Okay guys, lets talk Stamina!

[CB_n_Red]

Originally Posted by bushwhacker_tx

I find the longer I hold off cumming the harder it is for me to cum. I don't know if this is common but it is a bit of a disadvantage because the lady can't be completely spent. She has to be prepared for me to ride her hard at the end of the play session, in order for me to cross the finish line. So far, I have always crossed the finish line last !

Any of you other guys have this problem after holding off for very long?

Mr. Bushwhacker_tx

Yes, exactly the same. Particularly when I'm with a new partner. Rarely a problem when I'm with Red

CB

[Dr Jekyll]

Yep, I have found that with a new partner it is sometimes almost (if not) impossible to orgasm. I have once gone through more than an hour of intercourse (in many different positions) before calling it quits, no orgasm for me, and I WANTED it . Of course this leads to many other issues, but that's not the topic at hand. This may be at play with CPL1355's playmates too.

Originally Posted by CPL1355

All have been extremely hot and satisfying not only for us, but for the single too.
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They made her cum three or four times before they each had their first orgasm.
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I can honestly say that the three gentleman proceeded to fuck my wife in several different positions for at least an hour.
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it was hitting her spot just right the whole time that it was not painful nor was it boring. She enjoyed the whole hour of pleasure.

I have to say, somewhere along the line something went amiss here, didn't he say that the Ms enjoys her sessions with these guys? What happened to different strokes for different folks? Yes, he needen't worry about his own stamina, but at the same time, as long as she's enjoying it, why not go for it?

P.S. Where can I get my hands on this video???

[Southern Lady]

I think an hour with one might be a little long, but maybe some drugs are in the system like the V pill.

[mmsweetf]

Sometimes the mood just takes me and I enjoy pounding the missus for a *really* long time (no artificial chemicals)... like I read in this thread, it's the zen of the situation, because sometimes I'm done in a few seconds (also w/the missus). it is *so* great just 'doing it' that I don't care if I don't cum. A coupla three hours is the most. Great workout too, for me. The view is terrific while I'm thus engaged too! It builds up for the next session, so she gets it with interest then

I can't say how it might be with someone else - we're sort of interested but have not taken the plunge into actively seeking others to play with. It does sound like fun, but we're going very slowly into it (if ever)

[erotichugs]

for the Mrs. is about how long does it take to get her totally and fully satisfied both physically and emotionally... :-)
Thats what I concentrate on.. dont want to make her totally sore that it becomes un enjoyable.. so, sometimes it does take a long time, she has wanted to be pounded for over an hour sometimes it takes 15 minutes to hit ALL her spots for different orgasms...
During this whole process, I do Orgasm (a lot different than ejaculating)...
sometimes, I just dont want to ejaculate!! cause ejaculating is the END and I just dont want it to end.. so after the Mrs. has had her FILL I take my time in motions I enjoy :-)

in a swinging situation it is a lot different.. there is a lot more stimulations going on.. new sensations.. new people.. so over an hour of pounding does not seem out of the ordinary..

[SecretAsianMan]

Ah ... you refer to the gentlemen who are practiced in the fine art of "IRON COCK" -Kung Fu.

(*laughing*)

Yes, I've seen it happen where a gal is getting POUNDED on by a gentleman and he's going & going & GOING & GOING... and you just start checking the clock because your brain cannot figure out how he's still going after all this time and HOUR hand on the clock has started moving!

At first, you start to cheer the guy on ... because, damn, that's impressive ... but then you start to just feel bad for the gal because she's not going to be able to walk after that! (And when it happens at a party - I don't consider that good "party-sharing" because it monopolizes a gal's entire night at the party & pretty much ruins her for the rest of the night)

How do these guys do it?

... some may have already cum earlier that evening (I know that I need a LOT more time to get off the second or third time around).

... some may actually practice tantric sex techniques which get them to the point where they don't ejaculate. (part of this involves strengthening the PC-Muscles (I think that's what they call it) - similar to kegel exercises in women - so that they can hold off their ejaculations & "shoot across the room" when they do cum)

... some may be riding "the blue pill" (viagra) or using some other erectile enhancement drug - which, from what I've heard, can let you maintain erections - but can make it very difficult to achieve orgasm & ejaculation.

... I've seen some guys at parties with cock-rings in place which restrict the blood flow back out of the penis - which lets them maintain erections for prolonged periods.

