Sexual Icks!

[Tia Vampire]

Anything dealing with body fluids and scat are our icks.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by Tia Vampire

Anything dealing with body fluids and scat are our icks.

What exactly constitutes bodily fluids in your book?

[Tia Vampire]

There is never sperm put on me or in me and we also treat our play partners with the same respect. A wash cloth is kept close by, so if my fiance finger a play partner out, he knows he has to wash his hands before he fingers me out too. We sometimes kiss our patners, but they have to be someone we know well. Absolutely no laying a woman that is on her monthly.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by Tia Vampire

There is never sperm put on me or in me and we also treat our play partners with the same respect. A wash cloth is kept close by, so if my fiance finger a play partner out, he knows he has to wash his hands before he fingers me out too. We sometimes kiss our patners, but they have to be someone we know well. Absolutely no laying a woman that is on her monthly.

Gotcha, I was wondering if sperm was falling in that category so you cleared that up. I'm right there with you on the monthly, I don't care if the other guy is "completely ok" with it or not, I'm not ok with it.

[Miss Sunshine]

scat, bukkake, snowballing, calling me slut, eating pussy with cum in it

[turnuptheheat]

Salad tossing and anal in general.
Sorry, but I like my dirty stuff clean.

[CuriousLeo's]

Mr Leo here... Lots of this stuff would need to be tried by me, before I could rule it out for sure. However, some things I know for sure..
Scat, animals, enemas (and any recycling), smokers-- HUGE ICK for me.. if I can smell your smoky gross breath, dont come near me.
If my partner is into it, Im most likely game to try. On porn, a lot of the activities are made to appear REALLy hot...I cant lie and say they dont get me hot, but to actually try most of them, nah, its probably not going to happen.

I do wonder why so many said M/M activity...With so much bi acceptance of the women, it bugs me to see them say its an "ick"

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by CuriousLeo's

I do wonder why so many said M/M activity...With so much bi acceptance of the women, it bugs me to see them say its an "ick"

MM activity is an ick for us. Smoking is an ick for you (well us too). It has nothing to do with tolerance, its just not something we enjoy seeing or find sexy as a couple.

I personally just get grossed out seeing two men having sex. I view it as appealing as bestiality. Now of course when I say this it gets some bi/gay males all up in arms that I'm comparing homosexual activities to bestiality, but thats not the case at all, I'm just pointing out when I see it, I find it as sexually appealing as bestiality on a personal level. It just triggers an ick reaction.

Now if you were in a swing club, walking into a group room and someone was going down on a poodle, odds are most people would be rather uncomfortable and most likely not return to that club. Again I know its a harsh sounding analogy but I'm trying to convey the feeling something mostly universal in the lack of appeal. This has come up before on these boards and yes there are a number of couples/men/women who feel the same way, its just ick.

But I stress, again, its not a judgment call, its not condemnation, its just that when two women go at it, we think 'nice' and when two men we think 'ick'.

We are just wired that way.