Deep Throat

4ormoresomes · 01-24-2002, 07:46 PM

Hi. We are a married couple new to this site and really enjoy it. We would like to pose a question for feedback. Do most of our fellow swinging couple friends out there believe that deep throating is simply a pleasure for the males? While there is no denying that Eric, the husband of our couple LOVES this, so does Michelle, the wife. When with other couples, the other females either like and try to outdo to other female with the largest male cock in the group, or seemed totally uninterested and even angry that Michelle gives it her all to swallow all she can (so far, up to 9"). We have been with a couple select single guys, who all enjoy it, naturally, and Eric gets off seeing Michelle taking them on, the bigger the better, as long as she is OK with it. The only downside was one overagressive, very large (10-11") guy who pushed it to the point of gagging her until she nearly puked. Needless to say, we ended that immediately. We appreciate your thoughts.

Atlanta43 · 01-27-2002, 05:32 AM

I don't think we've ever had that problem :-). I guess its because neither one of us are particular jealous types...anyway...

I suppose it could be construed that you're trying to "one up" the other lady. I suppose many people believe that that ability to "deep throat" is somehow related to the quality of the blowjob. I can't say I by in to it 100%, but its there.

Maybe you deemphasize it a bit; sort of "ease" in to it. Or maybe you could just not make a deal of it during sex...Either way, I wouldn't give it up. What can I say, you CAN find couples/singles that aren't threatened by you!!!

Good luck...!!

A and L

4ormoresomes · 01-27-2002, 12:23 PM

Thanks Atlanta. We were just wondering how most ladies, and their guys, feel. Michelle admits to wanting to show off a bit, but really does enjoy deep throat. Other ladies do, don't and say it's a male thing, or don't but almost seem turned on by watching. One lady swore she never had, but got so hot that she ended up deep throating each of the three guys present in the three couples we had that night, and then ended by throating an entire 10" toy on the room...we think she was a ringer, but her husband seemed as surprised, and turned on, by me and the other guy there.

We were curious as to how much this is practiced by other swingers on this site, and what they feel about it. Does it enhance or diminish their experience, or don't they care either way.

Atlanta43 · 01-27-2002, 10:38 PM

Don't get me wrong, I'm all for showing off!!! ;-)...and it sounds like Michelle can!!

I do agree that its an individual thing though...but hey, in the end, as long as we all have fun...!!!

Good luck!!!

A and L

Chris · 01-30-2002, 04:55 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 4ormoresomes:
[QB]Do most of our fellow swinging couple friends out there believe that deep throating is simply a pleasure for the males?

I have no idea. I've never been deepthroated. I always wanted to see what it felt like. I don't think it would necessarily feel better, but it would definitely make for some good visual eroticism

Atlanta43 · 01-30-2002, 06:46 PM

Oh yeah, I finally asked about deep throating and how SHE felt about it...umm, well it seems that; a) I HAVE been deep throated quite a bit; b) she loves it 'cause I love it...

Guess I wasn't paying much attention during the blowjob huh??? ;-)....

A and L

zztx1 · 08-17-2002, 11:37 PM

I am a little long and thick and I have only had one woman who can deep throat me. She told me that she practiced a long time to get rid of the gag reflex. This definitely was one of the best experiences but given that it is rare, we learn to live with the pleasure our loved ones can provide.

Quin · 08-18-2002, 12:41 AM

quote:
Originally posted by zztx1:
I am a little long and thick and I have only had one woman who can deep throat me. She told me that she practiced a long time to get rid of the gag reflex. This definitely was one of the best experiences but given that it is rare, we learn to live with the pleasure our loved ones can provide.

A woman doesn't get rid of the gag reflex...that reflex is always there, what the woman learns to do is gain control of that reflex. It took me a long time to be able to control my gag reflex so that I could deep throat.

To a lot of men, deep throating isn't all that from the physical aspect due to the fact that the head of the penis has more nerve endings and is much more sensitive than the shaft is and when the woman swallows to take the cock down into her throat past the gag reflex area there's some pressure applied to the head of the cock that isn't always enjoyable for the man. Visually tho, it can be very much a turn on for males. Depends a lot on the individual and the sensitivity of their penis.

I don't deep throat everyone...I tend to reserve that for men that I know...men that I know won't feel discomfort by it. To me, my feelings on deep throating are much like they are on anal sex...it's something I tend to keep *special* for select friends that enjoy it. And I have never felt the need to one up any woman in the sexual area...as long as the person I'm with is pleased with my performance and is content, that's all I care about. I left the trying to outdo back in high school where it belongs.

Quin
[Smiley_sex]

Brian and Jo · 08-18-2002, 09:19 PM

Quin, you are quite right. I do not like a woman to deep throat me for the reason you gave about there being more nerve endings in the head of a man's penis.. For me the best enjoyment I get from oral sex is when the woman holds the base of my penis in her hand while she sucks on my glans and/or runs her tongue up and down the length of my shaft. The pleasure I derive from this is exquisite and when she brings me to an orgasm I simply tingle all over. Deep throating on the other hand I find to be uncomfortable and I discourage it if I can.

ddrewd · 08-21-2002, 12:39 AM

DT is definitely more mental than physical. Unless a woman can massage the head with her throat muscles (which I've never heard of happening in real life), a guy isn't going to get much physical pleasure from it.

