a load of cum that literally shot over my head and hit the headboard as some slowly ran down my stomach. So let me tell you wifes, this was awesome for both of us, if he suggests this hey give it a try, we do this now about 2-3 times a month (if he's good). You'll probably never see a grown man moan like that again.

We have never used a strap on, like my previous post......Jay probably would end up losing his liver or something he may need. But he is into a good prostate exam every now and then. I think that once men allow themselves to relax and enjoy it they are introduced to a whole new level of orgasm. Yeah, he likes it lol.

I would have to say that using a strap on with MrVan would be out. That is not something that I think he would enjoy. However I have had a lady friend use one with me and it was pretty hot but I do not think I would ever consider getting one to use on MrVan. I think I would be afraid of what I would do to him with it...

MrsVan

[sexyshelby]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

I honestly would be afraid to use one lol. If Jay wanted me to I would, but man, he'd be a brave man. I don't know how to use one of those things!

Yep, I wouldn't know how to use one either...but I'd be willing to give it a try.

~SS

[mike big]

well if he likes your tongue in hiss ass, then i dont see why he wouldnt want to experiment with something else.

i was once at a friends house, when i took one of the girls to the bathroom (me and one of the guests) we came accross a strap on that was under the sink. i almost freaked out when i saw it, i didnt know how to react. i could see his wife and other partner fucking him. i must say it still confuses me to this day but so did swinging originally.

[ohash01]

If J. asked me, I would. Never used one, is the first try graded on a curve? I'm pretty good with the riding...never had to try the thrusting. I'm not sure my hips work that way. Haha.

We have a couple we're friends with. The F has talked about "doing" me with a strap-on. Hey - maybe she'll teach me how to use one.

[JacobSky]

Originally Posted by ohash01

If J. asked me, I would. Never used one, is the first try graded on a curve? I'm pretty good with the riding...never had to try the thrusting. I'm not sure my hips work that way. Haha.

We have a couple we're friends with. The F has talked about "doing" me with a strap-on. Hey - maybe she'll teach me how to use one.

First, I must say that the act of one woman doing another with a strap-on ranks very very high on my must see list! That is my biggest turn-on concerning strap-ons.

I've never had a woman do this to me. I really hope that my future long-term partner would do it. I would be dissapointed if she were grossed out by it. So, I'm really happy to hear that most of you ladies would give it a try, and those who would not is just for fear of hurting the man, and not about gay or anal fears.

[BecandJoe]

"bi","bicurious", "gay", "straight", why waste time trying to label something??? Just enjoy yourselves! women have it so good because they're encouraged to mix it up with both sexes but men are stuck with having to judge and label their fantasies before they're allowed to indulge in them. And the sad thing about it is it's mostly the men who are judging themselves!! Let it go dudes! lol! just enjoy yourselves!

[tribbles]

We do it. The harness we started with uses an O ring so we could use different size toys in it...started with a tiny anal plug and did very little thrusting...just kind of rocked to put pressure on the prostate.

Fave position is him on top so he can control the stroke and I can use my hands on his cock.

S

[cona2k]

might have to give it a go

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by mike big

well if he likes your tongue in hiss ass, then i dont see why he wouldnt want to experiment with something else.

Tonuge...

Dildo...

You either live in the land of large tongues or small dildos. Around here - those two things just are not the same size...

I enjoy it when Mrs Spoo ventures down there a bit with her tongue, but a finger or (god forbid) a dildo would not be welcome 'round back. But then, I must live in the land of unnaturally large dildos

Spoomonkey

[Socialpsy]

Certainly a high degree of trust must be present. Though, scientifically, there are many nerve ending near the scrotum and surrounding area, keep in mind that anal sex is the same for either gender.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Socialpsy

keep in mind that anal sex is the same for either gender.

I disagree, based mainly on the absence of a prostate in most females

Spoomonkey