Okay guys, lets talk Stamina!

cpl1355 · 11-22-2004, 07:37 PM

Question for you guys and out there (ladies feel free to chime in too!). My wife and I recently experienced our 6th MFM experience. All have been extremely hot and satisfying not only for us, but for the single too. I have noticed that 3 of the 4 single males that we have played with had some incredible stamina (or I guess what I consider incredible), meaning they were able to fuck for at least one hour without their first orgasm

. Is this normal for most guys? I can honestly say that the longest I have been able to hold out with my beautiful wife has been between 20-25 minutes

. Is there a measurement out there that defines what is normal, abnormal, and what is premature? Don't get me wrong, I loved the fact that these guys could go for so long with my wife. They made her cum three or four times before they each had their first orgasm. The first couple of times I felt kind of jealous in the fact that these guys could satisfy my wife so many times, but I am completely over that (hell, it has made our lovemaking a lot more exciting and to watch her in the throws of passion gets me going anyway). I just want to know how is it possible for these guys to last this long??

THanks!
cpl1355 :

Spoomonkey · 11-22-2004, 07:50 PM

Well - my first question is by "fucking at least one hour" do you mean straight on intercourse? Or do you mean the entire act. including oral, kissing, etc.

If they have been able to enter your wife and thrust steadily for an hour - that is pretty impressive... But as good as that would be, I am thinking some is at risk for a little disc damage... Or - at the very least - possible boredom...

If you mean having sex for over an hour - well that is simply a matter of will power. Being able to have intercourse to your limit, stop, jump over to oral or some other activity that can be quite gratifying...

A quickie for us is about thirty minutes - but I am fortunate that Mrs Spoomonkey is multiorgasmic - so even then, she can finish 5-6 times. Our average evening romp is an hour or more, but that certainly isn't one sustained motion for that long...

Spoomonkey

cpl1355 · 11-22-2004, 08:01 PM

Thanks for the response Spoo, yes, I can honestly say that the three gentleman proceeded to fuck my wife in several different positions for at least an hour. The only time they stopped was to switch postions or to add a little bit more lube. I can think of only one time one of the guys switched to oral for maybe 5-10 minutes, but other than that I am talking straight fucking with no interruptions!

EvilMJ · 11-22-2004, 08:05 PM

I just have to throw my two cents in.

In my past I had a boyfriend that could go for an hour (at least it felt like it) and I gotta tell ya, after a while it got painful. Unless you plan to throw in a bit of oral here (and then again maybe this is just me), I find after a while I need a break, just to jump start things again.

Stamina is great , but when you are getting to the point where you are wondering if he is ever going to finish, then it isn't fun anymore.

cpl1355 · 11-22-2004, 08:11 PM

MJ-
Yeah that is what I thought would happen to my wife being fucked for so long, but our last guy was @ 1.5" longer than me and my wife said it was hitting her spot just right the whole time that it was not painful nor was it boring. She enjoyed the whole hour of pleasure.
I guess maybe its just different strokes for different strokes!
I may need to work on increasing my stamina to keep up with these guys!

EvilMJ · 11-22-2004, 08:16 PM

I don't think you should have to work on keeping up with other people..that's just not worth it. Everyone is unique and has their own techniques.

The guy we play with regularly is a bit longer than hubby and seems to hit that spot pretty good every time. But Hubby can give oral better than anyone I have ever experienced. So I guess in my opinion it all evens out in the end.

WHich is why I think we got into swinging , for different experiences.

I bet your wife thinks you are perfect the way you are!!

Mrs Spoomonkey · 11-22-2004, 08:24 PM

I'm sorry I have to agree with EvilMJ if anyone just does nothing but fuck me for an hour . . . I'd be thinking when are you going to finish already!! One it does start to get sore and another it seems kind of boring. Mr Spoo and I romp around all over each other switching from me giving him

then fucking me, then he goes down on me, then fuck in another position, then some 69.

Plus in answer to your stamina question . . . like Mr Spoo said in his post it helps him wait longer and gives us more time for

Mrs Spoomonkey

Mrs Spoomonkey · 11-22-2004, 08:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

I don't think you should have to work on keeping up with other people..that's just not worth it. Everyone is unique and has their own techniques.

The guy we play with regularly is a bit longer than hubby and seems to hit that spot pretty good every time. But Hubby can give oral better than anyone I have ever experienced. So I guess in my opinion it all evens out in the end.

WHich is why I think we got into swinging , for different experiences.

