Deep throat

Can any ladies give some adive about deep throating? Thanks!

[JustAskJulie]

You can buy various gels that are intended to numb your throat and keep the "gag reflex" from kicking in. Personally I can only deep throat when I'm fairly passed buzzed.. enough alchohol and you don't feel so much.

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

[Alura]

We've been watching this post for a long time now and hubby has finally convinced me to put in my two cents. Julie is the only lady who took a shot at it so I guess I can too.

Deep throating frankly is not my favorite sex act but I have learned to do it pretty easily and usually throw in a few minutes of it just to show off.

First I had to learn to control my gag reflex and practiced that with a dildo that has balls for a long time before I had the nerve to try a real cock. The balls are important! You don't want to go to the emergency room shouting, "Ohmygod,Doc! I swallowed my vibrator!"

Once I got to where it was pretty easy to shove it balls-deep into my mouth I found I had to tilt my head way back to make my esophagus straight. I've found that its easier to get an entire cock down my throat if I get in a 69 position so I can do that. I don't let the guy eat my pussy though. I put both of my knees on one side of his head cause I don't like to be distracted just like I don't like to be distracted when my pussy is being eaten, well, unless there's also a cock in it... (By the way, once you learn, you can take a huge cock this way, bigger than my pussy likes to handle.)

You can also straighten your windpipe by lying on a bed with your head hanging over the side. Then your friend can insert his cock and fuck your mouth. I don't do this anymore because the man has all the control and a guy once shot his come down my throat and I damn near drowned until I got free of him and coughed it out of my lungs! Not fun!
If you're planning on swallowing his come, tell him in advance to let you know when he's about to shoot so you can be sure his cock's not down your throat when he does!

Anytime you read a porn story about how a guy gave a woman so much come that it ran out of her mouth cause she couldn't swallow it all, y'all know that either the person who wrote the story never swallowed any come or she was putting on a show for him, which is a lot of fun! At least I've never gotten that much!

To bring a guy off orally, I like to have him lie back in Hubby's Lazy Boy chair while I kneel between his legs. (Any seat will do in a pinch, tho.) That way I have full access to lick his balls, nibble the head of his cock, whatever I want to do. I keep my hands in constant motion, one jacking him off, the other caressing or just holding his balls, sometimes stroking my clit to keep me warmed up, and I look him in the eye often. (If Hubby is a spectator, and he always is, I like to look him in the eye a lot too. He really gets off on watching me give head and I give him a lot of "I love you" looks while I'm eating another man, or him, for that matter.)

When my friend (Do I need to tell you that this guy needs to be a really good friend?) tells me he's about to come, I slide his cock out of my mouth, place my tongue under the head of his dick, and wiggle it back and forth while continueing to jack him off. The idea is to let him (and Hubby, of course) see his first spurt flying into my open mouth. Then I slide the head up my tongue but I don't take it all the way into my mouth. I purse my lips around the head of his cock, close my teeth together and press my tongue against the back of them so as little come as possible flows through into my mouth and sort of brush my teeth with the head of his dick while he's shooting. (Some guys scream at this point!) With no place else to go, the come seeps out of my lips and starts running down my chin, sometimes even dripping onto my breasts, which I've placed strategically for just that purpose.

You can also brush your cheeks with his spurting cock but that gets pretty messy. If I don't have any make-up on and if I know his wife will want to lick my face, I usually do, but pretty quickly I put it back into my mouth and softly suck on it until he calms down, making a big production of gulping like I'm swallowing gallons of cream. Next I give our friend a big kiss, then Hubby and then I give our friend's wife the opportunity to lick her husband's come off me, if she hasn't already started. That sometimes turns the party in a whole new direction, but usually I can take our friend's place in Hubby's chair and find a volunteer to eat my pussy to similar results.

Smiles,
Wife of Alura

[TNT]

Very instructional post there Mrs. Alura, very good.

I have often heard people say that the way to a mans heart is through his stomach, but I have always said that it was through a good blow job...lol...what do you guys think? Given the choice of the worlds best food or what was described above, which would you chose?

Teresa

[Alura]

Well, Theresa, there's no question in my mind. I'll go for the blow job.

