Phone sex???

invictus · 03-13-2002, 10:19 PM

Here is a new topic I have not seen on this board...

When the "phone sex" and 900 numbers came out a few years ago, I could not figure out the appeal or why anyone would pay for such a thing.
Now... I still cannot figure out the paying part (I am a tightass when it comes to spending money) but J and I have have some great fun on the phone when I have been out of town on business.

Has anyone else done this with their spouse? Any feedback pro or con? Did you discuss anything "new"?

We would love to hear some feedback from the board on this one!!

M

**TNT** · 03-13-2002, 11:37 PM

We don't do phone sex but as we are often separated by business travel our laptops and webcams are the next best thing to being there!

kennlea · 03-15-2002, 08:31 AM

as far as phone sex goes it doesn't do much for me (ken) but the other day lea was talking to one of our friends on the phone....she had complained of being horney earlier so i went down on her while she was talking to him they both got quite a thrill out of it

Ken

ILcouple · 03-15-2002, 10:21 AM

Ken

Now that's my kind of phone sex!

Flori_DAMAN · 03-15-2002, 01:37 PM

I believe a "hands free" phone would be a valuable tool for this activity also.

kennlea · 03-15-2002, 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by michigancouple:
<STRONG>I believe a "hands free" phone would be a valuable tool for this activity also.</STRONG>

I have to agree...

...a hands free or even a speaker phone would have been much more comfortable. A chaise lounge would have been good too.

My shopping list is growing! Oh Keeeeennnnn!

Hee hee...Lea

**Alura** · 03-16-2002, 09:00 AM

Laz-e-Boy (Sp?) makes an overstuffed, heated, vibrating recliner with a built-in speaker 'phone. I got one for my birthday a few years ago.

Husband of Alura

Firemaster · 02-13-2004, 11:10 AM

Hello,

When my wife and I first meet 6 years ago in college phone sex and internet sex was used a bit. Since I lived in New ENgland and she was in Ky you can imagine a summer away. Ocassionally when I go out of town, or on the way home from school, I will start getting her warmed up on the phone. Average drive for me is 45 minutes, so you can imagine the welcome. But in the reality of it, I believed that it built a strong bond between us. If you can verbally say it, you should be able to perform it.

just my thoughts...

Firemaster
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kpennink · 02-13-2004, 04:50 PM

We've done both phone and e-mail at various times. Phone can be loads of fun when one or the other of us is on a business trip and stranded in a hotel in some tiny, dry, little town. E-mail sexwe've even tried from work (not recommended unless one personally runs the mail server). One benefit from this is you develop great skill as a one-handed touch typist. The danger, as you might imagine, is the remote possibility of realizing (for example) that you accidentally addressed the e-mail to "allusers" instead of "allicia" . . . one minute after hitting that "Send" button. Talk about morning after regrets!

MrYaWanna · 02-13-2004, 06:38 PM

kpennink

Oh nooo...and with Outlook those two addresses are too close for comfort!! Maybe you should change your wife's e-mail to XXX
lol

But yes, e-mail and phones are a good thing. We find that they allow us a different medium in which to communicate. Each is different and more communication is always a good thing!

Vjklander · 02-13-2004, 06:49 PM

When I go on business trips, I take MrsVjk with me, so that doesn't work, but, like Ken, when she is on the phone with one of our kinky friends I will start playing with her. It really does add a bit of naughtiness to the whole affair.
J

kpennink · 02-13-2004, 08:53 PM

Quote:

Oh nooo...and with Outlook those two addresses are too close for comfort!! Maybe you should change your wife's e-mail to XXX
lol

Confession: I picked those two names intentionally for that purpose. Was originally going to use All Users and Allura, but didn't want to possibly offend.

Anyway, your reply did kind of bring a grin to my face. I really am the guy that runs the e-mail server (well, the whole IT department), and it never even occurred to me use a unique "code name."

A number of years back, I had thought I was safe just hitting reply. But, we had an annoying vendor that was going after about a $750K contract. We'd been exchanging proposals back and forth by e-mail, but internally we'd already decided to go with someone else. So, I forwarded his latest to my boss, along with a comment to the effect of "why don't you just go ahead and tell this guy that he's toast already?" Maybe in somewhat cruder terms. Well, as you might guess, I had hit "reply" rather than "forward." Realized it about five minutes later, and moved at the speed of light trying to tell my mail server to tell his mail server to recall the message. I "think" it did, but never did know for sure. And, went and confessed my transgressions to my boss (the CFO), figuring it was better he hear it from me than the vendor if I didn't catch it.

The upshot is that my recommendations were overruled, and the guy got the contract anyway. Six months and about $300K later they realized he really was full of, uh, something, and cancelled the project to start over with someone else. Is it any wonder that the whole company declared bankruptcy a year or so after that?

Sorry about rambling away from the subject of phone sex. I suppose I could have kept this post somewhat on topic by making up some quotes suggesting he perform some very kinky and almosty anatomically impossible acts. But I'd much rather keep at least my language clean in the nice mixed company here.

PrtyinDuo · 02-15-2004, 02:11 PM

We didn't do phone sex when we were seperated during the week because of working different shifts.Her on days,and me on nights.(10pm-6am).But,we had just as much fun making self masturbation vids with the camcorder.Complete with the moans and groans and "I love you" endings.