However they manage to achieve this "Iron Cock" Kung Fu ... they need to be sure that their partners are okay with that as well.


(Incidently - 20 to 25 minutes is perfectly adequate for MOST of the women I've ever been with)

[lardub]

Well in my younger days I had the premature problem, and so I would hold off for as long as i could as that was what was expected or so I thought. Now I'm older and I do have orgasms just no ejaculate and I tend to get to that point then it stops I think its a learned process and now its very hard to turn it off.
In a club I find I'm just about to cum and I will see something off to the side or some one talking and its gone. Subconciously i think I'm so used to trying to please that now I do it without thinking and yes it can get frustrating for me as well as my partner. I can honestly say without regret that I can orgasm without cumming, so much like a women who is a squirter not all orgasms end with something to clean up.

I really hope I'm able to get my point across here, that a cumshot isn't the only sign of an orgasm in some men or perhaps I'm just strange..

[MrsHidalgo]

In our younger days (I'm 52, H is 56) we would screw for an hour or more non-stop .... and it was GOOOOOOOD.

Now, I'm MUCH more into stroking, kissing, feeling, and changing positions than going for "endurance pounding".

Honestly, after about 30 minutes of steady "pounding", I'll push you off just to get a position change, lol. Changing positions keeps the juices flowing and gets me rubbed in different ways.

Anything over 45 minutes in one position in NOT going to get me an orgasm.

So to answer your original question ... YES, there are and will always be men out there who can go at it for what seems like an eternity. But take my word for it ... "Most" of us gals would rather have some variety and position changes to keep us interested.

[Trace Ekies]

Mrs. Ekies does not like to be pounded for short or long periods...she likes to grind.

If you're 6 to 8 inches...go deep and grind against her clit...if you're over 8 lay on your back and allow her to mount-up and grind so she can control depth...her cervix is sensitive and must be treated properly...

If you put her on her back and pound for an hour you'll lose her...it doesn't touch all the right spots in sufficient quantity or quality to send her over the edge.

I have had moments where I could go on and on...a couple of drinks and a condom will do it almost every time...I have many experiences where I couldn't cum...it got too late and I was de-sensitized from all of the sensations from the previous two hours.

It has been my experience that most women want to play in a given position for a few minutes and then switch...which is what I like...I had one of my favorites ask me why I didn't fuck her on her kitchen counter again...ah, variety!

I simply can't do the ol' in-and-out for an hour...or even half an hour. If I cross paths with a woman who only likes straight pounding for an hour she's gonna be disappointed. I will do my best but it's just not my strong suit.

Trace

[appliancesex]

Originally Posted by bushwhacker_tx

The last marathon Mrs. Bushwhacker and I had was when we visited a local on-premise club on a very slow Friday night. They had just got their new Swing and we got to break it in exclusively for the evening ! It was our first time using a Swing and it was great ! We tried every position we could think of and played for nearly two hours !!! We had to work the next morning so we quit when it got late and time for us to go home. We could have played longer. I was not just pounding her in one position for the whole time! We did oral, changed which one of us was in the swing, etc.

I take a low dose of Viagra when we go out to play. The Mrs. likes to ride a long time and has many orgasams and fortunately I can keep playing for a long time. I lose count of her orgasms - wear earplugs Surrender.

I find the longer I hold off cumming the harder it is for me to cum. I don't know if this is common but it is a bit of a disadvantage because the lady can't be completely spent. She has to be prepared for me to ride her hard at the end of the play session, in order for me to cross the finish line. So far, I have always crossed the finish line last !

Any of you other guys have this problem after holding off for very long?

Mr. Bushwhacker_tx

i've never met anyone with the same situation as me! (i, um, wouldn't call it a problem) awesome!

before i met p, i had a nasty habit of lasting forever. she's the only woman (or man for that matter) i've ever been with i can come easily from. everyone else, gloved or otherwise, it takes me an inordinate amount of time.

back in the day i've lasted roughly three hours before, but that's mostly because of whiskey dick. i don't get soft, i just lose all my sensation. blood stays where it needs to. at that point, its not enjoyable for either of us. it starts to hurt, but like i say, i'm drunk so whatever. and she is determined to make me cum if she has to hold a seminar at the hyatt for my sperm to attend.

these days when it happens (usually not because of booze but because i get shy around people), i tell the woman to think of me as a sex toy and i'm here just for her. because in all honesty, i'm completely useless at that point otherwise.

