Things you'll do Behind Closed Doors

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by ins8bl1

Does anyone else do things to their partner that if they thought about it outside of the bedroom situation it might gross them (or others) out?

I came across this post and thought it deserved its own thread. So thank you kindly ins8bl1 for a new interesting topic.

[Vespertine]

Does anyone else do things to their partner that if they thought about it outside of the bedroom situation it might gross them (or others) out?

This can be an embarassing question, so I'll give my answer first.

Salad tossing. Never in a million years would I ever think I could do that. But the reaction I get from my husband when I do that while I'm giving him a hand-job is too good to not do it.

I've never done it with anyone else. Unsure if I would or not.

[warkman]

One of my girlfriends early on did this to me, and after the initial surprise, I nearly went through the roof it was so pleasurable. I tried it on my wife once and she couldn't get past the discomfort with regard to embarassment of how nasty that must be for me - despite my attempts to reassure her that it wasn't. We haven't really gone there since. The reading that I've done makes me wonder what the real risks are to this activity with regard hepititis A, shigella, amebiasis, cryptosporidium, etc. The saran wrap/dental dam solution just doesn't seem to be a good one as far as sensation goes. I don't think I would go there with a playmate other than my wife unless we really trusted them.

[JustAskJulie]

It's one of those things that I wouldn't want to do or have done to me unless whoever it was being done to had just taken a shower or a bath. I've had it done to me a couple of times and enjoyed it quite a bit.


I guess my question is... outside of a bedroom/ sex situation, where/how else would you be doing that? lol.

[warkman]

[quote=JustAskJulie
I guess my question is... outside of a bedroom/ sex situation, where/how else would you be doing that? lol.[/QUOTE]

Exactly, you wouldn't!! At least that's how understand the question. I agree totally with the shower thing Julie. Want to be as clean down there as possible before endulging.

[LikeMinds321]

Okay.

If I don't know. Somebody else doesn't.

What's 'salad tossing?'

And don't give me the clean, doctored-up definition.

Give it to me dirty.

LM

[good times]

I think that would be licking the A-hole LM, also known as analingus. somebody correct me if i'm wrong.

Found a defenition on the net.

Tossing Salad

Refers to male masturbation, female masturbation or contact between one person’s mouth and another person’s anus.

[CB_n_Red]

It strikes me that I learn something new around here every day! I didn't know what was meant by salad tossing either....

Know it by a few other names.

CB

[LikeMinds321]

Thanks good times.

The title doesn't seem to fit the action though.

I really thought somebody would tell me it was pulling feces out of a person's butt and flinging it all around the room while giving the person oral. Now that sounds more like salad tossing to me.

LM

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I guess my question is... outside of a bedroom/ sex situation, where/how else would you be doing that? lol.

Funny.

You know where I was leading with that question!

To put it simply: What type of sexual activity do you engage in (in the bedroom or anyplace else you may be) that you think might make the average person squeamish? Or maybe you found it weird until you tried it.

I want answers people, I know I'm not the only dirty girl on this board!

[BradAndJanet]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

... I really thought somebody would tell me it was pulling feces out of a person's butt and flinging it all around the room while giving the person oral. ...

Now you know that only monkeys do that, right? Perhaps our favorite ones will stop by and give that activity a name for you!

-B

[northindycpl]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I want answers people, I know I'm not the only dirty girl on this board!

Golly! I have nothing more to report... I thought I was a really dirty girl when I wanted to be, but the only salad I have ever tossed is usually covered in poppyseed.

The things you learn here...

[warkman]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Okay.

If I don't know. Somebody else doesn't.

What's 'salad tossing?'

And don't give me the clean, doctored-up definition.

Give it to me dirty.

LM

I find www.urbandictionary.com to be a valuable source when pop colloquialisms confound me. I always knew this activity as "rimming." Go figure!

[xxoticangel]

To be honest there are some things that we do in our bedroom (ie just the two of us) that we don't talk about and would never bring up during conversation with others. One being golden showers, they just sort of happen sometimes when she has an orgasm. Another is when I let her top me with her strap-on, she has to plan it then seduce me but sometimes I give in. I have also developed a hair fetish lately so she indulges me by not shaving during the winter months unless we have someone else scheduled to play with us.

I'm not saying anymore but there are more.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Okay.

If I don't know. Somebody else doesn't.

What's 'salad tossing?'

And don't give me the clean, doctored-up definition.

Give it to me dirty.

LM

I think the comedian Chris Rock helped popularize the phrase in one of his stand-up specials. If you ever get a chance to see the "Tossed Salad Man" segment of this special, don't miss it. Hilarious.