Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do?

Tybee Swing · 05-24-2006, 02:06 PM

Ladies, help! HELP

What do you do when you've got a very anticipated play date coming up, but old Aunt Flo shows up and may not be all gone before it's time for fun?

Do you always schedule around Aunt Flo and cancel things, or do you have some other solution?

Thanks!

LOL_OMG · 05-24-2006, 02:14 PM

Some women are pretty regular and like clockwork, I usually don't keep track of it...but Mr actually knows usually to the day when it comes. So if we know, then we try to not schedule any swinger activities during those days. If some friends call and say "hey wanna get together tonight?" and it's during that time...I'll tell them, sometimes they reply with that's okay we just wanna see you...sometimes the reply is "we don't care...there's more than one way to skin a cat!".

Mrs

Tybee Swing · 05-24-2006, 02:25 PM

It's so not fair to be a woman sometimes! To spend a whole wonderful weekend on the bench, not on the playing field.

I thought I heard somewhere/sometime of some kind of "cap" that people use in there. Maybe it's some kind of barrier method of BC or something? I don't remember what it was -- but I've heard of women using something like that to stop the flow for up to several hours so it wouldn't interfere with their fun.

Anybody heard of this? Anybody use some kind of method to block their period and get back on the playing field? I realllly want to carry the ball to the goal line!

jennandjamesinm · 05-24-2006, 02:31 PM

It's called Instead. Here is a thread that deals with this...

Lifestyle Party With Period? What to Do?

Also http://www.softcup.com

Hope this helps -

Jenn

DGrey · 05-24-2006, 02:33 PM

YES! The Instead cup works wonders. Just make sure to put in a fresh one right before any sexual activity. I used to use it before swinging. Now, I'm on the pill and just take them continously and only get a period 4x a year. I don't need a monthly reminder that I can't carry any more children.

E

2jersey · 05-24-2006, 02:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jennandjamesinm

It's called Instead. Here is a thread that deals with this...

Lifestyle Party With Period? What to Do?

Also http://www.softcup.com

Hope this helps -

Jenn

I own a similar product called the Diva Cup. It takes the place of a tampon.

It is not, however, useable during intercourse. I bought mine to wear at the (nude) beach.

Tybee Swing · 05-24-2006, 02:54 PM

Thank you all for the links! Does anybody here have personal testimony about these brands and how they work?

Does the man feel it inside of you? Does it interfere, at all? Thanks!!

DGrey · 05-24-2006, 03:01 PM

My advice would be to use it from the start of your period to get used to the feel. It can be felt inside (even though the directions say you shouldn't feel it). I could feel it but it wasn't uncomfortable and my husband used to be able to feel it as well.

I would absolutely let the people you intend to play wiht know that it's there because if it were to leak during sex, you wouldn't want them freaking out at the sight of blood. It happened to use once when we were going at it rather roughly. It was just us so there really wasn't any freaking out going on but you know what I mean.

E

CandPinSA · 05-24-2006, 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Ladies, help! HELP

What do you do when you've got a very anticipated play date coming up, but old Aunt Flo shows up and may not be all gone before it's time for fun?

Do you always schedule around Aunt Flo and cancel things, or do you have some other solution?

Thanks!

LOL damn that's gotta suck! Mrs. P is extremely regular, so it wouldn't be a problem for us to schedule, but we can only imagine if we 'forgot' when it would be time for aunt Flo to visit and had to cancel for.

CandP

P.S. By the way, I (Mr. C) noticed your ID the other day and ment to mention it.... I love Tybee Island.... I used to be in Augusta, and went down to Savannah all the time! One of my favorite places in GA. Sorry all, didn't mean to change the subject so much, but wanted to throw that in there.

Tybee Swing · 05-24-2006, 03:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DGrey

I would absolutely let the people you intend to play wiht know that it's there because if it were to leak during sex, you wouldn't want them freaking out at the sight of blood.

E, a funny image popped into my mind from this. You're in the middle of freaky sex, they spot the spotting....and you tell them they just took your virginity.

Just for the look on their face! Priceless! LOL

Tybee Swing · 05-24-2006, 03:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CandPinSA

P.S. By the way, I (Mr. C) noticed your ID the other day and ment to mention it.... I love Tybee Island.... I used to be in Augusta, and went down to Savannah all the time! One of my favorite places in GA. Sorry all, didn't mean to change the subject so much, but wanted to throw that in there.

We love Tybee, too! We named ourselves "tybee swing" because that's one of the kinky places we two love to have sneaky sex. Do you remember the swings on the beach at Tybee Island? They're like porch swings for two, every few hundred yards, facing the ocean, right beside the dunes. They were just made for randy people!

JnCC · 05-24-2006, 04:10 PM

A scoop of Kitty Litter sprinkled into the panties would probably have the same effect, and save you a bunch of money.

