Anal Sex

MattLisa · 01-16-2002, 03:16 AM

I just wanted to touch on the unsafe aspects of anal sex. It is more risky than normal intercourse but I have found a wonderful website that sells condoms and has several brands that are tougher or a little thicker designed for anal sex. I do enjoy anal quite a bit (when I'm really into it, its uncomfortable for the first minute or two) and from my experience and from reading I *think* condom troubles happen in the backdoor because of breakage from the tight entrance and not really from it slipping off (but I could see that happening if the little end "ring" of the condom entered the anus, but I think it would be easy enough to watch that one, maybe the male holding it back with his fingers?).

I too love the vunerable sensations and can understand not wanting to stop so I thought I'd let people know some possible safer options... the site is WWW.CONDOMS.NET and has very reasonable prices.

On the subject of anal sex I agree you don't have to just use penises. I love and very frequently play with a slim vibrator in the backdoor, but we don't as frequently have penile entry there. What *really* works for me is to ride woman superior position while doing it anal. It allows me to enter at my own pace and feel in control which makes me not tense up as much...

Sonja · 03-29-2002, 11:38 AM

Hello ladies, I myself cann't get enough of it> I usually let my husband fingere me first then we applie the Astroglide, super stuff and then each morning before work we go to town, the Organsams are un-real.. This isn't any worse then sucking a cock. He has more control and seems tohitthe Spot just right. Hmmmm

ILcouple · 04-04-2002, 11:51 PM

Sure makes D/P a lot easier...

Quin · 06-15-2002, 02:29 PM

quote:
Originally posted by geminiguy:
Anal sex can be one of the greatest experiences for both partners, but requires trust, patience, foreplay, and LOTS of lubrication. I prefer Astroglide or vaseline. If done correctly, the penis directly rubs the g spot...combine that with direct stimulation of the clitoris, and you will have one happy partner!

Happy is a bit of an understatement here. Do that and I'm screaming in ecstacy while crawling up the walls by my fingernails.

It is absolutely the BEST orgasm I have ever had and I much prefer anal with clit stimulation over vaginal penetration any freakin day. [Eek!]

Tho I don't indulge in it very much...I generally like to reserve that for a very good friend (since there is no hubby in my situation).

Anal isn't for everyone just as oral sex isn't for everyone...but this *slut* loves it!

Quin

MagicEnigma · 06-18-2002, 11:20 PM

I'm on a posting binge, forgive me.

I've come full circle with it. When I first became sexually active, I tried it with my second partner, and we had more trouble making the parts fit, than it was worth. It also hurt. I got to enjoy it with a lover I had until recently during the last year and a half. I thought it hurt some when he first tried it, but I noticed things seemed to ease up after a minute, so I agreed to try it again. It still hurt some, even now really, but I know whats coming, I'm more relaxed, and things ease up faster. Its something I've liked most standing (in the shower a lot) or just on my knees.

CyberMWC · 07-05-2002, 09:31 PM

quote:
Originally posted by CyberMWCouple:
Who thinks Anal sex is sick and disgusting?
Who thinks it's the best thing since sliced bread?
Those who like it, which lubricant do you like? Or do you even use any? Do you consider it a fetish? Or just a normal part of sex?

Husband of CyberMWCouple

Wow! I guess this would be an "update" to this topic....Cool. [Fun]

I enjoy anal sex with Hubby (preferably with lube), and we've been exploring our "DP" fantasies for some time, but haven't found the right "moment"....yet.

Meantime, we enjoy "preparing" for the experience, and with the aide of "toys" also, can be just as EROTIC, and the orgasms are UNreal, and MASSive too! Doggie style has been great, and we want to try it with me on top also (as suggested here), being in control of the "situation", sounds just as erotically delicious too....MMmmm... :p

The lifestyle has helped us to expand our sexual desires, creating more fantasies, and help us make them cum true, again and again and again...

CyberWife

[ 07-05-2002, 09:54 PM: Message edited by: CyberMWC ]

ddrewd · 07-05-2002, 11:47 PM

I'm glad this thread isn't dead and buried. Anal sex is one of my most favoritist things in the whole wide world!

It's something very special because relatively few women have indulged in it. You guys (& gals) ever have sex with a virgin? Believe it or not, I never have. But if you single out anal sex as a separate and distinct act, there are a hell of a lot more "virgins" out there than you think. Thus a woman's first anal can be a special occasion, and you can even play it up (build up the evening with candlelight, champagne, etc--and loooong, sloooow foreplay).

I was fortunate enough to introduce two women to anal sex (is there an appropriate term for the anal version of 'cherry'?) and I'm happy to say they both enjoyed it. One woman, though, still had hangups from her upbringing and was always reluctant. The other woman offered her 'virginity' to me as a gift, because she knew I loved anal so much. That's a gift I still treasure, and she's a dear friend to this very day.

