Ladies, do you like it when its LARGE?

[mfbmfantasycple]

My wife has the most awesome orgasms when I gradually slide her xlarge (8in) vibrating dildo into her wet and waiting pussy. Soon she gets on top and takes it all the way while giving me oral. After many yrs of this, we are in the planning stage for our first MFM experience - set for May/June.

My question, if other factors are generally equal, does bigger get you wild like it does her??

[Vespertine]

In my opinion, bigger does not equate better.

It's not the size of your rod, it's how you wiggle your worm.

[TNT]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

In my opinion, bigger does not equate better.

It's not the size of your rod, it's how you wiggle your worm.

Dito...I have had some awesome times with men who were less than well endowed.

Teresa

[CLITFRIEND]

Considering that the average sizes are generally between 5-7 inches---isnt it a little difficult to find that elusive "Well hung" Individual anyhow?

By the way--I really consider myself to be well hung--since it been hanging pretty well from the moment I was conceived!!!

[traceywitney]

I also say it’s not the size that matters, but the ability to use it.
Personally I only dealt with the average size so far and find those good. However a friend of mine was seeing someone who had a big one and she told me he was no good.
After she broke it off (not because of his inability to perform, but because of other things) she had a 1-night stand with this guy with the small one and she told me the encounter was fantastic!
Our Russian Empress Catherine the great was also a very sexually active lady till her last days and had lots of encounters. There is a legend going in Russia that 1 day she Ordered her servants to bring her a man with the biggest organ. The biggest they could find.
He was found and was brought over to the Empress
He ended up not satisfying her and was ordered to be executed.
I don’t know if it was an actual historical fact or just the legend, but there you go.
Maria.

[JacobSky]

Originally Posted by CLITFRIEND

Considering that the average sizes are generally between 5-7 inches---isnt it a little difficult to find that elusive "Well hung" Individual anyhow?

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I would have also guessed that larger than average cocks would have been harder to come by, but that does not seem to be the case. While 8" + guys are trully the minority in the whole worlds population, there many times more single males with swingers ads than couples or single women. So, there is a larger pool of men to search through.

Size is a variable that makes up lots of fantasies, so it give some people great pleasure to experience it in real life. What turns a person on is what matters most. Size is just one of those things. Apparently it is not the most important, or important at all to some couples.

It is a big factor in my fantatsies. I love to watch.

[JacobSky]

I guess that I love to watch to watch because it is my own personal belief that size can make a difference. It is the fit that matters (in my own view) and not necessarily just bigger is always better. Every woman prefers a different amount of pressure or friction, and every woman is built differently.

That ends up equating to many many different combinations and matches.

Regardless of the physical things, most of the thrill is mental.

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

In my opinion, bigger does not equate better.

It's not the size of your rod, it's how you wiggle your worm.

I agree Ves. I've been with some while fairly well endowed men who didn't do a thing for me because they weren't very good at how to use it or do much of anything else either (i.e. oral). There are many talents that can compensate for the size of the penis whether it's large or small. Bottom line if you don't know what your doing the dimensions don't matter.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[JacobSky]

Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey

Bottom line if you don't know what your doing the dimensions don't matter.

Mrs Spoomonkey

I fully agree with that Mrs. Spoomonkey. Other things are more important than size.

One good analogy that I read once went something like this.

Given the choice between a goofy lover with an 8" penis or a handsome suave lover with a 5" penis, most women would opt for the 5 incher. Yet, if both men were handsome and equally talented lovers, the majority would opt for the 8 incher.

That is a more accurate portrayal of the size importance situation when the women can comfortably accomodate either size.

Size is just another variable, but it sure turns me on.

[JacobSky]

I'm kinda feeling like I didn't read the question well for this thread. I'm sorry for saying so much. You were asking women, and not some guy. Excuse me.

[BaronBgDk]

Ms. Spoomonkey, you hit it on the head..........I have a larger than average rod but it took me years to master gspot stimulation and oral technique!

[willyoats]

I can speak for my wife. She does not like it long. Six inches is more than enough. But the best times have been with "Thick" ones. It's hard to give a numerical figure to thickness. but you know it when you see it. I saw one guy in the hot tube at the club, and after one look at his meat, I knew she would like it. SHE DID!!!

[couplers]

My number of sex partners is limited to three, but I do have an opinion, actually several. Comparing my two long-term, on-going guys, hubby David and Red have almost exactly the same length dicks - the width of my hand plus three fingers from the base of their dicks to just under the head. I would guess slightly over 6 inches. David is much thicker, however. While I can easily get my hand around Red, I can't even come close to touching my thumb to finger when I wrap my hand around David's dick. David is harder to work into my pussy, but I would say he feels better once he is in me. But both can really give me good sex - great orgasms - so size doesn't make that much of a difference, it's everything else from the foreplay to the motion to the dirty talking.


Where it does make a big difference is in anal. Red likes to, so I let him put it in my bum on occasion; it's a long, slow go with lots of lube to make it work. Then for me it is just OK, I can't come that way. But hubby hasn't asked and I would never let him try anal with me anyway, he is just too big around. So the closest he gets is the front end of DP, which is really good for me.


[BTW - My third sex partner, which I never mention since it was pretty bad, was about the same length and the same thickness as Red, but just terrible at sex for other reasons, mostly attitude.]


P.S. - The other girls that hubby has played with (and I have discussed it with each of them and sometimes watched the experience), have all commented that they like his girth.

[Trace Ekies]

Mrs. Ekies found a single male who is fairly large...8 x 6.5...and she really enjoys it.

He's not a really good lover but he'll lay still and let her mount up and grind for as long as she likes.

Give a man like me or some of our "friends" an opportunity to fuck her with that thing and I swear she'd never be the same.

As with most of the ladies who've weighed-in here, she just likes to have sex with men and women who are fun and giving.

Trace

[exploringRM]

Originally Posted by traceywitney

...After she broke it off (not because of his inability to perform, ...
Maria.

broke it off??? ouch!!!!