Masturbation

[jon&roberta]

I was recently reminded of the first time I masturbated. I was 13 at the time and had never heard of anyone "jerking off". I started waking up with a "pee" hard-on about that time and I was curious as to why it started to get hard in the morning.

As time went on - I started getting hard-ons during the day after looking at naked woman in Playboy. When I was alone in my room -I would "play" with it to get it hard and after a while I found that jerking it back and forth - felt real good. One day I jerked too much and I "broke" it - white stuff started to come out of it - and an electric shock when thru my body.

I swore I would never do that again, but the next night I was jerking it again with the same result - and 50 years later I'm still doing it.

Soon some of my friends found out about it - and well boys will be boys and we would have circle jerks to see who could cum the furthest.

So - What was your age when the big O happened?
2 Did you learn of it from a friend or accidently discovered it like I did.
3 Did you ever masturbate in front of members of you own sex?
4 Did you ever masturbate a member of your own sex? - I did

[Carol_Danny]

Originally Posted by jon&roberta

So - What was your age when the big O happened?
2 Did you learn of it from a friend or accidently discovered it like I did.

I was 12 years old, and a friend told me about it, and I thought it was some sort of joke, but I went and tried anyway. The very first time I masturbated, it freaked me out! I thought I was going to pee all over the place, stopped, and ran to the bathroom. I didn't cum that first time. The next night, I tried again, but this time I couldn't stop it, and I came all over my bed! The feeling was amazing, but I really freaked our over the ejaculate. But it felt so good, that for those first couple of years, I was masturbating 4 and 5 times a day!

Originally Posted by jon&roberta

3 Did you ever masturbate in front of members of you own sex?

Yes, once we all learnt about it, we would get together and do the good old "circle jerks". It was common for a while to have sleepovers at someone's place, and all jerk off.

Originally Posted by jon&roberta

4 Did you ever masturbate a member of your own sex? - I did

Yes, as did we. The sleepover jerk off sessions quickly turned into masturbating each other. It only happened when there were just 2 of us there, and we never did that in a group.

The first time I ever got head was from at the same time someone else gave me a hand-job. I had only been masturbating for about a month, and went to a friends place for the night. We started talking about masturbation, and then he dug out some of his father's old school Porn Magazines. These were the old type from the '60s with no text at all, and just pictures. He had everything from normal hard-core, to same-sex, to bestiality! We were both excited looking at the pictures, and he asked if he could suck my dick. I said okay, and he went to work. I do remember that it felt great, and that I just came without telling him. He spit it out that first time, but then about an hour later, he wanted to try again. This time he swallowed! He got really into it, and gave me a blow-job almost daily for the next few months. The funny thing is, I never did return the favour But I did give head to another friend about a year later.

-- Danny

[jon&roberta]

LOL - Danny - If I didn't know better I would think we grew up together.

Yes - circle jerks were always done in groups - and like you - masturbating each other way always done when 2 of us were together. It seems like we all started having sleep overs at each others house - all of a sudden

And like you - one of my firends decided after looking at some French Cards that he wanted to give a blow job. One night he just got between my legs and proceded to blow me. He took it all and for the next year we got together 3 or 4 times a week. He never asked me to return the favor.

[Carol_Danny]

WOW! That is funny. Almost the exact some thing. I would bet you that many of the guys here have the exact same story, but just may be too embarrassed to admit it

I thought those first experiences were great, and never felt at all guilty about them. It's all part of the process of growing up and experiencing new things.

Did you ever have "Butt Check Sex"? That was something another friend introduced me too. You would stick your dick between the other guy's butt checks (no actual penetration), and then stroke until you came.

I even used to masturbate in front of a group of girls! My cousin, a girl who is 2 days older than me, caught me masturbating at her father's cottage when I didn't realize that the bathroom door didn't lock. This was just after my 13th birthday. She "made" me do it a few times in front of her and her friends. The second time, there was 5 of them, and they all staring touching my erect penis to see what it felt like.

There were some fun days back then, when we were all still learning.

[jon&roberta]

Originally Posted by Carol_Danny

WOW! That is funny. Almost the exact some thing. I would bet you that many of the guys here have the exact same story, but just may be too embarrassed to admit it

Yes - I think you are right - not many guys will admit to Bi play when they were growing up.

Originally Posted by Carol_Danny

Did you ever have "Butt Check Sex"? That was something another friend introduced me too. You would stick your dick between the other guy's butt checks (no actual penetration), and then stroke until you came.

LOL - didn't we all do this

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[Spoomonkey]

I must have grown up around a completely different group of folks. About the same time I discovered my erection, my erection discovered girls...

Spoomonkey

[MrXxotic]

I was either 12 or 13. A friend that was a year older told me about it and showed me how to do it. I felt weird but fascinated watching him jack-off and shoot on his stomach. It took me about a month to get up the nerve to do it myself but once I started I have done it almost daily ever since. There was an old saying on board ship..."Noone pleases me like I do."

Like Danny and Jon we progressed to touching each other and eventually oral. In fact he gave me my first blow job. Once we started we played almost everytime we were together often sleeping in the nude (my room was the in-law suite on the back side of the house) and playing all night. After we started playing with girls it slowed down a lot but didn't stop. About once a month or so we would hook-up and jack each other while telling about the things we did with out girlfriends. I was 15 when we finally stopped. We were both involved and mobile, since he was 16, so girls became our number 1 priority.
On a side note. Years later, when I was 22 or 23, I bumped into him while home on leave. We had coffee and chatted about old friends etc. He brought it up again and wanted to get together for a full blown gay expierence (we never did anal or finished orally) but I was so homophobic I turned him down. I have often wondered what it would have been like if I had taken him up on his offer.