And for you D/s freaks, there aren't many sex acts that allow a man (or a woman with a strap on) to exercise domination as much as tied-face-down-and-spread-eagled anal sex.

Drew
The Dom Perignon of Doms

swingsa · 07-06-2002, 05:41 AM

quote:
Originally posted by LIZA:

I have a question, how many MEN here enjoy it, either with finger or toy?
I bet it is more than will admit as the male back-door is hardwired for a lot more sexual pleasure than the female. SO.....any guys admit to enjoying a little back door loving? Completely heterosexual OF COURSE

My girlfriend gave me my first anal oriented orgasm last night by fingering my ass while sucking my dick at the same time - it literally blew me away (excuse the pun

) We have been talking about anal for a while - I know that DP is a fantasy for her - and it is really awesome that we can both benefit from this side of play. We are going shopping later today for some toys that I can use - I can't wait

The one thing that I really enjoyed about last night was the feeling of being penetrated by a woman .... don't quite know how to explain it, but it just seems to be that much more intimate an experience for a guy to have .... Are there any guys out there that have experienced penetration by a woman with a strap-on ?

C@YWMI · 09-05-2002, 08:50 PM

There was a lot of questions on how risky this practice is for women, different types of infections etc. But what about men are there similiar chances of urinary infections for us if unprotected?

Jewels · 09-09-2002, 04:17 AM

I know this thread is quite old, but I didn't notice anyone talk about lubrication products. I could have over looked it, but throught I'd throw my 2 cents worth in anyway.

I use "Analeze". It numbs the area...however, it also numbs the penis too.

I personally have to be REALLY in the mood for anal penetration....but if we do decide to go there, we ain't goin' without the Analeze!!!!!

BradAndJanet · 09-09-2002, 09:03 PM

quote:
Originally posted by C@YWMI:
There was a lot of questions on how risky this practice is for women, different types of infections etc. But what about men are there similiar chances of urinary infections for us if unprotected?

I've never had a problem. I mean it's not like we do it every night or anything (wheee! [fun]

), but it is a regular part of our sex life.

-B

masshypnosisi · 09-10-2002, 07:03 PM

pelaga , you could set me free, i YEARN to try anal sex, with a total stranger would be therapeutic Pkendrxx@aol.com

Sweetdevil · 09-16-2002, 10:39 PM

quote:

Happy is a bit of an understatement here. Do that and I'm screaming in ecstacy while crawling up the walls by my finernails.

Quin, I'm pulling you back from the wall and to me. [fun]

Both my wife and I love anal sex. As with many others, she does anal from time to time. I love to prepare her, enter her, rub her clit and sometimes spank her ass. She will orgasm hard, drop to the bed and I have to finish "taking" her. [Wink]

Quin · 09-16-2002, 11:45 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Jewels:
I know this thread is quite old, but I didn't notice anyone talk about lubrication products. I could have over looked it, but throught I'd throw my 2 cents worth in anyway.

I use "Analeze". It numbs the area...however, it also numbs the penis too.

I personally have to be REALLY in the mood for anal penetration....but if we do decide to go there, we ain't goin' without the Analeze!!!!!

The last thing I want to do is be numb when having anal...for myself, it feels ssssssoooo freakin good, why would I want that area numb!!

As far as lubrication that doesn't numb, I'm very lucky in that I get SUPER wet and generally my own juices is enough lubrication. On the one or two times that additional lubrication was need it was good ole dependable KY.

Quin
[Smiley_sex]

Quin · 09-16-2002, 11:52 PM

quote:
Quin, I'm pulling you back from the wall and to me.

Both my wife and I love anal sex. As with many others, she does anal from time to time. I love to prepare her, enter her, rub her clit and sometimes spank her ass. She will orgasm hard, drop to the bed and I have to finish "taking" her.

Hey, Sweetdevil! Been a while since I've seen a post from you!! You really should cum around more often.

I have to admit, when doing anal, I like it a bit rough. [Eek!]

When on all fours, it's extremely a turn on when the guy reaches and grabs my hair and pulls my head back. A little dirty talk even pushes me further, but you smack my behind and talk dirty...well, I'll be begging for more!!

