Questions on Anal

[DBL D]

**Sigh** Surrender

M.D.

[magiriano]

Originally Posted by LOL_OMG

I agree with SexyShelby on this one. If it's important to just one of you it should be a no-go. If you agree to something you don't want to it will just cause problems later. Although we don't really have restrictions like this I can totally understand it, and I think it's just fine.

I would just be honest with her about how you feel. She should respect that.

I'm also curious as to how a woman would come with anal play alone. I didnt think it was possible, since there's no clit or G-spot there?

Mrs.

My wife comes from anal sex alone.
And by the way,I consider it a bit too personal.I mean,I enjoy strap on with my wife,but I wouldn`t do it with another female.

[Lovers4U]

My wife has had anal with just about every guy she has been with. It isn't her favorite but she recognizes that men do enjoy it and anal does get her excited. We are more concerned about the situation and is the partner aware of the risks if not done with much concern for hygiene. No anal to vagina etc. unless complete cleaning of the penis. All threesomes we have been involved in, include anal at some point usually a DP which my wife enjoys very much.

[mwcohio]

Anal is King !

My fiance loves it. We have anal sex multiple times in a week. We havent swung together yet, but one of our big fantasies is me being able to watch her get anal by another guy, and she gets off on that too.

Then again, she introduced me to the joy of a strap on, so what can I say. She loves climbing behind me and riding me. At first I was embarrassed about it, but damnit, when I am having back to back prostrate orgasms, I dont care what you think, its freakin unbelievable !

[trapper]

The whole idea is to enjoy. If it is not your thing or hers don't force it My wife enjoys double peneration but that is just us.
Just when it's right it may happen. Be clean and know your patners.

[ShellyM]

Jay and I rarely do anal. Jay is very thick and its just not very comfortable for me. It can be when I am right out of a hot shower and very relaxed or am tipsy...again, very relaxed. But I can't just walk in and have him do anal like we can vaginal. Its not something I am at all comfortable with doing with another man, so for now its an occasional treat. But when we are able to do it its FANTASTIC. The anal orgasm is something else. Shelly

[Edison Carter]

Susan here-- Let's see the checklist: Her having another man's cock in her mouth: that's okay. Her having another man's cock in her pussy: that's okay. Having another man's cock anally: that's crossing the line ?

As always, you should only do what you are comfortable with. The psychology of sex when combined with human relationships makes us a very unique species. When Ed tried swinging he made this comment," One of the best things to watch is a woman having a great time having sex." Since he was referring to me, I was flattered.

I have had anal sex in group play. Yet, only with certain close friends who understood how to 'do' me just right. And boy,that is a very important part of making it fun. I've also done DP: vaginal and anal sex at the same time. I'd say find a great couple you know and trust and give it a shot. You may substitute your concerns with a new level of sexual play.

Now, that being said, I only have anal play with men that we know well. Lube really helps and condoms are a must.

Have fun !