[GerdOEvert]

My story.

I grew up in San Antonio Texas, and our neighbor was an advertising man. He had a son who was my friend. They had samples in special cabinent in the garage. A lot of the samples were nude calendar girls.

We both got hott looking at them.

And then we proceeded to blow each other an butt fuck.

It took me fifteen years to realize that was part of growing up, and that we were not gay.

To this day, I wonder if we would have been tempted without the calendars in the sample boxes.

12 - 14 year olds get hot at the sight of a woman, or even a woman's underwear. I remember we also got excited by the Sears and Roebuck Catalogue.

Neither of us ever had a climax, but not for lack of trying.

Later, there were seven or eight of us who were in a circle, and showed our equipment and had a "circle jerk". We were probably jerks in a circle.

Otto

[lindyswing]

This thread needs some girl stories, so I'm going to contribute! I knew all the facts of the birds and bees from my mom, TV, books and school...maybe because I'm younger than most of the guys who've already posted in this thread and so I grew up in more sexually liberated times? Anyways, I was 14 and I had already had sexual experiences with a guy before I decided to give the whole masturbating thing a try. I knew I was supposed to rub my clit, but didn't know exactly how. I think the first time I tried it, I didn't achieve anything. And then the second time, I had an orgasm, but it was like, "Was THAT it? THAT's what the big deal is about?" Let's just say that the first was not the strongest of orgasms, but I learned pretty soon what the big deal was.

I'd say that I've masturbated almost every day since...it's such a great way to get yourself to sleep. I read once that orgasm releases a bunch of dopamine, at the rate of 10 times more relaxation-inducing power than morphine. I've always thought that the explanation for the jokes about men wanting to roll over and go to sleep after sex vs. women who want to talk and cuddle is that those guys weren't getting their women off. I'm telling you: if your girl is all chatty after sex, but supposedly came, I'd seriously wonder if she faked it.

[jon&roberta]

Glad you joined lindyswing. I had hoped that some ladies would tell us about their experience.

[couplers]

After reading the thread about whether it is OK to give a 15 year-old daughter a vibrator, I was curious about this question and found this thread. These are my (Petra's) answers:

Preface: I found my pleasure zone when I very young and remember putting one of my pillows between my legs when I would go to bed. I started deliberating pleasuring myself a little when I was 9 or 10.

1. What was your age when the big O happened? 11. I really thought I had broken something and I would need to go to the doctor. After those first couple of years of very mild, mellow, non-climaxing pleasure, my first orgasm was a zinger. All those involuntary spasms and shooting pleasure was a complete shock.

2. Did you learn of it from a friend or accidently discovered it like I did. I figured it out all on my own. Then figured out some more. Like a previous poster, at first I thought I had taken it too far and better dial it back next time. But after figuring out that that what was supposed to happen, I eventually moved on from only external stimulation to fingering myself.

3. Did you ever masturbate in front of members of you own sex? Only as an adult within the last couple of years while watching hubby have sex with another woman.

4. Did you ever masturbate a member of your own sex? A little, not to orgasm, as part of playing with hubby in an FFM.

[Miss Sunshine]

I remember the first time was when I was about 12. I was taking a bath, I had a bar of soap and was rubbing it all over and went between my legs and WHOA, hmmmm, that was weird, so i did it again and mmmmmm, and again, the next thing I am rubbing between my legs without the soap, not knowing what was happening or what I was doing. Just wonderful feelings. I then asked my mom 2 days later if I could take another bath. This time I cleaned up quick , laid back, and searched my way around and found the right spot, This time I have my hand over my mound going down with my middle finger pressing harder, when I went into my vagina, at least the outside of it. I slid my finger in further and before I know it I was finger fucking. This became a regular habit in my bed. Then one night, I went to my girlfriends for a sleep over...............

[couplers]

Originally Posted by Miss Sunshine

I remember the first time was when I was about 12. I was taking a bath, I had a bar of soap and was rubbing it all over and went between my legs and WHOA, hmmmm, that was weird, so i did it again and mmmmmm, and again, the next thing I am rubbing between my legs without the soap, not knowing what was happening or what I was doing. Just wonderful feelings. I then asked my mom 2 days later if I could take another bath. This time I cleaned up quick , laid back, and searched my way around and found the right spot, This time I have my hand over my mound going down with my middle finger pressing harder, when I went into my vagina, at least the outside of it. I slid my finger in further and before I know it I was finger fucking. This became a regular habit in my bed. Then one night, I went to my girlfriends for a sleep over...............

And then. And then!!!

[SecretAsianMan]

I was about 11 or 12 when I found a porno from my parents stash of videos ... I watched in utter fascination (as most 12 year olds would do ... and I noticed one of the guys would stroke himself to orgasm during intercourse.

I'd never really thought about touching myself in that way before - so I tried it and it felt really good. I remember my first orgasm as *very* intense sensation ... almost painfully intense - but it felt good too. So I kept on doing it.

Didn't realize until a few days later that what I was doing was masturbating. (*laughing*)

[fun4Ds]

I was an early bloomer. I was the only one in the fifth grade returning to school from summer vacation with hair down there. And yes, everyone just had to see proof in the locker room.

So anyways, I go to gym class and we had a rope that went to the ceiling. I got about a third of the way up and just the motions of climbing the rope tripped my trigger. I freaked, coach had to talk me down.

They thought I was having a seizure

I loved that rope climb