Quin
[Smiley_sex]

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01-16-2002, 03:16 AM	#16 (permalink)
MattLisa Active Member Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 33 Location: Concord, California	I just wanted to touch on the unsafe aspects of anal sex. It is more risky than normal intercourse but I have found a wonderful website that sells condoms and has several brands that are tougher or a little thicker designed for anal sex. I do enjoy anal quite a bit (when I'm really into it, its uncomfortable for the first minute or two) and from my experience and from reading I think condom troubles happen in the backdoor because of breakage from the tight entrance and not really from it slipping off (but I could see that happening if the little end "ring" of the condom entered the anus, but I think it would be easy enough to watch that one, maybe the male holding it back with his fingers?). I too love the vunerable sensations and can understand not wanting to stop so I thought I'd let people know some possible safer options... the site is WWW.CONDOMS.NET and has very reasonable prices. On the subject of anal sex I agree you don't have to just use penises. I love and very frequently play with a slim vibrator in the backdoor, but we don't as frequently have penile entry there. What really works for me is to ride woman superior position while doing it anal. It allows me to enter at my own pace and feel in control which makes me not tense up as much... __________________ She will lay with you in the rose-beds Who cares about the thorns? Will the flowers be jealous Of the attention she receives?"

04-04-2002, 11:51 PM	#18 (permalink)
ILcouple Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 97 Location: Illinois Status: couple	Sure makes D/P a lot easier... __________________ "Sex is like a game of cards...... if you don’t have a partner you better have a good hand cause you aint playing in my playground =)"

06-15-2002, 02:29 PM	#19 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	quote: Originally posted by geminiguy: Anal sex can be one of the greatest experiences for both partners, but requires trust, patience, foreplay, and LOTS of lubrication. I prefer Astroglide or vaseline. If done correctly, the penis directly rubs the g spot...combine that with direct stimulation of the clitoris, and you will have one happy partner! Happy is a bit of an understatement here. Do that and I'm screaming in ecstacy while crawling up the walls by my fingernails. It is absolutely the BEST orgasm I have ever had and I much prefer anal with clit stimulation over vaginal penetration any freakin day. Tho I don't indulge in it very much...I generally like to reserve that for a very good friend (since there is no hubby in my situation). Anal isn't for everyone just as oral sex isn't for everyone...but this slut loves it! Quin __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

07-05-2002, 09:31 PM	#21 (permalink)
CyberMWC Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2000 Posts: 70 Location: MI,USA	quote: Originally posted by CyberMWCouple: Who thinks Anal sex is sick and disgusting? Who thinks it's the best thing since sliced bread? Those who like it, which lubricant do you like? Or do you even use any? Do you consider it a fetish? Or just a normal part of sex? Husband of CyberMWCouple Wow! I guess this would be an "update" to this topic....Cool. I enjoy anal sex with Hubby (preferably with lube), and we've been exploring our "DP" fantasies for some time, but haven't found the right "moment"....yet. Meantime, we enjoy "preparing" for the experience, and with the aide of "toys" also, can be just as EROTIC, and the orgasms are UNreal, and MASSive too! Doggie style has been great, and we want to try it with me on top also (as suggested here), being in control of the "situation", sounds just as erotically delicious too....MMmmm... :p The lifestyle has helped us to expand our sexual desires, creating more fantasies, and help us make them cum true, again and again and again... CyberWife [ 07-05-2002, 09:54 PM: Message edited by: CyberMWC ]

03-29-2002, 11:38 AM	#17 (permalink)
Sonja Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 1 Location: ma	Hello ladies, I myself cann't get enough of it> I usually let my husband fingere me first then we applie the Astroglide, super stuff and then each morning before work we go to town, the Organsams are un-real.. This isn't any worse then sucking a cock. He has more control and seems tohitthe Spot just right. Hmmmm

06-18-2002, 11:20 PM	#20 (permalink)
MagicEnigma Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 149 Location: Great Lakes	I'm on a posting binge, forgive me. I've come full circle with it. When I first became sexually active, I tried it with my second partner, and we had more trouble making the parts fit, than it was worth. It also hurt. I got to enjoy it with a lover I had until recently during the last year and a half. I thought it hurt some when he first tried it, but I noticed things seemed to ease up after a minute, so I agreed to try it again. It still hurt some, even now really, but I know whats coming, I'm more relaxed, and things ease up faster. Its something I've liked most standing (in the shower a lot) or just on my knees.

07-05-2002, 11:47 PM	#22 (permalink)
ddrewd Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 123 Location: On the road in Oklahoma Status: Single Male	I'm glad this thread isn't dead and buried. Anal sex is one of my most favoritist things in the whole wide world! It's something very special because relatively few women have indulged in it. You guys (& gals) ever have sex with a virgin? Believe it or not, I never have. But if you single out anal sex as a separate and distinct act, there are a hell of a lot more "virgins" out there than you think. Thus a woman's first anal can be a special occasion, and you can even play it up (build up the evening with candlelight, champagne, etc--and loooong, sloooow foreplay). I was fortunate enough to introduce two women to anal sex (is there an appropriate term for the anal version of 'cherry'?) and I'm happy to say they both enjoyed it. One woman, though, still had hangups from her upbringing and was always reluctant. The other woman offered her 'virginity' to me as a gift, because she knew I loved anal so much. That's a gift I still treasure, and she's a dear friend to this very day. And for you D/s freaks, there aren't many sex acts that allow a man (or a woman with a strap on) to exercise domination as much as tied-face-down-and-spread-eagled anal sex. Drew The Dom Perignon of Doms __________________ Drew Coming to a theatre near you!

