Find the g-spot

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by Amanda69

I personally don't like the G spot, as someone else mentioned I feel actual pain when it is being pushed on and the overwhelming feeling of needing to go pee. It is uncomfortable and not the thoughts I want going through my head when having sex...

We found my spot, and I was surprised at the feeling of pressure. It felt like there was a "bag" so to speak, and that overwhelming urge to pee.....it was good though.

[youngnhotcpl]

I have a little more information that may help in the fun. When searching for the G Spot, and doing the come hither with a finger or two, press on her pelvis, not too hard, not too soft. The G Spot can be found anywhere from the rough behind the clit on the inside, up to about 2 inches beyond, on the upper inside. The wifes spot is a little beyond the rough, and seemes to move from the left to the right. The forplay is important, and she has to be in the mood. I am sure most of us men think we know what the hell we are doing most of the time, but applying pressure to her pelvis, right above the hair line will help in achieving this orgasm quicker. Our Girlfriend does not need the "come hither" motion, she just likes the pressure felt from the inside, and the pressure on the outside.

It took some practice, but applying the correct pressure in the correct spot was kinda difficult to do correctly, muchless try to describe. The best way I can is to say, when doing the come hither on the inside, you should be able to feel it on the outside, with the other hand you are applying pressure with. The G Spot feels like a muscle in this pelvic area, about the size of a silver dollar, flat, and round, and should be at or just above the hair line, when felt from the outside.

Happy Playing.

[Lumina]

Originally Posted by mickey&minnie

Thanks for all the replies. I think we have found it because there have been times when I have told him to stop because I felt like I had to pee. I would have hated to pee on his face I think he would hate it too . At least I feel better knowing it is there. I guess tonite I'll just have to go with the flow (he he) and hope I don't actually pee on him. Thanks for the advice, I love this place.
Minnie

Don't worry, you won't pee. Ejaculate comes out the urethra so it will seem like it, but your pc muscle contracts during orgasm, shutting off any stream of urine. So unless your pc muscles are weak, you should be fine. Anyone else find themselves doing Kegels right now? lol Oh, and thank you Thrax for providing the thread with this link.

Going pee first helps calm my anxiety and makes it more likely for me to squirt.
Although I may or may not have smelled the sheets afterwards once or twice just to make sure.

[blue eyed girl]

I never thought I had a G-spot either until last night.Every woman is built differently and some have a deeper canal which is my case.My boyfriend used a toy and yes indeed I do have one.It is definately worth looking for.Good Luck

[tribbles]

See here

Long, Long thread on another board but well worth reading IMO

[looking4meru7]

You might say I'm something of a G-Spot expert. I've helped several women online find it, and with my own girl. People read the woman on her back, palm up, two middle fingers in the pussy bit, but what they forget to mention is that she needs to be excited first. Foreplay is great, do that get her warmed up, maybe don't tell her until you are about to penetrate during your normal routine, then stop and mix things up and give this a try. Once she is excited, do the woman on her back thing, insert two fingers palm up, move your fingers back and forth deep and wide, looking for anything that feels different from the surrounding area. It may not feel like anything at first. Keep moving around. The "come hither" motion is good too. Once you have been moving around a bit, you may start to feel something with folds or ripples. Thats it, find that spot, keep working it, the "come hither" motion is great at this point, as its almost like sucking the juices out her. Assisting to move things outward. Once you have her going you could substitute your fingers for a penis, but usually I've seen the woman likes to finish it best with your hands, because its more controlled and intense. Make sure she knows her body, let her know that she will feel like she has to pee, but reassure her its not pee and its ok to release it. She will squirt if she lets herself, but she needs to know whats going on. Help her feel relaxed and accepted. When se feels the urge to pee, ask her to push slightly with it, she will have an intense orgasm and squirt like crazy. Some women its just a trickle, some gush, mine was a gusher the first time, now usually only trickles. Once she gets the hang of it and gets a feel of this new sensation, she should be able to do it on her own while having normal sex with the man. This is an amazing experience, but beware that the added moisture can dampen the friction. Enjoy! PM me if anyone needs any more pointers.

[Willing29]

Originally Posted by tribbles

See here

Long, Long thread on another board but well worth reading IMO

Long thread it was like a hundred and something pages and still going! Although it was very informative and worked pretty much as expected. But more practice is in store for next time. You know what they say practice makes perfect.

[JTurner]

My/our observations:

Descriptions above refer to the "spot" geographically, though I would say my experience is that that rising little bump is smoother than the surrounding tissue. Firmer, too.

Tons of foreplay, maybe some alcohol to loosen inhibitions and lots of assurance. The biggest hurdle, in my opinion, is a woman does feel she is about to pee. It's a building sensation that can shut down the surge, because she feels...the urge!

My one sure fire way to stimulate that spot, after lots of prior amorous behavior, is to have her on all fours or bent at the waist grasping something, legs spread, my thumb inserted and kneading her little bump in ever more vigorous fashion.

It took a while for her to "let go" and she still balks at this behavior when we are with another couple. Despite knowing the resulting squirt is really nothing more than a bit of a gush for fluid, not a spray of porno proportions.

Not an every encounter kind of thing. Reserved for special occasions. And they are.

Enjoy yours!