Find the g-spot

[mickey&minnie]

Maybe I don't have one. We can't find it. We have looked on the net, we have tried alot of g-spot toys. I searched on here in the forums and now I just gotta ask....Where is the g-spot??????? How do you find it???? Please help
Minnie

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by mickey&minnie

Maybe I don't have one. We can't find it. We have looked on the net, we have tried alot of g-spot toys. I searched on here in the forums and now I just gotta ask....Where is the g-spot??????? How do you find it???? Please help
Minnie

Girl, if you find yours PLEASE tell me lol. We tried last night. Like I said before, I was very tired and not really in the mood for new adventures. It was alot of pressure, and did feel really good. But the earth did not move.
And nothing squirted lol.

[Mike and Jan]

Now it's really not that difficult. Or at least not for my wife.

If she's laying on her back with her legs apart I insert my finger into her vagina (palm up) and rub the upper side. Imagine a spot on the inside just a few inches above the woman's clitoris on the outside.

For my wife, and other women I've been with, there's a spot that almost seems to have little ribs or ridges there. A movement with my finger, like beckoning someone, or a fucking motion seems to work well.

I've also found, if you guys or gals are really into it, that a tongue in or around the woman's anus during this movement really adds to the pleasure.

[mickey&minnie]

Shelly, I hear ya!!!! We have tried everything. No luck.
Mike, thanks for replying, we have tried that and it doesn't seem to work. He says he can feel the "ridges" but he can't tell if I am enjoying any more than usual. I can't tell any difference, it all feels the same to me. Maybe mine is desensitized or something . We will keep trying, if anyone else has any ideas please let us know.
Minnie

[Randies']

Originally Posted by mickey&minnie

Maybe I don't have one. We can't find it. We have looked on the net, I searched on here in the forums and now I just gotta ask....Where is the g-spot??????? How do you find it???? Please help
Minnie

We think you may be looking in the wrong places lol.
Seriously, Mrs. randies' feels that her g-spot is being rubbed durring intercourse. If it wasn't for that rubbing, that sex wouldn't feel as good as it does. Perhaps you're trying too hard, relax and enjoy.

[04kingpin]

I'm a guy but from what I can tell there is no majic spot you will feel and say thats it!. The guy has to be patient and persistant. Keep going at it! About 2-21/2" inches in on the front side you will feel the "bumps and ridges" swell. Keep going at it at that spot. Keep your fingers curled, kind of like giving a "come here" signal with your fingers as you thrust in and out. She should go to the bathroom first because it will feel like you have to go. JUST LET IT HAPPEN! My wife likes it fast and furious after a few minutes and when she cums well, let's just say it's worth the effort and have a towel ready!

[intuition897]

I find that g-spot stimulation only feels good if I'm already aroused. Otherwise it just feels uncomfortable...almost painful. And it does feel like you have to pee. Wierd. Good advice, to have a pee before trying this. Mr. intuition discovered mine when he was giving me oral one time with a finger or two inside me. But he only started the g-spot stimulation after I was already turned on, not right from the start. But WOW! The poor guy just escaped with his life; it's a blur, but I might've been smothering him with a leg hooked behind his neck! I didn't know they made orgasms that big. The g-spot is another reason why the rear-entry position feels so good, as it's pretty direct stimulation.

Mr. intuition says it feels rough like a strawberry, and it swells up when you play with it. He actually had to show ME where it was. He says it's a couple of inches inside the vagina on the front wall, just up behind the pubic bone. Some women's g-spots are larger than others, some protruding out in a kind of "knob" while others are more of a bump. In any case, though, he said the texture is different than the rest of the vagina, and it feels "unsmooth".

I'm sure you have one, Minnie, just be patient. And don't worry too much about it; I'm sure you'll know it when you find it, and while it'll be well worth the search, the search itself should be fun. Happy hunting!

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by intuition897

Mr. intuition says it feels rough like a strawberry, and it swells up when you play with it. He actually had to show ME where it was. He says it's a couple of inches inside the vagina on the front wall, just up behind the pubic bone. Some women's g-spots are larger than others, some protruding out in a kind of "knob" while others are more of a bump. In any case, though, he said the texture is different than the rest of the vagina, and it feels "unsmooth".

From my limited experience, I would have to agree with this. But, sometimes it's just been an area where I guess the g-spot should be and is very smooth. Most of the time there is a knob or ridged spot of about nickel- or quarter-sized which was evident in some way...and once there was an area that felt the size of a lubed walnut shell that could have NOT been more obvious.

Regardless, before inserting any fingers in the vagina, I make sure that the outside is well-tended by tongue and fingers beforehand. From my previous explorations, that makes the g-spot at least somewhat more evident. I believe that a lot of "warming up" activity leads to a more evident g-spot.

