Men's prostate?

FLnewlyweds · 12-08-2005, 02:55 PM

Is it true that if you massage the prostate he will cum harder and longer? We've never tried this and aren't that comfortable with it but can't hurt to ask right

Thanks ahead of time for your thoughts/experiences.

BradAndJanet · 12-08-2005, 06:10 PM

Oh yeah, it's true.

Trim your nails, use lots of lube and experiment to find out what he likes. There are probably a lot of good 'sex instruction' websites out there that can help you figure it out, so go a Googleing and see what you can find.

-B

Spoomonkey · 12-08-2005, 07:03 PM

It's something I've heard, but not experienced.

We tried it once and it was very uncomfortable for me. Mrs Spoomonkey was worried that she had done something wrong and wanted to try again, but I just wasn't interested. She has never done anything wrong

- so I doubt this one is her fault either.

Some things you like, some things you don't.

Spoomonkey

Thrax · 12-08-2005, 07:48 PM

Uuuuhhhh...uuuhhhhh...uuuuuhhhhhh...OOoooooooohhhh YEEEEAAAAHHH!

Sorry, what was the question?

It may have been all in my mind, or actually somewhere else, but when an ex-girlfriend introduced this to me, I was...happy. She administered this occasionally during BJs.

A prostate "massage" sounds a little too involved. A prostate probe or tickle might be better. To be perfectly frank, my orgasms were much more intense and it seemed to trigger more cum. All she did was touch my prostate with her covered finger or something else and it was KATIE BAR THE DOOR (whatever that means). Actually she just lightly pressed something against the prostate. Didn't need to move it around or anything. My reaction was similar to, but a little more intense than, the expert use of anal beads.

The "giver" can use (preferably, in at least my case) a gloved finger, but there are some toys out there that are designed for this purpose. I think Nina Hartley used to advertise one (Yikes...Nina...that's showing my age). The plastic item is curved to hit the right spot and there is a stopper (?), so it doesn't end up lodged in your butt, so you can avoid an embarrassing visit to the ER. If you don't use an officially-sanctioned anal-prober-thang I would suggest using a RETIRED toothbrush to experiment with. It's smooth plastic and long enough that it won't get lost up yer ass. Non-bristle end first recommended. At least that's my preference. To each his own. Then retire the toothbrush permanently, please.

And of course, any time you shove something up a butt, do it slowly and gently for maximum pleasure and minimum damage.

Questions?

**good times** · 12-08-2005, 08:37 PM

Only the doctor has massaged my prostate, didn't get me excited in the least, and thats the way it is going to stay.

GerdOEvert · 12-09-2005, 03:18 AM

For the completeness of information. Bulls of the Dairy Cow Variety have prostates, too. And these are stimulated by an electrically charged prod, and they give forth great quantities of sperm which are then used in arftificial insemmination of the Cows to generate more Calves.

I have often wondered why there is no similar device to stimulate the male.

But I have had my prostate massaged by a partner, and it does feel good, and you do produce more cum when you orgasm.

Otto

playmatesinpgh · 12-09-2005, 09:39 AM

Mrs. P sometimes does this to me while giving me one of her wonderful BJ's.... The orgasm/orgasms that ensue are the most intense I have EVERRRRRRRRR... had....

FLnewlyweds · 12-09-2005, 11:11 AM

I guess you have to enjoy/be comfortable with nal play, which I'm not LOL. I was just curious if the "myth" was true...
Thanks for the advice though!

txduo2000 · 12-09-2005, 01:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by good times

Only the doctor has massaged my prostate, didn't get me excited in the least, and thats the way it is going to stay.

Actually, this wouldn't be a fair assessment on which to gauge your body's reaction. The doctor has given me breast exams and pelvic exams, and never did I feel anything resembling excitement. In a passionate, sexual sense, those types of sensations take on an entirely different feeling.

I can only speak for my husband where the prostate is concerned, but I have noticed when I play with him anally, he does seem to have much more intense orgasms, and I know he really enjoys it. However, I do not think he would much enjoy a prostate examination in the same way.

biggballs · 02-27-2006, 05:04 AM

yes, i have had it done, it does make you cum a lot more, and it is soooooo intense feeling too. i was hesitant at first, but it wasnt all that bad once i relaxed, and remembered how to TRUST my partner, id do it again, sure

looking4meru7 · 07-12-2006, 03:05 PM

I'm an anal virgin giving or receiving, but it sounds good to me. Maybe I can get someone to try it on me sometime.... :-0

Lumina · 07-14-2006, 11:04 AM

I'd like to point out that the prostate can be massaged externally, for those who are skittish about anal play, by rubbing the perineum. It takes a little experimenting to find just the right way to go at it, but judging from the Mr.'s reactions, it is sooooo worth it.

athena2910 · 07-14-2006, 12:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thrax

Uuuuhhhh...uuuhhhhh...uuuuuhhhhhh...OOoooooooohhhh YEEEEAAAAHHH!

Sorry, what was the question?

It may have been all in my mind, or actually somewhere else, but when an ex-girlfriend introduced this to me, I was...happy. She administered this occasionally during BJs.

A prostate "massage" sounds a little too involved. A prostate probe or tickle might be better. To be perfectly frank, my orgasms were much more intense and it seemed to trigger more cum. All she did was touch my prostate with her covered finger or something else and it was KATIE BAR THE DOOR (whatever that means)

My current lover LOVES this! He definitely cums harder when I do this along with a BJ. And he loves to have his butt stroked and kissed too. (Of course he's squeaky clean while all this is going on.)

