Okay guys, lets talk Stamina!

[JustAskJulie]

An hour! This is a discussion I've had with a few guys, I think I would go insane if a guy I was with went an hour (of just fucking) without orgasming. I'd be dying and dry!

[good times]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Hey, sweetie... Maybe we should post an instructional video...

Hey, now your talking.

[magnum]

Originally Posted by cpl1355

Question for you guys and out there (ladies feel free to chime in too!). My wife and I recently experienced our 6th MFM experience. All have been extremely hot and satisfying not only for us, but for the single too. I have noticed that 3 of the 4 single males that we have played with had some incredible stamina (or I guess what I consider incredible), meaning they were able to fuck for at least one hour without their first orgasm . Is this normal for most guys? I can honestly say that the longest I have been able to hold out with my beautiful wife has been between 20-25 minutes . Is there a measurement out there that defines what is normal, abnormal, and what is premature? Don't get me wrong, I loved the fact that these guys could go for so long with my wife. They made her cum three or four times before they each had their first orgasm. The first couple of times I felt kind of jealous in the fact that these guys could satisfy my wife so many times, but I am completely over that (hell, it has made our lovemaking a lot more exciting and to watch her in the throws of passion gets me going anyway). I just want to know how is it possible for these guys to last this long??

THanks!
cpl1355 :

I will have to agree with Spoomonkey, I can go for a long time but I have to stop just before I cum and switch positions, do oral etc.to prolong the fun before cumming if I plan on going for an hour. The only other time I can actually go an hour w/o cumming is if I have had a little smoke "420" before hand.

Magnum

[curious24]

So ladies.... how long is too long? For me once sex actually starts I try to at least let the lady get her thrills a few times before I cum.

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by curious24

So ladies.... how long is too long? For me once sex actually starts I try to at least let the lady get her thrills a few times before I cum.

I don't necesssarily think there is a "too long" on time if your trying to let the lady get her thrills. I think the point is that if all the guy is doing is fucking without stopping to do anything else (i.e. oral) then the lady probably isn't getting her thrills and is dry and starting to get sore.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[willygoat1]

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May an old goat toss his two cents into the mix? soapbox
---- (You know I will anyway.) <EG>

Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey

I don't necesssarily think there is a "too long" on time if your trying to let the lady get her thrills. I think the point is that if all the guy is doing is fucking without stopping to do anything else (i.e. oral) then the lady probably isn't getting her thrills and is dry and starting to get sore.

Mrs Spoomonkey

In my bygone youth,I thought that "long and hard" was all important.
And also, if it was good for me it must be good for her as well.

After awhile it becomes obvious that a mans greatest sensation is feeling his lady's thrills as often as possible. facelick

Therefore, with age a man should rejoice in the need to become more of an oral animal. --- And always remember, sex may be a marathon but it should be a pleasureable marathon NOT an indurance contest.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by willygoat1

In my bygone youth,I thought that "long and hard" was all important. And also, if it was good for me it must be good for her as well.

Amen, brother!

I am still a bit of a pup at 35 - and even though I can for a long time when I am in the mood, I am well aware that a woman's body is not simply an "insert here" type of machine... It can be as complex as a calculated moon shot.

I am impressed that these guys could go an hour or more in one direction... Not a bad physical feat... But at the same time I know that they have a LOT to learn...

Spoomonkey

[Denver2some]

I agree with the others ... don't try to compete with anyone. Viva la difference!

Also keep in mind that in your MFMs, the other guy has a lot of things on his mind that can be keeping his brain busy. "Does she like what I'm doing?" "Does the husband look happy with things?" "Is it time to switch positions?" "Have I overstayed my welcome?" And etc. He's not always able to just kick back and enjoy the sensation of sex. Those that can get and keep an erection may still experience a type of stage fright that makes it harder for them to come. (This type is really common in women, I think.)

I think that too much stamina in a swinging setting can be awkward. Not only can "Superman" make his partner sore, but his wife and the other husband may eventually become bored or impatient waiting for him to finish. And the other husband, if he is a newbie, may feel Superman has made him look too quick. Mr. D2S has great concentration and can go forever ... but in swap situations, he reminds himself to "let go," so that the overall timing is more in sync.

[akamgaxoxo]

I would think it would be a very uncomfortable situation if a playmate went at it with me for an hour...especially in front of my hubby. We tend to play for a while, oral or touching, foreplay of all kinds, and then when we can't stand it is when we break out the condoms and go. But, it would make my hubby very uncomfy to watch my friend go at it with me for an hour, not to mention that I would be getting sore.....that's just a little too much for me!

[willygoat1]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Amen, brother!

I am impressed that these guys could go an hour or more in one direction... Not a bad physical feat... But at the same time I know that they have a LOT to learn...

Spoomonkey

Dito

I am impressed??? also.

But then, I wonder about the pills that they may be taking.

[curiousagain]

Two things.

#1If you are humping it for an hour without stopping and she only has 4 orgasms, Spoomonkey is right, there's a lot ot learn there.

#2 What is the web addy where we can preorder this instructional videotape? I am pretty sure what Mrs. Spoomonkey meant and yeah, it works, but it never hurts to be sure. <EG>

[Spoomonkey]

You can send your preorder at www.spoomonkeydoggiestyle.com.

Spoomonkey

PS - Just so you are aware, the site has crashed due to unexpected high traffic... But keep clicking... Operators are standing by...

[DBL D]

I'm not ready to post yet but sure am enjoying the heck out of you guys!

Y're Fonny.

Male D

[ctlaltdel]

I've noticed that with different partners, I might get just 10 or 15 minutes prior to an orgasm, and with others, I might go more than even a full hour. Time spent swapping positions, etc., factor in there. Who knows? A little rest from time to time, that zen moment of just enjoying what you're doing, where you're at, and who you're with, can really significantly extend the time.

[bushwhacker_tx]

The last marathon Mrs. Bushwhacker and I had was when we visited a local on-premise club on a very slow Friday night. They had just got their new Swing and we got to break it in exclusively for the evening ! It was our first time using a Swing and it was great ! We tried every position we could think of and played for nearly two hours !!! We had to work the next morning so we quit when it got late and time for us to go home. We could have played longer. I was not just pounding her in one position for the whole time! We did oral, changed which one of us was in the swing, etc.

I take a low dose of Viagra when we go out to play. The Mrs. likes to ride a long time and has many orgasams and fortunately I can keep playing for a long time. I lose count of her orgasms - wear earplugs Surrender.

I find the longer I hold off cumming the harder it is for me to cum. I don't know if this is common but it is a bit of a disadvantage because the lady can't be completely spent. She has to be prepared for me to ride her hard at the end of the play session, in order for me to cross the finish line. So far, I have always crossed the finish line last !

Any of you other guys have this problem after holding off for very long?

Mr. Bushwhacker_tx