Enjoy!!

***JustAskJulie*** · 05-31-2006, 04:54 PM

I had never really gotten into the whole phone sex thing. BUT, the last few months I've been in a LD relationship (2 hours) and I've suddenly discovered the joy of phone sex.

Dynamar · 05-31-2006, 07:51 PM

I love phone sex... something about the whole theatre of the mind thing, I think. Ironically enough... the main reason my ex-husband and I were divorced was because he was addicted to phone sex. Not with me though... the kind you pay for (yeah, I never got that either). And, this, at a time when we were younger, not as far along in our careers and could scarcely afford such things!

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03-13-2002, 10:19 PM	#1 (permalink)
invictus Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 95 Location: SW Indiana Status: couple	Phone sex??? Here is a new topic I have not seen on this board... When the "phone sex" and 900 numbers came out a few years ago, I could not figure out the appeal or why anyone would pay for such a thing. Now... I still cannot figure out the paying part (I am a tightass when it comes to spending money) but J and I have have some great fun on the phone when I have been out of town on business. Has anyone else done this with their spouse? Any feedback pro or con? Did you discuss anything "new"? We would love to hear some feedback from the board on this one!! M
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03-13-2002, 11:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	We don't do phone sex but as we are often separated by business travel our laptops and webcams are the next best thing to being there!
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03-15-2002, 08:31 AM	#3 (permalink)
kennlea Active Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 40 Location: Duluth,MN	as far as phone sex goes it doesn't do much for me (ken) but the other day lea was talking to one of our friends on the phone....she had complained of being horney earlier so i went down on her while she was talking to him they both got quite a thrill out of it Ken
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03-16-2002, 09:00 AM	#7 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,136 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Laz-e-Boy (Sp?) makes an overstuffed, heated, vibrating recliner with a built-in speaker 'phone. I got one for my birthday a few years ago. Husband of Alura
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03-15-2002, 10:21 AM	#4 (permalink)
ILcouple Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 97 Location: Illinois Status: couple	Ken Now that's my kind of phone sex!

03-15-2002, 01:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I believe a "hands free" phone would be a valuable tool for this activity also.

02-13-2004, 11:10 AM	#8 (permalink)
Firemaster Registered Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 9 Location: Kentucky Status: Couple	Phone Sex Hello, When my wife and I first meet 6 years ago in college phone sex and internet sex was used a bit. Since I lived in New ENgland and she was in Ky you can imagine a summer away. Ocassionally when I go out of town, or on the way home from school, I will start getting her warmed up on the phone. Average drive for me is 45 minutes, so you can imagine the welcome. But in the reality of it, I believed that it built a strong bond between us. If you can verbally say it, you should be able to perform it. just my thoughts... Firemaster flamethrow flamethrow

02-13-2004, 04:50 PM	#9 (permalink)
kpennink Active Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 32 Location: Yet Another Ohio Couple (SW) Status: Married Couple	We've done both phone and e-mail at various times. Phone can be loads of fun when one or the other of us is on a business trip and stranded in a hotel in some tiny, dry, little town. E-mail sexwe've even tried from work (not recommended unless one personally runs the mail server). One benefit from this is you develop great skill as a one-handed touch typist. The danger, as you might imagine, is the remote possibility of realizing (for example) that you accidentally addressed the e-mail to "allusers" instead of "allicia" . . . one minute after hitting that "Send" button. Talk about morning after regrets!

02-13-2004, 06:38 PM	#10 (permalink)
MrYaWanna Has Left the Building Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 54 Location: Ontario Status: Couple	Woops! kpennink Oh nooo...and with Outlook those two addresses are too close for comfort!! Maybe you should change your wife's e-mail to XXX lol But yes, e-mail and phones are a good thing. We find that they allow us a different medium in which to communicate. Each is different and more communication is always a good thing!

02-13-2004, 06:49 PM	#11 (permalink)
Vjklander Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 834 Location: VA Status: Couple, Straight M, BiFem Swing Lifestyle Name:Vjklander	When I go on business trips, I take MrsVjk with me, so that doesn't work, but, like Ken, when she is on the phone with one of our kinky friends I will start playing with her. It really does add a bit of naughtiness to the whole affair. J

02-15-2004, 02:11 PM	#13 (permalink)
PrtyinDuo Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 113 Location: NW Pa./W.NY Status: BiCpl in the hills of Pa.	We didn't do phone sex when we were seperated during the week because of working different shifts.Her on days,and me on nights.(10pm-6am).But,we had just as much fun making self masturbation vids with the camcorder.Complete with the moans and groans and "I love you" endings. Enjoy!!
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05-31-2006, 04:54 PM	#14 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,289 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Phone sex??? I had never really gotten into the whole phone sex thing. BUT, the last few months I've been in a LD relationship (2 hours) and I've suddenly discovered the joy of phone sex.

05-31-2006, 07:51 PM	#15 (permalink)
Dynamar Ready-Willing-Able Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 746 Location: A flyover state Status: Single Swing Lifestyle Name:Dynamar	Re: Phone sex??? I love phone sex... something about the whole theatre of the mind thing, I think. Ironically enough... the main reason my ex-husband and I were divorced was because he was addicted to phone sex. Not with me though... the kind you pay for (yeah, I never got that either). And, this, at a time when we were younger, not as far along in our careers and could scarcely afford such things!
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