age old question...different twist, I think

[FLnewlyweds]

Penis enlargers......is it posisble? Here's the deal....I'm happy with my size when hard but when I'm limp it shrivels up and hides . Once in a great while it'll relax and hang proud but otherwise it's shy as can be. Now I'm not looking to enlarge my hard on, just make it normal when limp. I can be in a hot tub and still have shrinkage like I sat in an ice bath. Anyone else have this or heard how to "fix" it LOL.
Thanks!

[ohash01]

I think it's a hottub thing. Especially if you've had a few drinks with it. I was with my boyfriend and someone else in a hottub not too long ago and neither of them could get completely hard while IN the tub, but if they got up and sat on the edge, no problem. I think it's the excessive heat.

[FLnewlyweds]

The hot tub was just an example.....I'm talkin about shriveled as we speak LOL and all hours of the day unless I'm aroused.

[JnCC]

When you think it's "shriveled up," it IS "normal." Nature, in her infinite wisdom, designed us NOT to have our sensitive parts sticking out where they could be easily injured or vulnerable to attack.

What you term "relaxed" or "hanging proud" is actually a state of partial-arousal. You could try a little Viagra...maybe 25 mg or so...to help with that. Be careful not to overdo it...there's nothing weirder than a guy wandering around all night with a dick that never goes down.

[Thrax]

I'm in the same boat (and I guess that would be a dinghy): Average-sized erection, but when limp...

Some guys have limp "danglers" and then there are those of us that don't. One comic -- I forget his name -- said when he didn't have an erection, his dick looked like a button on a fur coat.

I used to be pretty self-conscious about my soft size, especially since I hang around (heh, he said "hang around") with a lot of swingers who are nudists, hot tubbers, or just party nekkid. But I quickly found out that on most swing occasions there are many women who know that they might be able to cause some growth in that area. And often I can get at least one to try.

Really, just stop worrying about it. If you relax, it might. A teensy-weensy little bit.

Just think big.

Thrax

[VegasLee]

We have had a doctor that wrote a few articles about Penis enlargers for us. He is a real doctor, does not just play one on the Internet. His bottom line was that if you really want to through money away on these things please just send it to him. He can always use more of it. Penis enlargers don't work from all the testing he did for the articles.

[bear_and_babe]

Originally Posted by FLnewlyweds

Penis enlargers......is it posisble? Here's the deal....I'm happy with my size when hard but when I'm limp it shrivels up and hides . Once in a great while it'll relax and hang proud but otherwise it's shy as can be. Now I'm not looking to enlarge my hard on, just make it normal when limp. I can be in a hot tub and still have shrinkage like I sat in an ice bath. Anyone else have this or heard how to "fix" it LOL.
Thanks!

At the club I go to we would call you "a grower, not a shower". Most men that I know are like this. Unless they are hard, you can't see their dick. But on the other hand, I have found that the men who are "showers" don't really get any bigger than what they are showing. At least with "growers" you know it is going to get bigger! And the heat in the hot tub does tend to have an effect on men. Bear and I were in the hot tub with another couple and neither man could get hard, they were just over heated and it put a damper on things. If you are getting hard when you need to, then don't worry about what your dick is doing other times. Most women I know understand men's bodies and understand that dicks tend to hide at times.