However, if the man and woman are into the D/s aspect of the act, it can be a mental turn-on for both.

I love the idea of being DT'ed, but have only had it done to me once and it wasn't satisfactory because the woman's overall oral technique and enthusiasm was lacking.

-Drew

Quin · 08-21-2002, 12:58 AM

quote:
I love the idea of being DT'ed, but have only had it done to me once and it wasn't satisfactory because the woman's overall oral technique and enthusiasm was lacking.

-Drew

Stupid, stupid woman, IMHO! [kiss]

Quin

oc714rookies · 08-21-2002, 01:38 AM

my wife was the 1st to dt me, she digs it as much as i do, probably more. she likes to use a toy on herself and have me fuck her face, i want to fuck her, she wants me to keep fuckin her face until i come dow her throat, what a diemma!

Lorrelei · 10-09-2002, 02:14 AM

I like deep throating. Even though I certainly like the way semen taste, I love the feel of "swallowing" a man's cock and having his cum quickly go down my throat. Certainly no mess.

Brit_Pair · 10-03-2003, 10:04 AM

*** Reposting ***

Here's another subject that doesn't appear to have been raised (if you'll excuse the pun) for some time.

Any strong advocates / opponents of deep throating out there? Any one with the desire to try it? Any one fantasising about it? Any people who don’t see what the fuss is about?

Share your thoughts and experiences.

ready2pla · 10-03-2003, 10:36 AM

Wel I guess I am just special cause when I feel the head of my dick slide all the way down my wifes throat I can feel her throat gripping the head. Lets try a little experiment grab your dick get it hard you figure out how to do that. lube up the old hand slide your dick in but don't grip it tight. Not bad Huh!! Now put some gripp around the head of that dick if that don't make your eyes roll back in your head with the comment OH God you have nerve problems. That's how it feels in my wifes throat anyway. Just my opinion. You are rite she does not do it all the time but the single male that we have over is just as big of fan as I am and he is at least 8 inches And when I hear the comment OH God I know what she is doing.

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01-24-2002, 07:46 PM	#1 (permalink)
4ormoresomes Active Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 22	Deep Throat Hi. We are a married couple new to this site and really enjoy it. We would like to pose a question for feedback. Do most of our fellow swinging couple friends out there believe that deep throating is simply a pleasure for the males? While there is no denying that Eric, the husband of our couple LOVES this, so does Michelle, the wife. When with other couples, the other females either like and try to outdo to other female with the largest male cock in the group, or seemed totally uninterested and even angry that Michelle gives it her all to swallow all she can (so far, up to 9"). We have been with a couple select single guys, who all enjoy it, naturally, and Eric gets off seeing Michelle taking them on, the bigger the better, as long as she is OK with it. The only downside was one overagressive, very large (10-11") guy who pushed it to the point of gagging her until she nearly puked. Needless to say, we ended that immediately. We appreciate your thoughts.

08-18-2002, 12:41 AM	#8 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	quote: Originally posted by zztx1: I am a little long and thick and I have only had one woman who can deep throat me. She told me that she practiced a long time to get rid of the gag reflex. This definitely was one of the best experiences but given that it is rare, we learn to live with the pleasure our loved ones can provide. A woman doesn't get rid of the gag reflex...that reflex is always there, what the woman learns to do is gain control of that reflex. It took me a long time to be able to control my gag reflex so that I could deep throat. To a lot of men, deep throating isn't all that from the physical aspect due to the fact that the head of the penis has more nerve endings and is much more sensitive than the shaft is and when the woman swallows to take the cock down into her throat past the gag reflex area there's some pressure applied to the head of the cock that isn't always enjoyable for the man. Visually tho, it can be very much a turn on for males. Depends a lot on the individual and the sensitivity of their penis. I don't deep throat everyone...I tend to reserve that for men that I know...men that I know won't feel discomfort by it. To me, my feelings on deep throating are much like they are on anal sex...it's something I tend to keep special for select friends that enjoy it. And I have never felt the need to one up any woman in the sexual area...as long as the person I'm with is pleased with my performance and is content, that's all I care about. I left the trying to outdo back in high school where it belongs. Quin __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

08-21-2002, 12:39 AM	#10 (permalink)
ddrewd Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 123 Location: On the road in Oklahoma Status: Single Male	DT is definitely more mental than physical. Unless a woman can massage the head with her throat muscles (which I've never heard of happening in real life), a guy isn't going to get much physical pleasure from it. However, if the man and woman are into the D/s aspect of the act, it can be a mental turn-on for both. I love the idea of being DT'ed, but have only had it done to me once and it wasn't satisfactory because the woman's overall oral technique and enthusiasm was lacking. -Drew __________________ Drew Coming to a theatre near you!