Hey, it works under my motorcycles...

Chicup · 05-24-2006, 04:15 PM

If its Mrs. Chicup we plan at another time.

Good things come to those who wait

LOL_OMG · 05-24-2006, 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JnCC

A scoop of Kitty Litter sprinkled into the panties would probably have the same effect, and save you a bunch of money.

Okay EWWWW!

Tybee Swing · 05-24-2006, 05:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JnCC

A scoop of Kitty Litter sprinkled into the panties would probably have the same effect, and save you a bunch of money.

Hey, it works under my motorcycles...

LMAO! Somehow, I don't think my partners would appreciate that gravelly effect!

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05-24-2006, 02:06 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tybee Swing wild at heart Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,837 Location: coastal Georgia Status: couple	Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do? Ladies, help! HELP What do you do when you've got a very anticipated play date coming up, but old Aunt Flo shows up and may not be all gone before it's time for fun? Do you always schedule around Aunt Flo and cancel things, or do you have some other solution? Thanks!

05-24-2006, 02:14 PM	#2 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 938 Location: where we're at Status: Couple SLS Name:LOL_OMG	Re: Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do? Some women are pretty regular and like clockwork, I usually don't keep track of it...but Mr actually knows usually to the day when it comes. So if we know, then we try to not schedule any swinger activities during those days. If some friends call and say "hey wanna get together tonight?" and it's during that time...I'll tell them, sometimes they reply with that's okay we just wanna see you...sometimes the reply is "we don't care...there's more than one way to skin a cat!". Mrs __________________ Somebody better go back and get a shitload of dimes!!!

05-24-2006, 02:25 PM	#3 (permalink)
Tybee Swing wild at heart Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,837 Location: coastal Georgia Status: couple	Re: Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do? It's so not fair to be a woman sometimes! To spend a whole wonderful weekend on the bench, not on the playing field. I thought I heard somewhere/sometime of some kind of "cap" that people use in there. Maybe it's some kind of barrier method of BC or something? I don't remember what it was -- but I've heard of women using something like that to stop the flow for up to several hours so it wouldn't interfere with their fun. Anybody heard of this? Anybody use some kind of method to block their period and get back on the playing field? I realllly want to carry the ball to the goal line!

05-24-2006, 02:31 PM	#4 (permalink)
jennandjamesinm Care to join us??? Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 1,454 Location: Northwest Mississippi Status: Couple SLS Name:jennandjamesinms	Re: Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do? It's called Instead. Here is a thread that deals with this... Lifestyle Party With Period? What to Do? Also http://www.softcup.com Hope this helps - Jenn __________________ "Swinging is the women's amusement park, and men are just along for the thrill ride." ~ James

05-24-2006, 02:33 PM	#5 (permalink)
DGrey Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 386 Location: Exit 13A Thank you very much! Status: Married Female SLS Name:DGrey	Re: Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do? YES! The Instead cup works wonders. Just make sure to put in a fresh one right before any sexual activity. I used to use it before swinging. Now, I'm on the pill and just take them continously and only get a period 4x a year. I don't need a monthly reminder that I can't carry any more children. E __________________ Erika & Dino i like your body...i lke what it does, i like its hows...i like kissing this and that of you. -- e.e. cummings

05-24-2006, 02:54 PM	#7 (permalink)
Tybee Swing wild at heart Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,837 Location: coastal Georgia Status: couple	Re: Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do? Thank you all for the links! Does anybody here have personal testimony about these brands and how they work? Does the man feel it inside of you? Does it interfere, at all? Thanks!!

05-24-2006, 03:01 PM	#8 (permalink)
DGrey Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 386 Location: Exit 13A Thank you very much! Status: Married Female SLS Name:DGrey	Re: Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do? My advice would be to use it from the start of your period to get used to the feel. It can be felt inside (even though the directions say you shouldn't feel it). I could feel it but it wasn't uncomfortable and my husband used to be able to feel it as well. I would absolutely let the people you intend to play wiht know that it's there because if it were to leak during sex, you wouldn't want them freaking out at the sight of blood. It happened to use once when we were going at it rather roughly. It was just us so there really wasn't any freaking out going on but you know what I mean. E __________________ Erika & Dino i like your body...i lke what it does, i like its hows...i like kissing this and that of you. -- e.e. cummings

05-24-2006, 04:10 PM	#12 (permalink)
JnCC Has Left the Building Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 817 Location: Mulletsville, USA	Re: Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do? A scoop of Kitty Litter sprinkled into the panties would probably have the same effect, and save you a bunch of money. Hey, it works under my motorcycles...

05-24-2006, 04:15 PM	#13 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 2,341 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Ladies: on period, really hot date, what 2 do? If its Mrs. Chicup we plan at another time. Good things come to those who wait

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