I bet your wife thinks you are perfect the way you are!!

Evil you are right on tonight on this one - I have to totally Dito what you said.

Don't try to keep up with anyone. Mr Spoo and I have learned some "techniques"along the way like how to do doggie style perfectly from the female half of a couple we were with

Mr Spoo is perfect at oral among many other things I don't ever want him to feel like he has to be like someone else. We got into this because we just wanted to experience different things together not to change the awsome sex life we already had.

Mrs Spoomonkey

cpl1355 · 11-22-2004, 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey

Mr Spoo and I have learned some "techniques"along the way like how to do doggie style perfectly from the female half of a couple we were with.

Mrs Spoo......please elaborate on this......wondering minds would like to know...

Vespertine · 11-22-2004, 08:49 PM

Dito I'm with MJ and Mrs. Spoo.

Nobody's hitting my pretty kitty, nonstop for an hour or more.

Owie.

Spoomonkey · 11-22-2004, 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vespertine

Nobody's hitting my pretty kitty, nonstop for an hour or more.

Vespertine - this is a very sexy "no" in my book...

Wow - I love it...

Spoomonkey

Vespertine · 11-22-2004, 09:02 PM

Meow.

Mrs Spoomonkey · 11-22-2004, 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cpl1355

Mrs Spoo......please elaborate on this......wondering minds would like to know...

I'm not good at describing stuff in writing I am very animated and do better when I can talk and wave my arms around

It is basically instead of just being on your hands and knees you want to slid your knees out to the side a little, this lowers your back side and makes it easier to enter. You also still have good support, then you can either stay on your elbows or I like to just hug a pillow

It's mostly the knees that make the difference. When you spread them out to the side you can adjust your hight for the male.

I hope this helps.

Mrs Spoomonkey

Spoomonkey · 11-22-2004, 09:14 PM

Well - there is more to it... It has to do with really paying attention to angles...

But - at the same time - it really helps to have a really nice "backside" like Mrs Spoo's to work with

Hey, sweetie... Maybe we should post an instructional video...

Spoomonkey

confunktion · 11-22-2004, 10:01 PM

Agreed to all posts so far. The Mrs. can get bored with those who try to hammer away for as long as they can. What is the old saying..."variety is the spice of life"? Well, it's also the spice of one's lovelife. She has told me it hurts after a while of continuous pumping with no variation, and boy, is it boring to watch. Would you want to see a porno like that? Not here.

Being an average guy, I find that I last my longest by varying the tempo, moving from position to position at her request, and taking time out to 69, dedicated oral, and just some nice kissing, cudding, and other play.

BTW Spoomonkey, people would pay for that video, my friend...

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11-22-2004, 07:37 PM	#1 (permalink)
cpl1355 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 23 Location: Midwest USA	Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! Question for you guys and out there (ladies feel free to chime in too!). My wife and I recently experienced our 6th MFM experience. All have been extremely hot and satisfying not only for us, but for the single too. I have noticed that 3 of the 4 single males that we have played with had some incredible stamina (or I guess what I consider incredible), meaning they were able to fuck for at least one hour without their first orgasm . Is this normal for most guys? I can honestly say that the longest I have been able to hold out with my beautiful wife has been between 20-25 minutes . Is there a measurement out there that defines what is normal, abnormal, and what is premature? Don't get me wrong, I loved the fact that these guys could go for so long with my wife. They made her cum three or four times before they each had their first orgasm. The first couple of times I felt kind of jealous in the fact that these guys could satisfy my wife so many times, but I am completely over that (hell, it has made our lovemaking a lot more exciting and to watch her in the throws of passion gets me going anyway). I just want to know how is it possible for these guys to last this long?? THanks! cpl1355 :

11-22-2004, 07:50 PM	#2 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! Well - my first question is by "fucking at least one hour" do you mean straight on intercourse? Or do you mean the entire act. including oral, kissing, etc. If they have been able to enter your wife and thrust steadily for an hour - that is pretty impressive... But as good as that would be, I am thinking some is at risk for a little disc damage... Or - at the very least - possible boredom... If you mean having sex for over an hour - well that is simply a matter of will power. Being able to have intercourse to your limit, stop, jump over to oral or some other activity that can be quite gratifying... A quickie for us is about thirty minutes - but I am fortunate that Mrs Spoomonkey is multiorgasmic - so even then, she can finish 5-6 times. Our average evening romp is an hour or more, but that certainly isn't one sustained motion for that long... Spoomonkey
	__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

11-22-2004, 08:01 PM	#3 (permalink)
cpl1355 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 23 Location: Midwest USA	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! Thanks for the response Spoo, yes, I can honestly say that the three gentleman proceeded to fuck my wife in several different positions for at least an hour. The only time they stopped was to switch postions or to add a little bit more lube. I can think of only one time one of the guys switched to oral for maybe 5-10 minutes, but other than that I am talking straight fucking with no interruptions!

