Escort, or Really Nice guy?

[CuriousInOregon]

I AM SORRY IN ADVANCE IF THIS IS LONG


Ok I searched for a good hour through the archives to see if this thread was around and couldnt find it so I am sorry if Its a repeat.

I was approached Online with an interesting question/proposition by a fellow swinger of many years. His question was had I ever saw the Movie "indecent proposal" with Demi Moore, I said yes who hadnt its a great fantasy that everyone wishes could happen to them.
So he goes on to tell me about how long he had been in the lifestyle, about his experiences with his Wife (now passed away) over the last 25 years, I was extremely intrigued because well frankly I LOVE SEX cant get enough of it reading, doing, watching, filming you name it I want to do it. facelick
BUT ANYHOW he told me he noticed that I was involved in the lifestyle and wanted to know about my experiences so i told him the Short story of my encounters and what not.
So heres where the question/proposition comes in:

This Gentlemen wanted to know if we could meet for coffee Nothing sexual what so ever and my husband was obviously invited too.
I told him I didnt know I would need to talk to my husband to set time details and what not but I didnt see it as a huge problem.
He then proceeded to tell me that he is a pilot and has a Small aircraft that he gives private flights to and would I maybe be interested in going to Reno, Taho, or something for a weekend.
I told him I didnt know about all that and lets just have coffee and see what happens from there. So now he sweetens the pot by saying that he will fly my husband and I to where ever we wanted to go in the Greater NW and put us up in a great resort and basicly pamper us for the weekend IF
I HAVE SEX WITH HIM

Ok I love sex already said that no biggie there but im thinking kindof escort, whore, hookerish comes to mind almost like being paid to have sex Please tell me your thoughts and what you would do in this situation......... this happened several months back and I never did bring it up to my husband.
The Reason I ask now is because this gentlemen has Recently started talking to me online again

[jennandjamesinm]

My immediate reaction is that he is full of crap. Now I am sure that these types of things happen in real life, but <i><b>I</b></i> don't know anyone that this has ever happened to in real life. I say tread VERY carefully!

Jenn

[BiloxiCouple]

Dito

Originally Posted by curiousinoregon

So now he sweetens the pot by saying that he will fly my husband and I to where ever we wanted to go in the Greater NW and put us up in a great resort and basicly pamper us for the weekend IF I HAVE SEX WITH HIM

Originally Posted by CuriousInOregon

His question was had I ever saw the Movie "indecent proposal" with Demi Moore

To be blunt, both of these were prostitution. That's my opinion.

[JnCC]

You can't walk back from an airplane...

[Tybee Swing]

I agree with everybody else on being cautious. BUT, I admit, it sounds like a pretty hot fantasy.....If he is Robert Redford to your Demi Moore.

[good times]

My opinion would be that anyone who had to make an offer like this to get laid by me or anyone else would get a big NO, because the odds are he/she wouldn't be worth having. Beyond that I agree with JNCC, as a pilot, I can confirm that it is a long walk back from even a short plane ride.

[JnCC]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

I agree with everybody else on being cautious. BUT, I admit, it sounds like a pretty hot fantasy.....If he is Robert Redford to your Demi Moore.

What if he's a "Jabba-the-Hut" to her Demi Moore? Guys like Redford don't have to offer all-expenses-paid vacations to people to get them into bed.

Shit...even guys like ME don't have to offer all-expenses-paid vacations to women to get them into bed.

The only reason a guy offers anybody "incentives" for something like this is because he's playing WAYYY out of his league. I don't care how much she likes sex...she'll need to ask herself how much "fun" she's going to have, being holed-up in a strange city all weekend with some ugly, horny old perv that no rational woman would screw on a dare.

[Amanda69]

NO, No and no.....being paid for sex no matter how it happens is still prostituting yourself.

Yes we all would be tempted if it was Robert Redford, hell I would probably say yes to him and his money but it wouldn't make it any less wrong.

[fun4Ds]

not to burst a bubble because here is the profile of a guy i work with, (general manager). uses the company plane all the time even though he dosent own the plane CHESNA 210 he shure tells every one its his. uses company credit cards to pay for everything. spends about 4 hrs a day at work on the net and has about ... last time we counted 24 women in his little world of internet dateing totaly fooled with bullshit! married get this... 7 times. IRS has been after him for years because of failed businesses of his own. i know that it sounds like im jelous of this guy but im not . i really feel sorry for him. if he pulled his head out of his ass he could have it made in the shade. but he has some kind of sickness that he has to lie about everything. why? ill never know. yes every one is on to him now and he has recently had his credit cards YANKED. why dose he do it . thats the thrill for him fooling people. now im not saying that you have met this guy i work with, but i hope its not. the women he meets dont last long. and they say he is a lousy lover.

true story real guy.

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by JnCC

What if he's a "Jabba-the-Hut" to her Demi Moore? Guys like Redford don't have to offer all-expenses-paid vacations to people to get them into bed.

Awwwww JnCC, you are totally blowing my fantasy here! Besides, that's what the coffee date is for, to find out if it's Jabba or Redford making the offer.

Originally Posted by JnCC

Shit...even guys like ME don't have to offer all-expenses-paid vacations to women to get them into bed.

Oh c'mon, you know you're a hottie! facelick

I'm just teasing about the guy, of course. But I still hold to the hot fantasy aspect.

[JnCC]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Oh c'mon, you know you're a hottie!

Nuh-huh darlin', but you're a real sweetie for saying so

Redford might have got to Demi for a mil, but for a guy like me, the price would have been a mil-five...and a couple carats.

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by JnCC

but for a guy like me, the price would have been a mil-five...and a couple carats.

You drive a hard bargain honey, but let me cash in my retirement fund and get my jewels appraised - you sound like you might be worth it!

[tribbles]

We would meet him first-and probably want to play with him before letting him pay our way to a great place for a fun time. But if we liked the guy, he had the dough and we didn't and he wanted to treat all of us to a fun vacation.....I doubt that could legally be called prostitution once we were already friends.

His offer does raise red flags and the worry of feeling like a paid escort.

Just my two cents.

S

[sapphire68]

I wouldn't do it. JMHO.

[intuition897]

Ummm...

No one really mentioned the safety issue. Okay, maybe I'm watching too much CSI lately, but I'm just getting visuals of the headlines: "Couple disappear without trace! Alleged involvement in wife-swapping... News at 11." And we worry about watching our drinks at a reputable club... But you're considering getting on a plane with some guy you don't even know? And committing to having sex with him? Uh.... JMHO, but I don't think you'd be rude to bring up these very important reasons to him for declining.