Anal sex

[Rvrtas]

I voted "Love it" - but only infrequently and when VERY turned on, usually after a lot of foreplay and stimulation. And I've only come to love it after developing complete trust with F. So maybe I should vote "Love It but Only with ..."!

[TNTCouple]

Like most of the women here, the mood has to strike me too, maybe every other month or so, although Mr. T seems to think it all depends on the alignment of the planets, whether the wind is blowing north or south, etc. :rollseyes

Butt ( ) what makes it painless for me is, of course, lots of lube and to ease into it with different size butt plugs we have starting with the thinnest one, about the size of Mr. T's pinky, then working it to a little thicker and so on and so on. By the time we get to the last one, I'm begging him to enter me (I love it when he teases) and can even take it rough sometimes if I'm really feeling frisky.

To try it with lube and just him right from the start, OUCH !! He loves it, but he always says afterwards that my "pookie" is warmer and softer and is just better, in his opinion. But my orgasms are out of this world with anal, with a little help from my vibrating friend .

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[magnum]

Originally Posted by TNTCouple

Like most of the women here, the mood has to strike me too, maybe every other month or so, although Mr. T seems to think it all depends on the alignment of the planets, whether the wind is blowing north or south, etc. :rollseyes

Butt ( ) what makes it painless for me is, of course, lots of lube and to ease into it with different size butt plugs we have starting with the thinnest one, about the size of Mr. T's pinky, then working it to a little thicker and so on and so on. By the time we get to the last one, I'm begging him to enter me (I love it when he teases) and can even take it rough sometimes if I'm really feeling frisky.

To try it with lube and just him right from the start, OUCH !! He loves it, but he always says afterwards that my "pookie" is warmer and softer and is just better, in his opinion. But my orgasms are out of this world with anal, with a little help from my vibrating friend .

-:¦:-
¸.·´ .·´¨¨))
((¸¸.·´ ..·´
-:¦:- ((¸¸.·´*Mrs. T-:¦:-

As a male, I love to give anal to my woman as long as she is enjoying it. I must say, if the woman is really into it "like my old gf" I love to go deep and hard, I love to feel my balls slaping her wet shaved pussy as I "pound" her ass.

I am always respectful of the womans wants and needs etc.

Magnum

[marksgirl2]

love it! but intimidated by the what ifs... if I'm given fair warning (like a couple of hours) or know that we will be meeting someone, then I'll do an enema and just before we get down to business I'll do a quick finger douche just in case. Mainly my issue is a bit aof paranoia about feces showing up unexpectedly - I don't necessarily care all that much, but I have had a guy freak out on me about it (it was an unexpected hook up -- he got so deep that I had a huge anal orgasm (think kundalini) and unfortunately emptied a bit all over him and the sheets. It wasn't that much, but it was enough to gross him out completely (and I never saw him again... LOL). Now I'm just a little more careful about cleanliness. Maybe that's TMI, but oh, well. I don't mean to be gross - just frank.

But once it's in, OH MAN that is HEAVEN! A total psychological rush to feel so completely at another's loving mercy... for me it takes total surrender because after it's on, I'm too stoooopid to do much else besides hang on for the ride.

[deusex]

Anal is great... as read above it requires lots of good lubrication
to be painless. Do try it but with good lube.

[TheCouple]

couldnt live without it. I orgasm much bigger anally then vaginally

[shyguyxx2004]

i love to fuck my wife in her ass - but now she wants t fuck my virgin ass with a vibrator - what should i do???? confused??????

[DBL D]

Haven't you learned this yet?

The ladies always get to do what they want. facelick

Male D

[jkuhio]

We have tried anal but as others have voted...its a once in a while thing. My mood has to there for my hubby to do my ass. But most of the time, Im not in the relax mood to go with it.

I don't know about the other women but anal intercourse for me is more exploding when he eats me while fingering my ass...its intense.

[plazmikgurl]

I just wondered if anyone had any tips for relaxing before anal, other than alcohol, I think my biggest problem is i worry too much. We did it once and it was great, but whenever we try it now i worry too much.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by plazmikgurl

I just wondered if anyone had any tips for relaxing before anal, other than alcohol, I think my biggest problem is i worry too much. We did it once and it was great, but whenever we try it now i worry too much.

I don't know girl, I think as you simply become more comfortable with the fact that he won't hurt you the more you relax. Jay is pretty thick, and honestly I don't know that we will reach a point where anal is not painful. But, I try and compromise....not doing too good a job at it though lol.

[Mr.T]

Originally Posted by shyguyxx2004

i love to fuck my wife in her ass - but now she wants t fuck my virgin ass with a vibrator - what should i do???? confused??????

As an anal newbie myself,I say if it's your wife doing the playing,give it a try.You may like it,you may not.But I'll be straight up with ya.If it weren't for the trust I have in the Mrs.,I would not have even considered it.

And,logically,if she lets you play in the back,isn't it at least fair to try?

Just my warped viewpoint

[tribbles]

Learned to love it over the summer. It took using butt plugs to just get used to the feeling. Then one nite, he held still and I backed up on him and with lots of lube, learned how good it can be for me. It still takes a vibe to send me over the top but WOW!

As for letting the Ms use a toy on you.....DO IT! Slow and gentle. Good odds you will like it if there is no pain and once you are over the fear and relax...mmmm....

We both play anally now.

As for potential fecal material....anyone who plays with the poop shoot outta be willing to deal with it cuz it can happen. Putting stuff inside stimulates muscle movements...what would you expect could happen? :rollseyes
We keep towels underneath "just in case"

[NJCouple]

Originally Posted by plazmikgurl

I just wondered if anyone had any tips for relaxing before anal, other than alcohol, I think my biggest problem is i worry too much. We did it once and it was great, but whenever we try it now i worry too much.

I think the best way is to not plan on it. I think he should start touching your ass more outside of and in bed. I love it if hubby presses himself against me from behind when he is horny. Make it a very pleasurable experience and something that gets you hot. Another step is teasing your rectum whether with his tongue or a finger. He can just make it feel good. If you include these types of things in your play, you may find yourself pressing against his finger and looking for penetration. Then maybe, you'll want to start with finger play or a small toy. You can build up to it so that when you get to it there is only the thought of the pleasure instead of anticipating pain. Good luck, Sharon

[rebelnangel]

i would have to say i love it,even more than he does.sometimes i tell him he's not getting any unless it's anal.never thought i would be like that,but now i sure do.....