Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved?

blackcreme2003 · 12-17-2005, 08:41 PM

Want to ask everyone is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved?

Spoomonkey · 12-18-2005, 07:31 PM

Better with my partner...

Hands down...

Spoomonkey

WesternSwing · 12-18-2005, 09:13 PM

Always better with my wife alone. There is no comparison. Sex with others is fun, but as it has been said, "sex without love is merely healthy exercise."

Mr. WS

txduo2000 · 12-19-2005, 08:35 AM

Dito to Western Swing.

Sweet_Candy · 12-19-2005, 08:49 AM

With my partner . . . who else knows me best?

mitzi54 · 12-19-2005, 10:40 AM

With my partner.... It just can't be beat.

intuition897 · 12-19-2005, 11:09 AM

My own partner. Everything else is just foreplay.

macallan_neat · 12-20-2005, 10:41 AM

No contest -- Mrs. Neat can play me like a virtuoso.

BorisNatasha · 12-20-2005, 06:55 PM

No matter how comfortable I ever get with swinging, I will never be as comfortable as when I'm alone with Natasha. That comfort translates into better sex. Even without the comfort factor, I will still take making love over having sex almost any day.

Boris

Edison Carter · 04-17-2006, 05:48 AM

Susan here- For me, with the right person(s) involved it can be as good, it's simply different. Yet, I can so easily surrender myself to a sexual moment and be physically and emotionally engaged without barriers.

JaneAndJohnDoe · 04-18-2006, 03:39 PM

Without a doubt, hands down, no holds barred...

Sex with each other is WAY better than sex with other people involved. We are completely free, liberated, uninhibited, and we know each other intimately well, like no one else we can possibly be with.

Swinging is always like the "first time", when you are just learning about each other. Our marital bed is beyond comparison, and exciting in ways that swinging can't touch.

We love swinging, but not necessarily because of being able to sleep with other people. Strangely, it is as if the other people are extensions of our own selves, our own bodies.

We get off on seeing our partner pleased sexually with other people, but it still cannot come close to the way we feel when it is just us in the room.

Like one of the other posters said...it is like foreplay...and it turns us on for each other.

BandJ1968 · 04-21-2006, 11:58 AM

With each other . . . absolutely. ;-)

LICouple4u · 05-05-2006, 10:16 PM

We've had great sex with our playmates, but nothing can compare to that amazing connection that you have with your partner/spouse.

We have one couple that we've become very close with and definitely enjoy the dates we have with them, but there's still that barrier there, where the love is missing.

ftballprincess · 05-06-2006, 04:11 AM

i would think it is exiciting with three or more at a time. Cant really say because we are brand new to this and have only explored the possibility in our fantasies. I dont even know how to chat or how to find someone who may want to be our play partner and am getting a little frustrated by all the registrations and things like that. I want to get down to the fun part.

Mike and Jan · 05-06-2006, 05:27 AM

The best sex I've ever had is with my wife..., after we've had sex with others!

Absolutely best!

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12-17-2005, 08:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
blackcreme2003 Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Austell	Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? Want to ask everyone is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved?

12-18-2005, 07:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? Better with my partner... Hands down... Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

12-18-2005, 09:13 PM	#3 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,824 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? Always better with my wife alone. There is no comparison. Sex with others is fun, but as it has been said, "sex without love is merely healthy exercise." Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

12-19-2005, 08:35 AM	#4 (permalink)
txduo2000 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 662 Location: Dallas TX Area Status: Couple	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? Dito to Western Swing. __________________ Life is not measured by how many breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.

12-19-2005, 08:49 AM	#5 (permalink)
Sweet_Candy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 535 Location: Houston area Status: Couple	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? With my partner . . . who else knows me best? __________________ Sweet_Candy

12-19-2005, 10:40 AM	#6 (permalink)
mitzi54 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 63 Location: Texas Status: Couple SLS Name:mitzi54	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? With my partner.... It just can't be beat.

12-19-2005, 11:09 AM	#7 (permalink)
intuition897 Canadian, eh? Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,602 Location: Kingston, ON Status: Couple SLS Name:intuition897	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? My own partner. Everything else is just foreplay. __________________ Fear is a symptom of ignorance. Knowledge is the cure.

12-20-2005, 10:41 AM	#8 (permalink)
macallan_neat Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 42 Location: Southeast Status: Incredibly happily Married	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? No contest -- Mrs. Neat can play me like a virtuoso. __________________ OCTOBER: This is one of the peculiarly dangerous months to speculate in stocks. The others are July, January, September, April, November, May, March, June, December, August, and February -- Mark Twain

12-20-2005, 06:55 PM	#9 (permalink)
BorisNatasha Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 185 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? No matter how comfortable I ever get with swinging, I will never be as comfortable as when I'm alone with Natasha. That comfort translates into better sex. Even without the comfort factor, I will still take making love over having sex almost any day. Boris __________________ Sex is like air. It's really not that important unless you aren't getting any.

04-17-2006, 05:48 AM	#10 (permalink)
Edison Carter Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 412 Location: Bloomington, Il Status: Couple SLS Name:EdisonCarter Blog Entries: 1	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? Susan here- For me, with the right person(s) involved it can be as good, it's simply different. Yet, I can so easily surrender myself to a sexual moment and be physically and emotionally engaged without barriers.

04-18-2006, 03:39 PM	#11 (permalink)
JaneAndJohnDoe Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 93 Location: Ottawa, ON, Canada Status: Couple	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? Without a doubt, hands down, no holds barred... Sex with each other is WAY better than sex with other people involved. We are completely free, liberated, uninhibited, and we know each other intimately well, like no one else we can possibly be with. Swinging is always like the "first time", when you are just learning about each other. Our marital bed is beyond comparison, and exciting in ways that swinging can't touch. We love swinging, but not necessarily because of being able to sleep with other people. Strangely, it is as if the other people are extensions of our own selves, our own bodies. We get off on seeing our partner pleased sexually with other people, but it still cannot come close to the way we feel when it is just us in the room. Like one of the other posters said...it is like foreplay...and it turns us on for each other.

04-21-2006, 11:58 AM	#12 (permalink)
BandJ1968 Registered Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 9 Location: Orlando, FL Status: Couple SLS Name:billjill1968	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? With each other . . . absolutely. ;-)

05-05-2006, 10:16 PM	#13 (permalink)
LICouple4u Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 85 Location: Long Island, NY Status: Couple SLS Name:LiCouple4u	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? We've had great sex with our playmates, but nothing can compare to that amazing connection that you have with your partner/spouse. We have one couple that we've become very close with and definitely enjoy the dates we have with them, but there's still that barrier there, where the love is missing.

05-06-2006, 04:11 AM	#14 (permalink)
ftballprincess Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Northshore Hawaii	Re: Is sex better with your partner or when there are three or more involved? i would think it is exiciting with three or more at a time. Cant really say because we are brand new to this and have only explored the possibility in our fantasies. I dont even know how to chat or how to find someone who may want to be our play partner and am getting a little frustrated by all the registrations and things like that. I want to get down to the fun part.

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