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What makes a good kiss or a bad kiss?

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Old 09-14-2006, 07:47 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default What makes a good kiss or a bad kiss?

Just a little sidebar from my theory thread.

What does make a good kiss?

Soft start, movement around the lips, flexible tongue, passion, sensuality, hands on face

What makes a kiss bad?

Stiff tongue, covering my mouth with theirs, too much saliva, trying to jam their tongue down my throat, biting to cause bleeding or pain, unresponsive,
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Old 09-14-2006, 08:42 AM   #2 (permalink)
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getting so close to touching her lips that you can feel the heat, then pulling back until she makes the final contact...

that is a good kiss, looking into her eyes, with the soft kiss...lips touching, then seeing her expression the first time your tongues meet....


the bad one...having to use a prior bar to open her mouth, lips that have way, way too much lipstick that is flavored...if I want artifical, I play with the boobs...
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Old 09-14-2006, 11:59 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: What makes a good kiss or a bad kiss?

From a guys perspective, I love soft lips. I also enjoy a nice tender kiss, a lot of little small kisses holding my head in her hands. There is enough time for the hard passionate kisses later.

Bad kiss....Ladies who's mouth tastes like a ash tray. And ladies who try to over power their partner with the first kiss.
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Old 09-14-2006, 12:05 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: What makes a good kiss or a bad kiss?

I love sensuous kissing! A lot of factors play into a good kiss and I won't particularly get into the specifics.

BUT

I will say what makes a bad kiss for me: attaching to my head and trying to swallow my face like the face-hugging creature from "Alien". My gripe is that I can't pull it off because of how forcefully it's attached and if I succeed, it's likely to bleed acid all over the place ... and I really like how my wood floors look. I can only wait it out and try to stay conscious until it dies and hope nothing was implanted into my stomach.

Damned face-hugging creatures.
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Old 09-14-2006, 12:17 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: What makes a good kiss or a bad kiss?

Good kisses come in many forms.

The worst kiss I can think of seemed to involve no lips only teeth.
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I agree with what everyone else said about what makes a kiss good . . .

What makes a kiss bad for me:

I don't like it when the guy and I are so out of tune with each other that we don't end a kiss at the same time.

If you can really get with me and close your mouth when I close mine, to end the kiss, you're okay in my book.
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Default Re: What makes a good kiss or a bad kiss?

Bad breathe would make a bad kiss and if there is no passion. A good kiss is the kiss that you get caught up in. It takes you back to the first time you had your first orgasm. Plus nice soft lips. facelick
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Default Re: What makes a good kiss or a bad kiss?

Good kiss:
I have 2 versions of "good kisses" that I prefer
Version A) soft, sweet, tongue action, but not wild...more of a gentle stroking on my tongue and around my lips. Hands on my cheeks or running lightly up my arms or back. Featherlight touches that are full of love and admiration (mostly - these are the kisses with Mr.)
Version B) volatile kissing, with nipping and sucking and tongue wrestling. (not sticking it down my throat, but lots of movement). the kind that has you panting when you pull apart.

Bad kiss:
Anything with lots of slobber, pain, teeth bumping (the feeling of teeth against teeth makes me slightly nauseous), or barely existant lips. I like lips that are a little fuller so they have those nice soft platforms.
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Old 09-14-2006, 07:15 PM   #9 (permalink)
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What does make a good kiss?

Soft start, movement around the lips, flexible tongue, passion, sensuality, hands on face
You just describe the first kiss Spoo gave me. facelick

Even though I have many, many more since that first one it is as fresh in my mind as if it had just happened a minute ago. Now the hand on the face is always something special and doesn't occur in the day to day heat of the moments but the rest... facelick


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What makes a kiss bad?

Stiff tongue, covering my mouth with theirs, too much saliva, trying to jam their tongue down my throat, biting to cause bleeding or pain, unresponsive,
Dito Stiff tongue is the worst. I like one that is flexible and active Biting can be nice but it takes a special skill to get it just right...pain and bleeding is a big

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Default Re: What makes a good kiss or a bad kiss?

oh someone just reminded me that teeth bumping thing. I had a date once, we couldn't kiss without our teeth making contact, it was awful. Something about our faces just didn't fit well together.

Has anyone ever had one of those experiences where you just had to kiss someone. This has happened once for me. Someone that as you meet them, the desire is almost like a physical pull towards them. It was sensational and he kissed fantasically (he felt the same pull I did), all night long anytime we were within eye contact range we had to get physically close and kiss....Course I had a second date with him and the sensation was gone.... head bang (hey we need a crying smilie)
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Default Re: What makes a good kiss or a bad kiss?

Well I have to agree that everyone has already pretty much nailed everything but for me a great kiss includes having his hands in my hair and ending with my toes curling. Thus reducing me to complete putty......

A bad kiss - well that would be someone who has bad teeth, bad breath and just bad kissing habits in general.

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