07-06-2002, 05:41 AM	#23 (permalink)
swingsa Active Member Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 14 Location: South Africa	quote: Originally posted by LIZA: I have a question, how many MEN here enjoy it, either with finger or toy? I bet it is more than will admit as the male back-door is hardwired for a lot more sexual pleasure than the female. SO.....any guys admit to enjoying a little back door loving? Completely heterosexual OF COURSE My girlfriend gave me my first anal oriented orgasm last night by fingering my ass while sucking my dick at the same time - it literally blew me away (excuse the pun ) We have been talking about anal for a while - I know that DP is a fantasy for her - and it is really awesome that we can both benefit from this side of play. We are going shopping later today for some toys that I can use - I can't wait The one thing that I really enjoyed about last night was the feeling of being penetrated by a woman .... don't quite know how to explain it, but it just seems to be that much more intimate an experience for a guy to have .... Are there any guys out there that have experienced penetration by a woman with a strap-on ? __________________ keep the faith ;)

09-05-2002, 08:50 PM	#24 (permalink)
C@YWMI Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 224 Location: West Michigan Status: couple	There was a lot of questions on how risky this practice is for women, different types of infections etc. But what about men are there similiar chances of urinary infections for us if unprotected? __________________ Nothing fails like success. Gerald Nachman

09-09-2002, 04:17 AM	#25 (permalink)
Jewels Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 1 Location: South Texas	I know this thread is quite old, but I didn't notice anyone talk about lubrication products. I could have over looked it, but throught I'd throw my 2 cents worth in anyway. I use "Analeze". It numbs the area...however, it also numbs the penis too. I personally have to be REALLY in the mood for anal penetration....but if we do decide to go there, we ain't goin' without the Analeze!!!!!

09-09-2002, 09:03 PM	#26 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	quote: Originally posted by C@YWMI: There was a lot of questions on how risky this practice is for women, different types of infections etc. But what about men are there similiar chances of urinary infections for us if unprotected? I've never had a problem. I mean it's not like we do it every night or anything (wheee! ), but it is a regular part of our sex life. -B __________________ "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain All about us...

09-10-2002, 07:03 PM	#27 (permalink)
masshypnosisi Registered User Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 1 Location: waukegan il	pelaga , you could set me free, i YEARN to try anal sex, with a total stranger would be therapeutic Pkendrxx@aol.com

09-16-2002, 10:39 PM	#28 (permalink)
Sweetdevil Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 132 Location: Clinton Twp., MI Status: Couple	quote: Happy is a bit of an understatement here. Do that and I'm screaming in ecstacy while crawling up the walls by my finernails. Quin, I'm pulling you back from the wall and to me. Both my wife and I love anal sex. As with many others, she does anal from time to time. I love to prepare her, enter her, rub her clit and sometimes spank her ass. She will orgasm hard, drop to the bed and I have to finish "taking" her.

09-16-2002, 11:45 PM	#29 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	quote: Originally posted by Jewels: I know this thread is quite old, but I didn't notice anyone talk about lubrication products. I could have over looked it, but throught I'd throw my 2 cents worth in anyway. I use "Analeze". It numbs the area...however, it also numbs the penis too. I personally have to be REALLY in the mood for anal penetration....but if we do decide to go there, we ain't goin' without the Analeze!!!!! The last thing I want to do is be numb when having anal...for myself, it feels ssssssoooo freakin good, why would I want that area numb!! As far as lubrication that doesn't numb, I'm very lucky in that I get SUPER wet and generally my own juices is enough lubrication. On the one or two times that additional lubrication was need it was good ole dependable KY. Quin __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

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09-16-2002, 11:52 PM	#30 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	quote: Quin, I'm pulling you back from the wall and to me. Both my wife and I love anal sex. As with many others, she does anal from time to time. I love to prepare her, enter her, rub her clit and sometimes spank her ass. She will orgasm hard, drop to the bed and I have to finish "taking" her. Hey, Sweetdevil! Been a while since I've seen a post from you!! You really should cum around more often. I have to admit, when doing anal, I like it a bit rough. When on all fours, it's extremely a turn on when the guy reaches and grabs my hair and pulls my head back. A little dirty talk even pushes me further, but you smack my behind and talk dirty...well, I'll be begging for more!! Quin __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

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