11-22-2004, 08:05 PM	#4 (permalink)
EvilMJ Pure Evil..In a cute suit Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! I just have to throw my two cents in. In my past I had a boyfriend that could go for an hour (at least it felt like it) and I gotta tell ya, after a while it got painful. Unless you plan to throw in a bit of oral here (and then again maybe this is just me), I find after a while I need a break, just to jump start things again. Stamina is great , but when you are getting to the point where you are wondering if he is ever going to finish, then it isn't fun anymore.
	__________________ "Well! Evil to some is always good to others." - Jane Austen

11-22-2004, 08:11 PM	#5 (permalink)
cpl1355 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 23 Location: Midwest USA	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! MJ- Yeah that is what I thought would happen to my wife being fucked for so long, but our last guy was @ 1.5" longer than me and my wife said it was hitting her spot just right the whole time that it was not painful nor was it boring. She enjoyed the whole hour of pleasure. I guess maybe its just different strokes for different strokes! I may need to work on increasing my stamina to keep up with these guys!

11-22-2004, 08:16 PM	#6 (permalink)
EvilMJ Pure Evil..In a cute suit Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! I don't think you should have to work on keeping up with other people..that's just not worth it. Everyone is unique and has their own techniques. The guy we play with regularly is a bit longer than hubby and seems to hit that spot pretty good every time. But Hubby can give oral better than anyone I have ever experienced. So I guess in my opinion it all evens out in the end. WHich is why I think we got into swinging , for different experiences. I bet your wife thinks you are perfect the way you are!!
	__________________ "Well! Evil to some is always good to others." - Jane Austen

11-22-2004, 08:24 PM	#7 (permalink)
Mrs Spoomonkey Disney!All rides are open Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 1,758 Location: Ohio Status: Married Swing Lifestyle Name:spoomonkey	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! I'm sorry I have to agree with EvilMJ if anyone just does nothing but fuck me for an hour . . . I'd be thinking when are you going to finish already!! One it does start to get sore and another it seems kind of boring. Mr Spoo and I romp around all over each other switching from me giving him then fucking me, then he goes down on me, then fuck in another position, then some 69. Plus in answer to your stamina question . . . like Mr Spoo said in his post it helps him wait longer and gives us more time for Mrs Spoomonkey
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11-22-2004, 08:49 PM	#10 (permalink)
Vespertine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,688 Location: Shangri La Status: Happily Married	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! Dito I'm with MJ and Mrs. Spoo. Nobody's hitting my pretty kitty, nonstop for an hour or more. Owie.
	__________________ Ves The art of life lies in taking pleasures as they pass, and the keenest pleasures are not intellectual, nor are they always moral.

11-22-2004, 09:02 PM	#12 (permalink)
Vespertine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,688 Location: Shangri La Status: Happily Married	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! Meow.
	__________________ Ves The art of life lies in taking pleasures as they pass, and the keenest pleasures are not intellectual, nor are they always moral.

11-22-2004, 09:14 PM	#14 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! Well - there is more to it... It has to do with really paying attention to angles... But - at the same time - it really helps to have a really nice "backside" like Mrs Spoo's to work with Hey, sweetie... Maybe we should post an instructional video... Spoomonkey
	__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

11-22-2004, 10:01 PM	#15 (permalink)
confunktion This Village's Idiot Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 358 Location: Wisconsin Status: Male, happily spoken for	Re: Okay guys, lets talk Stamina! Agreed to all posts so far. The Mrs. can get bored with those who try to hammer away for as long as they can. What is the old saying..."variety is the spice of life"? Well, it's also the spice of one's lovelife. She has told me it hurts after a while of continuous pumping with no variation, and boy, is it boring to watch. Would you want to see a porno like that? Not here. Being an average guy, I find that I last my longest by varying the tempo, moving from position to position at her request, and taking time out to 69, dedicated oral, and just some nice kissing, cudding, and other play. BTW Spoomonkey, people would pay for that video, my friend...
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