How many women really like anal sex?

[Rascal]

How many women really like anal sex? or do they just do it to please their partners? I'm astounded when I read how popular anal sex seems to be in the Q&A portions. Do men really desire anal sex when there is a nice warm pussy available? or is it that time of the month that makes it popular? Me?.... I don't prefer anal sex at any time.... but I've heard that there are women that do? and do they actually derive pleasure out of it? do they climax? or do they just feel (in a masochistic way) like they have pleasured their mate?

[Miss_Piggy]

hmmm.... I feel like there must be a poll out there on this subject.

Okay... I did a search and I couldn't come up with anything.

Personally, I'm not at all interested in anal sex. But from what I gather, I'm a bit of a minority...

[EvilMJ]

Originally Posted by Miss_Piggy

Personally, I'm not at all interested in anal sex. But from what I gather, I'm a bit of a minority...

Oh no Piggy, you are not alone in that minority....Doesn't interest me all that much either

As i am fond of saying to the men that ask for it..."you first"

[bear_and_babe]

I have tried anal sex one time with a swing partner (Bear is just too big) I enjoyed it, but I would not go out of my way to try it again. However, Bear had a swing partner who loved anal. She loved the feeling of it. So I guess there are women out there who really enjoy it for themselves and not just to please their partners.

[Spoomonkey]

I am not all that interested, unless I'm drunk. If I'm drunk - I am soooo interested in anal sex. Not sure why...

Ironically, Mrs Spoomonkey is more interested than me, but when we have tried it, it has hurt her, so she is pretty nervous about doing it again. She is also more interested in it when she is drunk. Probably what is going to happen is we are both going to get drunk and wind up in the emergency room...



Spoomonkey

[intuition897]

Mrs. intuition here joining the no-anal club. We've tried it, too, but I'm not sure if it's just Mr. intuition's size (he's quite thick) that makes it so uncomfortable or if it's just that I don't care for it. Never tried with any other partners. I have a suspicion that it's just that I don't like it. Now, I have been able to enjoy it occasionally. But I had quite a lot of blood in my alcohol system (to quote a very drunk cousin of mine at a wedding reception).

[two4youinswva]

We can take it or leave it. It is occasionally incorporated into play, but isn't a priority.

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

As i am fond of saying to the men that ask for it..."you first"

You know Evil, eventually one of those men will respond with "Ok!".

[couple_ps]

Mrs. Couple loves it only if all the conditions are there. She does not want to try it with another partner though.

She sometimes have orgasm during anal sex. She says it's stronger than vaginal orgasm.

For those who want to try it: it requires time, lube and patience. Some degree of trust should be there so that the lady can better relax.

[lovedoctor]

Sometimes I want it that way. It can be really good, but it's like an accessory - I certainly wouldn't like a steady diet of it.

A couple of comments:

Condoms should always be worn, even with your spouse/regular partner. Otherwise bacteria in the bowel can enter the urethra and cause a UTI or prostatitis. Not fun for the guys!

It should never be forced if uncomfortable. Otherwise the sphincter might be torn, resulting in loss of bowel control. Not fun for the girls!

[Dynamar]

Originally Posted by couple_ps

For those who want to try it: it requires time, lube and patience. Some degree of trust should be there so that the lady can better relax.

Yes, yes, yes and yes.

I enjoy it very much with someone who has the "right equipment"... i.e. of average length and girth. There's definitely such a thing as "too big" when you're talking about anal. Have had a couple of my most intense, screaming (we're talking "Top 5" material here) orgasms with anal coupled with clitorial stimulation.

[NaughtyKitten]

Ok...gotta speak from the other side. I never thought I would like it or ever want to do it but recently that has changed. Not only do I like it....I can have multiple orgasms with anal, sometimes. That has never happened thru any other type of sex; vaginal, oral, manual stimulation.

So to answer your question directly....YES there are some of us women that like anal sex. Although, I must say, it does not happen every time and is more like an addition to our sex life. A very nice addition.

[northindycpl]

I like it in the right conditions. It isn't something I would like all the time. Knowing that my partner enjoys it, somehow make me enjoy it even more.

[HotMoCpl]

I'm glad to hear from the ladies on this subject. Anal sex, when done right, drives my wife absolutely nuts! These days though, she likes to start by giving me the finger or two....with lots of lube. No, I'm not gay or bisexual but I will let her do it to me. Anyway, I've had a few doctors tell me that its good for the prostate. Why? It helps clean it out. Don't believe me? Find a good urologist and ask.

[txduo2000]

I actually really enjoy anal. Here lately, I have come to enjoy it more and more and we are doing it more often.

But, like others have said, it's kind of like an "accessory" ... doesn't happen all the time, but when it does, I do have some outrageous orgasms, with or without additional clit/vaginal stimulation.

I used to have to be very drunk to indulge and I wanted it badly on those times. But being drunk relaxed me very much, and you have to be very relaxed to participate in anal. That sphincter muscle doesn't want to give all on it's own.

But more recently, I have gotten to where I can do it stone cold sober and just kind of work up to it in foreplay.

BTW, my husband is not gay or bisexual, but he likes anal play too ... from me. I don't think there's a sexuality issue associated with it, hotmocpl, so enjoy it if you like it!

[starlinn]

I like anal, but it has to be apart of some night long play. It does take some patience on the "analer's" part. If you have never tried anal, and are curious about it, there are some sex toys that you could start off with. A slim, short butt plug is a nice starting toy. I have seen bigger toys, but they are definatly not for me. Would I participate anal with another partner, I dont know. They would really have to be the right size, and have some experience. BTW...anal with clit stimulation is an AWESOME orgasam!!