I agree with the Mike and Jan post about locating the spot. If the woman lies on her back and the person trying to get her off (for now, let's just say it's a "he") places his index and middle fingers in her vagina, then does a "come hither" motion, that should stimulate her g-spot, or at least nearby. If the "come hither" motion is alien to you, then just stick those two fingers straight out, facing up, and then curl them upward. That's it.

After the tongue-work, if I've been able to find -- and luckily in most cases I can -- the g-spot, then I explore it digitally and then start concentrating on the clitoris with my tongue at the same time. That seems to work.

In some of the cases where it is obvious that I have hit AND obviously stimulated the g-spot, I will also start moving my fingers up and down in the vagina. That seems to be quite successful when combined with a lot of tongue-lashing of the clit and labia.

Regardless (again), I highly recommend at least a little -- and usually a lot -- of fumbling/groping and basic "making out" foreplay, plus a lot of oral/vaginal contact, before exploration of the vagina with fingers. After that, at least 5 or 10 minutes of basic vaginal-oral, before beginning to explore the vagina with fingers for signs of arousal and g-spotting. I think she'll appreciate it more, and the rewards will be greater...

And if those suggestions don't work...just have a little more fun exploring and experimenting...

Questions?

Thrax

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by intuition897

I find that g-spot stimulation only feels good if I'm already aroused. Otherwise it just feels uncomfortable...almost painful. And it does feel like you have to pee. Wierd. Good advice, to have a pee before trying this.

I can relate to this, and I think I know now what happened. We didn't have much foreplay at all. It was not the most comforable thing, and felt at times like a pelvic exam, lots of pressure. Thats never good lol.

[mickey&minnie]

Thanks for all the replies. I think we have found it because there have been times when I have told him to stop because I felt like I had to pee. I would have hated to pee on his face I think he would hate it too . At least I feel better knowing it is there. I guess tonite I'll just have to go with the flow (he he) and hope I don't actually pee on him. Thanks for the advice, I love this place.
Minnie

[prettylady]

You know it really doesn't matter about the peeing thing.
I can pee right before a g-spot exploration, and as soon as he starts it is "dam I have to pee again".
I have heard and I maybe wrong, but does the G-spot not become engorged with ejactulate, much like a mans penis and that is what is causing the sensation to pee. not the accualy need to pee. umm did anyone follow that train wreck of a thought pattern? :rollseyes
Let me know please, Dog keeps tellling me to relax but I can't thinking that I am going to pee on him. He says its not "pee" that I am going to squirt. I can't stand saying that. Squirt.....sounds strange.
Your friend,
Prettylady

[Thrax]

These threads explore the topic of female ejaculation or squirting...and I'm sure there are several more:
http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...ghlight=squirt
http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...ghlight=squirt

Thrax

[prettylady]

Originally Posted by Thrax

These threads explore the topic of female ejaculation or squirting...and I'm sure there are several more:
http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...ghlight=squirt
http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...ghlight=squirt

Thrax

you are a walking encyclopidia O sex Thrax.
Good to have you here.
As my father would say.."Ask me anything"
Your friend,
Prettylady

[bear_n_bunny]

Originally Posted by Mike and Jan

Now it's really not that difficult. Or at least not for my wife.

If she's laying on her back with her legs apart I insert my finger into her vagina (palm up) and rub the upper side. Imagine a spot on the inside just a few inches above the woman's clitoris on the outside.

For my wife, and other women I've been with, there's a spot that almost seems to have little ribs or ridges there. A movement with my finger, like beckoning someone, or a fucking motion seems to work well.

Mike has nailed it here. ALL women have a "G-spot", and it is pretty much where he says it is. Of course, there variations in anatomy, just as some women have large clitorises and others small, or large or small vaginas. But all women have them, and they all feel, especially when she is aroused, the way Mike describes that as well, sort of like a knot with ribs or ridges on it.

The G-spot also plays a big part in a woman experiencing vaginal orgasms as well. And yes, all women can have vaginal orgasms as well. Not all women do, but that is more of a matter of what is going on between her ears than her legs (and/or the man's technique or lack of same).

And something else I've noted in my travels is that, again due to those "variations in anatomy", the position a woman prefers to have intercourse can vary due to how her G-spot. Some women tend to prefer doing it "doggy style" because they experience better vaginal orgasms that way, whereas other prefer the "male superior" position (or some other variation) for the same reason.

Hope this helps...

-Bear

[Amanda69]

I personally don't like the G spot, as someone else mentioned I feel actual pain when it is being pushed on and the overwhelming feeling of needing to go pee. It is uncomfortable and not the thoughts I want going through my head when having sex...