[mmsweetf]

Originally Posted by erotichugs

for the Mrs. is about how long does it take to get her totally and fully satisfied both physically and emotionally... :-)
Thats what I concentrate on.. dont want to make her totally sore that it becomes un enjoyable.. so, sometimes it does take a long time, she has wanted to be pounded for over an hour sometimes it takes 15 minutes to hit ALL her spots for different orgasms...
During this whole process, I do Orgasm (a lot different than ejaculating)...
sometimes, I just dont want to ejaculate!! cause ejaculating is the END and I just dont want it to end.. so after the Mrs. has had her FILL I take my time in motions I enjoy :-)

in a swinging situation it is a lot different.. there is a lot more stimulations going on.. new sensations.. new people.. so over an hour of pounding does not seem out of the ordinary..

Well, it can take seconds, minutes, hours, an evening, a weekend... or a decade! No one correct answer...

on the stamina thing (and boredom/dryness) I try to be aware of that and vary/stop/lubricate/joke/tell about what is happening then & there/change positions/develop a fantasy, etc, etc as people on here discuss. This few of hour thing is *highly* unusual for us, I was just responding to the question.

[ENCRYPTEDTX]

There have been lots of great responses to this topic.

Let me see if I can add a few points from a single guys perspective:

Newness- The experience for the guys were new. Your wife was foreign to them, so this may have contributed to their abilities to last longer.

Emotions- Since there was not the "emotional" ties to your wife, they could have been able to last quite a bit longer. We all know that emotional, heart felt sex can drive a guy to the brink in a hurry.

Condoms- A condom will de-sensitize things quite a bit leading to more stamina. Some condoms actually have so de-sensitizing agents in them so they are able to delay release.

Another Guy-Another point is that in a MFM situation, some guys are not 100% fully relaxed and will delay orgasm. They are able to maintain erection and go through the physical motions.

My thoughts on sex for an hour:

Isnt it supposed to last that long?

You dont buy a new sports car from a dealer and have it towed home do you? You drive it around town a few times or until it runs out of gas!

Each partner and each experience are different. Others have mentioned the guy "pumping" away for an hour....like an oil rig maybe? I have to agree this would get old in a few short minutes. I dont see how the male or your wife were pleasured by that.

Variety of motion/speed, depth of penetration, and a couple position changes will eat up the better part of an hour when I am with a partner I am "in tune" with.

I would consider yourself lucky as many here can post horror stories of meeting single guys.

Kyle

[sweet_tna]

Hmm . . . I haven't run into too many guys that can "pound away" for an hour or so. While I could probably go for that long if really wound up, there would at least have to be position changes every now and then.

If you're talking about the whole shebang*, foreplay included, then it's not unusual at all. I rather enjoy drawing foreplay out as long as I possibly can, bringing the guy to the edge of orgasm and backing off/changing techniques. That can often cause the guy to pop pretty quickly--which is fine, 'cause that triggers another orgasm for me.

*pun intended

=)

[twohots4u2]

Most guys don't last more than a few minutes the first time with Mrs. TwoHots because she is so tight, and by the time she is ready for action they are ready to pop. Second time around most of them can last a while, but we have only encountered one guy who lasted an hour. Afterwards he told us that he jacked off twice that morning to make sure that he was able to last a long time. Unfortunately, while he could go a second round, there was no third round left in him.

[MrsPandMe]

Well, there's two things at play here, pure stamina and concentration. I consider stamina the physical ability to exert yourself for a period of time.

For me, concentration is what allows me to control my orgasm, for the most part. Communication is another one, especially if she's on top. By far the most important part of it though is knowlege of my body and a lot of practice! Oddly enough, masterbation is a great way to learn your ENTIRE orgasm timeline, which really starts long before you get close to the edge. Once you know what makes you cum, you can try to experiment with things that will hold you short of the "point of no return". Every man is different, so telling you what works for me would be pointless. In any event, the GREAT thing about mastering this isn't so much controlling when not to cum, but rather controlling when you DO cum... Most woman I have been with WANT you to cum. She feels as much satisfaction getting your rock off as you do getting hers off, so imagine being able to say to her "would you like me to cum", her eyes lighting up, and then cumming with her next orgasm! That last one is kinda hard if you're with someone new (everyone's orgasm is different and not always obvious, unless she squirts).

Bottom line, practice practice practice.. Know thy dick, and use masterbation for something other then just simply rubbing one out!

Mr.P