08-21-2002, 12:58 AM	#11 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	quote: I love the idea of being DT'ed, but have only had it done to me once and it wasn't satisfactory because the woman's overall oral technique and enthusiasm was lacking. -Drew Stupid, stupid woman, IMHO! Quin __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

01-27-2002, 05:32 AM	#2 (permalink)
Atlanta43 Active Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 37 Location: Atlanta, GA	I don't think we've ever had that problem :-). I guess its because neither one of us are particular jealous types...anyway... I suppose it could be construed that you're trying to "one up" the other lady. I suppose many people believe that that ability to "deep throat" is somehow related to the quality of the blowjob. I can't say I by in to it 100%, but its there. Maybe you deemphasize it a bit; sort of "ease" in to it. Or maybe you could just not make a deal of it during sex...Either way, I wouldn't give it up. What can I say, you CAN find couples/singles that aren't threatened by you!!! Good luck...!! A and L

01-27-2002, 12:23 PM	#3 (permalink)
4ormoresomes Active Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 22	Thanks Atlanta. We were just wondering how most ladies, and their guys, feel. Michelle admits to wanting to show off a bit, but really does enjoy deep throat. Other ladies do, don't and say it's a male thing, or don't but almost seem turned on by watching. One lady swore she never had, but got so hot that she ended up deep throating each of the three guys present in the three couples we had that night, and then ended by throating an entire 10" toy on the room...we think she was a ringer, but her husband seemed as surprised, and turned on, by me and the other guy there. We were curious as to how much this is practiced by other swingers on this site, and what they feel about it. Does it enhance or diminish their experience, or don't they care either way.

01-27-2002, 10:38 PM	#4 (permalink)
Atlanta43 Active Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 37 Location: Atlanta, GA	Don't get me wrong, I'm all for showing off!!! ;-)...and it sounds like Michelle can!! I do agree that its an individual thing though...but hey, in the end, as long as we all have fun...!!! Good luck!!! A and L

01-30-2002, 06:46 PM	#6 (permalink)
Atlanta43 Active Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 37 Location: Atlanta, GA	Oh yeah, I finally asked about deep throating and how SHE felt about it...umm, well it seems that; a) I HAVE been deep throated quite a bit; b) she loves it 'cause I love it... Guess I wasn't paying much attention during the blowjob huh??? ;-).... A and L

08-17-2002, 11:37 PM	#7 (permalink)
zztx1 Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 15	I am a little long and thick and I have only had one woman who can deep throat me. She told me that she practiced a long time to get rid of the gag reflex. This definitely was one of the best experiences but given that it is rare, we learn to live with the pleasure our loved ones can provide.

08-18-2002, 09:19 PM	#9 (permalink)
Brian and Jo Brian and Jo Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 238 Location: Ontario Status: Couple Blog Entries: 3	Quin, you are quite right. I do not like a woman to deep throat me for the reason you gave about there being more nerve endings in the head of a man's penis.. For me the best enjoyment I get from oral sex is when the woman holds the base of my penis in her hand while she sucks on my glans and/or runs her tongue up and down the length of my shaft. The pleasure I derive from this is exquisite and when she brings me to an orgasm I simply tingle all over. Deep throating on the other hand I find to be uncomfortable and I discourage it if I can.

08-21-2002, 01:38 AM	#12 (permalink)
oc714rookies Registered User Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 1 Location: orange, calif	my wife was the 1st to dt me, she digs it as much as i do, probably more. she likes to use a toy on herself and have me fuck her face, i want to fuck her, she wants me to keep fuckin her face until i come dow her throat, what a diemma! __________________ new, hot, untouched, ready. right f/cpl, good imaginaion,will have long term sexy fun

10-09-2002, 02:14 AM	#13 (permalink)
Lorrelei Active Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 54 Location: MI	I like deep throating. Even though I certainly like the way semen taste, I love the feel of "swallowing" a man's cock and having his cum quickly go down my throat. Certainly no mess. __________________ Lorrelei

10-03-2003, 10:04 AM	#14 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Active Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	Re-emergence of an older thread. * Reposting * Here's another subject that doesn't appear to have been raised (if you'll excuse the pun) for some time. Any strong advocates / opponents of deep throating out there? Any one with the desire to try it? Any one fantasising about it? Any people who don’t see what the fuss is about? Share your thoughts and experiences. __________________ *It's not going to be an orgy. It's a toga party . . .*

10-03-2003, 10:36 AM	#15 (permalink)
ready2pla Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 80 Location: kansas	Wel I guess I am just special cause when I feel the head of my dick slide all the way down my wifes throat I can feel her throat gripping the head. Lets try a little experiment grab your dick get it hard you figure out how to do that. lube up the old hand slide your dick in but don't grip it tight. Not bad Huh!! Now put some gripp around the head of that dick if that don't make your eyes roll back in your head with the comment OH God you have nerve problems. That's how it feels in my wifes throat anyway. Just my opinion. You are rite she does not do it all the time but the single male that we have over is just as big of fan as I am and he is at least 8 inches And when I hear the comment OH God I know what she is doing.

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