But I never considered using a toothbrush! (Guess now I have a real use for all those old toothbrushes I'd been so cavelierly throwing away! lol)

Athena

ohcpl43952 · 07-14-2006, 01:27 PM

HHHmmmm......... toothbrushes, electronically charged anal prods.....

What a great forum!!!!!!!

Lumina · 07-14-2006, 05:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ohcpl43952

HHHmmmm......... toothbrushes, electronically charged anal prods.....

Anyone else thinking alien abduction? LOL

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12-08-2005, 02:55 PM	#1 (permalink)
FLnewlyweds Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 39 Location: SW FL Status: Newly married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:FLnewlyweds05	Men's prostate? Is it true that if you massage the prostate he will cum harder and longer? We've never tried this and aren't that comfortable with it but can't hurt to ask right Thanks ahead of time for your thoughts/experiences.

12-08-2005, 06:10 PM	#2 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	Re: Men's prostate? Oh yeah, it's true. Trim your nails, use lots of lube and experiment to find out what he likes. There are probably a lot of good 'sex instruction' websites out there that can help you figure it out, so go a Googleing and see what you can find. -B
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12-08-2005, 07:03 PM	#3 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Men's prostate? It's something I've heard, but not experienced. We tried it once and it was very uncomfortable for me. Mrs Spoomonkey was worried that she had done something wrong and wanted to try again, but I just wasn't interested. She has never done anything wrong - so I doubt this one is her fault either. Some things you like, some things you don't. Spoomonkey
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12-08-2005, 07:48 PM	#4 (permalink)
Thrax Stimulus pkg. available Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thrax	Re: Men's prostate? Uuuuhhhh...uuuhhhhh...uuuuuhhhhhh...OOoooooooohhhh YEEEEAAAAHHH! Sorry, what was the question? It may have been all in my mind, or actually somewhere else, but when an ex-girlfriend introduced this to me, I was...happy. She administered this occasionally during BJs. A prostate "massage" sounds a little too involved. A prostate probe or tickle might be better. To be perfectly frank, my orgasms were much more intense and it seemed to trigger more cum. All she did was touch my prostate with her covered finger or something else and it was KATIE BAR THE DOOR (whatever that means). Actually she just lightly pressed something against the prostate. Didn't need to move it around or anything. My reaction was similar to, but a little more intense than, the expert use of anal beads. The "giver" can use (preferably, in at least my case) a gloved finger, but there are some toys out there that are designed for this purpose. I think Nina Hartley used to advertise one (Yikes...Nina...that's showing my age). The plastic item is curved to hit the right spot and there is a stopper (?), so it doesn't end up lodged in your butt, so you can avoid an embarrassing visit to the ER. If you don't use an officially-sanctioned anal-prober-thang I would suggest using a RETIRED toothbrush to experiment with. It's smooth plastic and long enough that it won't get lost up yer ass. Non-bristle end first recommended. At least that's my preference. To each his own. Then retire the toothbrush permanently, please. And of course, any time you shove something up a butt, do it slowly and gently for maximum pleasure and minimum damage. Questions?
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12-08-2005, 08:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: Men's prostate? Only the doctor has massaged my prostate, didn't get me excited in the least, and thats the way it is going to stay.
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12-09-2005, 03:18 AM	#6 (permalink)
GerdOEvert Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 235 Location: Walla Walla, WA	Re: Men's prostate? For the completeness of information. Bulls of the Dairy Cow Variety have prostates, too. And these are stimulated by an electrically charged prod, and they give forth great quantities of sperm which are then used in arftificial insemmination of the Cows to generate more Calves. I have often wondered why there is no similar device to stimulate the male. But I have had my prostate massaged by a partner, and it does feel good, and you do produce more cum when you orgasm. Otto

12-09-2005, 09:39 AM	#7 (permalink)
playmatesinpgh Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 136 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LvrofBBWs	Re: Men's prostate? Mrs. P sometimes does this to me while giving me one of her wonderful BJ's.... The orgasm/orgasms that ensue are the most intense I have EVERRRRRRRRR... had....
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12-09-2005, 11:11 AM	#8 (permalink)
FLnewlyweds Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 39 Location: SW FL Status: Newly married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:FLnewlyweds05	Re: Men's prostate? I guess you have to enjoy/be comfortable with nal play, which I'm not LOL. I was just curious if the "myth" was true... Thanks for the advice though!

02-27-2006, 05:04 AM	#10 (permalink)
biggballs Active Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 14 Location: tacoma, washington	Re: Men's prostate? yes, i have had it done, it does make you cum a lot more, and it is soooooo intense feeling too. i was hesitant at first, but it wasnt all that bad once i relaxed, and remembered how to TRUST my partner, id do it again, sure

07-12-2006, 03:05 PM	#11 (permalink)
looking4meru7 Active Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 13 Location: Tampa	Re: Men's prostate? I'm an anal virgin giving or receiving, but it sounds good to me. Maybe I can get someone to try it on me sometime.... :-0

07-14-2006, 11:04 AM	#12 (permalink)
Lumina Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 89 Location: vermont	Re: Men's prostate? I'd like to point out that the prostate can be massaged externally, for those who are skittish about anal play, by rubbing the perineum. It takes a little experimenting to find just the right way to go at it, but judging from the Mr.'s reactions, it is sooooo worth it.

07-14-2006, 01:27 PM	#14 (permalink)
ohcpl43952 Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 65 Location: Ohio Valley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ohcpl43952	Re: Men's prostate? HHHmmmm......... toothbrushes, electronically charged anal prods..... What a great forum!!!!!!!

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