It has been said that the woman who believes that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach is setting her sights too high.

Incidentally, when Napoleon said, "An army travels on it's stomach," he wasn't talking about food. He was referring to the host of "Camp Followers" who were constantly with his armies and consisted of wives and prostitutes. Of course, Napoleon was known to be a pretty horny guy!

Cheers,
Husband of Alura

[pelagic argosy]

Alura, I was going to suggest the technique of lying on your back with your head over the side. I was introduced to this by a guy I hooked up with at a bar. He invited his friends over and they gang banged me on the coffee table.

I'm able to swallow some long guys while deep throating, it's weird because you can't even taste it.

I've only had one very memorable guy who did fill my mouth to overflowing-a true satyr who was able to perform again immediately after ejaculating. We started around two AM and I had to beg him to stop at noon the next day.

Has anyone gotten sick to their stomach after swallowing? After about four or five loads, I start feeling a little woozy and I have to take a break.

[tattooed2some07]

I know some woman can just do this, and others have had to learn the 'art' lol. Any tips or tricks from those who have actually had to work at it?

I'd love to be able to do this for the hubby, and i get pretty damn close, but not quite all the way.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by tattooed2some07

I know some woman can just do this, and others have had to learn the 'art' lol. Any tips or tricks from those who have actually had to work at it?

I'd love to be able to do this for the hubby, and i get pretty damn close, but not quite all the way.

I can do it on a man about 6-7 inches in length and who doesnt attempt to assist. I HATE HATE HATE it when he thinks he is helping by putting his hands on the back of my head and push....for some reason this causes me to have a BITE reflex...lol. I do seriously hate that. I have an easier time because I have never had a strong gag reflex. I am not bothered by strep tests or dental work. If you have a strong gag reflex you need to practice slowly. You just simply relax your lower jaw and your throat. I go to the hilt and then tighten my lips as I pull back.

[lovinher]

Originally Posted by shellym

I can do it on a man about 6-7 inches in length and who doesnt attempt to assist. I HATE HATE HATE it when he thinks he is helping by putting his hands on the back of my head and push....for some reason this causes me to have a BITE reflex...lol.

I will never-ever put my hands on a womans head when getting a BJ.
I promise.

[Sico_tiko]

all the secrets of deep throating is the push of the cock into your mouth as much as u push harder the pleasure is more, dont forget to bite the balls lightly it makes magical difference

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by lovinher

I will never-ever put my hands on a womans head when getting a BJ.
I promise.

LOL, okay call me then lol

[Edison Carter]

Susan here-- I just get very relaxed and allow things to slide easily. Staying relaxed and calm reduces the gag reflex and once you get going and your body realizes it doesn't have to 'defend' itself (which is what the gag reflex is) you can just 'go to town' on his cock. Do tell the man not to grab your head and let you do the work and everything will be fine. If he's not cooperative, then he doesn't deserve the experience.

[woodyxyz]

It is my understanding that some well known porn stars like Oral Annie actually put Vaseline in the back of their throat to ease deep throating......

[cubnamy1995]

Originally Posted by woodyxyz

It is my understanding that some well known porn stars like Oral Annie actually put Vaseline in the back of their throat to ease deep throating......

I'm really more interested in how those carnies can swallow whole swords. I would think that after a 3-foot sharpened blade, most peckers would be a piece of cake.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by lovinher

I will never-ever put my hands on a womans head when getting a BJ.

Actually, I do some times.

It depends on who I am with (do I know them well enough to know they like that) but it can be pretty hot. Frankly, though, it is like a wrestling move - it looks more real than it actually is.

Mrs Spoo can deep throat pretty well - I've seen her do nine inches once! And there are times when I will put my hands on the back of her head and "force" her down. Honestly, she is already going there and I am not really pushing her any further than she is going - in reality, I am simply letting my hands ride down with her

It is sexy and looks very "top" but in reality all I am doing is "role playing".

Other times I will put my hands on the back of a playmates head and just rub their hair. No pushing or forcing involved, just simply touching them. I've never had a problem with this, but then again, I make sure my playmate is pretty comfortable with me before I do it. But typically we are attracted to relaxed, easy going types who don't freak out at everything you do.

Spoomonkey