Anal sex

[2jersey]

Anal sex is not up our alley.

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by 2jersey

Anal sex is not up our alley.

Rimshot.

(Jeez, sometimes I just crack me up.)

[beaverz]

Thrax,

2,000 comedies are out of work in your trying to sneak in the back door.

This could be Standup Comedy for swingers.

Take my wife for instance,
Seriously take her.

How many swingers does it take to screw in a light bulb?

Somebody stop me!!

[Arrival5]

I like it - we always tend to do it on or around when there is a full moon. (not sure why - just works out this way) I will admit, however, that I always get scared when we start talking about doing it and actually preparing. Once we get going, I love it! I normally use a high powered vibrator while we are doing it, and the orgasm is so intense! facelick

[beaverz]

Mrs. Beaverz loves anal sex, but only maybe once or twice a month.

It normally consists of using a thin soft vibrator with me giving oral to her clit, sometimes we will add second toy to her vagina. It normally ends with intense orgasm.

We very rarely have me penetrate her anally. We both don’t seem to have a need for that. Maybe it’s my massive size that keeps us from truly getting into it :rollseyes . (Man I hope Mrs. Beaverz don’t read this post.)

[SwingerWannaBe]

Are there any reprocautions with having anal? My GF has heard rumors about uncontrolled bowel movements, and god knows what else. I think I am the perfect size for havng anal and have never experienced it. She just has it stuck in her head that there will be some not good reprocautions.

[Amanda69]

I love it but I have to be in the mood for it. It's not something that happens when HE wants it, rather when I want it.

I also ditto on that one. I find I love the idea of it, when it works it is a lot of fun but it doesn't work out very often.

Guys just so you know just because the female in the porn flics can just switch to anal with ease in any position at any time doesn't mean real women can do this.

There are many interestingly yuckky things that can happen when doing anal that certainly can put you off. Haven't had any uncontrolled bowel movements but certainly the uncontrolled gas cloud after he pulls out can be very unattractive....

You need to be hours after a bowel movement, wash thoroughly and I have heard some people use an internal wash of the bowels first.

One thing I do enjoy is while he is doing oral sex that he plays with the anus, quite a turn on...

[xxoticangel]

When I am in the mood for it I love it. When I do get in the mood nothing else will do either. Unfortunately for my husband I am only get anal cravings about 4 times a year. When I'm not in the mood that area is completely off limits. Sometimes I wish I was more into it for his sake but keeping something like this as a rare treat makes him appreciate it more.

[all4fun]

We will have anal on a rare occasion and I have to be really turned on to do it. As a general rule, I don't like it and become very nervous about it when he brings it up. I guess I just can't relax enough to enjoy it.

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by SwingerWannaBe

Are there any reprocautions with having anal? My GF has heard rumors about uncontrolled bowel movements, and god knows what else. I think I am the perfect size for havng anal and have never experienced it. She just has it stuck in her head that there will be some not good reprocautions.

Sorry to the OP and the ladies but...From a Male (just ignore if necessary!)

I know how you feel...it's very frustrating to come up against this kind of thinking when you know that the problems are usually those that are just talked about and never experienced. Those that have had these "problems" have clearly not done something they should have or went WAY beyond the normal boundaries of regular decent folk! OW!

If you feel you have gas, don't do anal!

If you are sore...don't do anal!

If you don't have enough lube...don't do anal!

If you aren't in the mood...don't do anal!

If you "aren't sure"...don't do anal!

The key is to really focus on the act and be ready at all costs to go for it. A man loves nothing more than for the lady to really give it her best and show him she is into it as much as him. That's not always possible, but can happen.

If you aren't ready to explore...don't do anal!

You gotta want it and realize that millions of people do it and love it...safely.

Male D

[looker]

Good advice. I for one will be trying it soon

[DBL D]

When we first got started on TRYING anal sex, I just hated it. It took so much time not to mention the pain until I learned how to RELAX.
In time and lots of lube, I find it to be enjoyable most of the time.
I like to take some time out to get myself together before we have a playfull evening with each other, and I don't think preping for a little anal play takes that much extra. Now.. If you ask Male D I'm sure he would say it takes forever. LOL 20min shower, shave, shine facelick . Not bad for the END result.
So.............My vote is LOVE IT. (Just not every time)

Fem D

[essexcouple]

My hubby is big and I have to be in the right mood for anal sex, I do enjoy it once he's in, but don't like the inserting and pulling out. It's fab once he's in there though. I prefer vaginal sex still though, its more romantic and erotic for me.

[Bottombitch]

It makes me cum that much faster and love to be finished off that way

[magnum]

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

I like it, but it's not an all the time kinda thing. It takes a lot of preparation and patience, and quite frankly, a lot of high priced lube and there's a lot of times I just don't want to "invest" the time. But, when it's good, it's REALLY good. I've had my strongest orgasm ever from anal. I will say that anal sex is the ultimate when you're having vaginal sex at the same time.

Pepper

Right on!!! DP is good fun.

Magnum